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Posted: 18 years ago
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I was just wondering this, do girls like Anu exist in this world????😕Maybe because I was brought up in the US, but it seems weird to me that Anu and even Pari (WRWMK) take all the crap that is always thrown at them. I know Sahara One is women centric, but most of their women leads (Pari, Kakul(GES)) are shown to be weak and submissive, Anu topping the list. How can a person be so nice??? Being sympathetic and caring are good characteristics😊 but there has to be a limit to it😕. I know Anu's character is suppose to be so innocent, but they should at least show her wisening up. She listens to all the crap Padmani says without even saying a word😡😡...hello the woman keeps on treathening to ruin your life..I would take it seriously. And now she hands over her life to Neha without even listening to what Chaitanya has to say😡. Why is she always strong when she has to stand against Chaitanya, but weak in front of others?????

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Same thing is bothering mee too How can a women be so weak like Anu,Atleast one or the other day looking around other women being so wisely behaving with her she will definetly become strong to protect herself.Indian women are called for their bravary but this writters are creating such a weak characters for women.

One way the writters create the evil women to be stronger than the nice women. Our Indian soaps are role models of our traditions ,Is this the traditons we are passing to the comming generations,I dont know Is Arunaji is really watching how her serial is going down,She herself being a strong women how can she creates a caracter like Anu being so weak 😭
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: y_tanuja



One way the writters create the evil women to be stronger than the nice women. Our Indian soaps are role models of our traditions ,Is this the traditons we are passing to the comming generations,I dont know Is Arunaji is really watching how her serial is going down,She herself being a strong women how can she creates a caracter like Anu being so weak 😭

Definetly agree....Arooniji herself plays these headstrong, and brave characters but I guess she didn't pass any of those traits onto Anu when she came up with the serial. I realize that Anu's is suppose to be shown weak, but there is a breaking point to everything, if I was her I would gone crazy long time ago.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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The worst thing is the woman is tortured in the serials by other women. And women are the big audience who watch these soaps. May be we are not aware of presence of girls like Anu in real world. May be there are girls like Anu in many households. There are women who are killed because of dawry by their in-laws.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: bsbgirl

I was just wondering this, do girls like Anu exist in this world????😕Maybe because I was brought up in the US, but it seems weird to me that Anu and even Pari (WRWMK) take all the crap that is always thrown at them. I know Sahara One is women centric, but most of their women leads (Pari, Kakul(GES)) are shown to be weak and submissive, Anu topping the list. How can a person be so nice??? Being sympathetic and caring are good characteristics😊 but there has to be a limit to it😕. I know Anu's character is suppose to be so innocent, but they should at least show her wisening up. She listens to all the crap Padmani says without even saying a word😡😡...hello the woman keeps on treathening to ruin your life..I would take it seriously. And now she hands over her life to Neha without even listening to what Chaitanya has to say😡. Why is she always strong when she has to stand against Chaitanya, but weak in front of others?????

Thats b'coz when ppl cheat or hate you ...& you know that...[for example]..Padmini does all bad things to Anu ...why should Anu bother about what Padmini says to her..Padmini is no one.....u wont pay much importance to it.

But when ppl whom you love & trust blindly ..cheat you [directly or indirectly] ..then it will hurt the most.. ..it feels as though they have betrayed ur trust...& thats why Anu is so angry with Chet......coz she had loved Chet with all her might ...& when she came to know that he cheated her..she just couldn't bear it..

Now what would have Chet lost if he would have told her the truth before?...Ofcourse Anu wud feel sad..but not as hurt as this! ...or maybe Chet wud have earned more respect in her sight ...b'coz of his honesty..

Edited by Cool_Dipti - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I agree with Cool-Dipti,because JESSA MOHABBET HOTI HAI OS PAR HAQ BEH HOTA HAI NARAZ HONAI KA.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Ok if along those line...who we love, we have a right to be angry with, right?? But Anu loves her father so much, maybe even more than Chaitanya, but she never gets angry with him? She loves Ridhma and maya, but never seems to talk back to them, or put them down?

I understand all your points, but they should keep it consistent..right??
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Aun is personality is that of who loves everyone(example Neha).But the two people, for who she would give her life,are her father and Chait.But in our culture and custom,we don't allow any arguments with our dads.Therefore she didn't say anything to her dad,but she got really hurt everytime when he said manhoos,APNI MAA KO KHA GAI.
But everybody knows that,we argue with our husbands.So Anu did the samething.Why did Chait hide his first love marrige,its cheating, marrige is not a affair.Anu asked him several times,if he was hiding something.He always said no.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: bsbgirl

Ok if along those line...who we love, we have a right to be angry with, right?? But Anu loves her father so much, maybe even more than Chaitanya, but she never gets angry with him? She loves Ridhma and maya, but never seems to talk back to them, or put them down?

I understand all your points, but they should keep it consistent..right??

Your exactly true......but tell me one thing...Anu loves her dad & respects him...& I do not know about you..but in India..according to our customs..Its our duty to respect our elders no matter what they do...or what they say ...

But when someone of ur age-group ..cheats u ..[especially someone whom u trust blindly upon].do u think you'll keep quiet???...tell me.....If u think Practically ..thats impossible!..we aren't Gods..or angels to forgive everyone ...So is the same with Anu...

And has Vikram ever cheated Anu for which she has to get angry with him???.whereas he hardly looks at her....Lets leave Vikram..... now Maya ,Nani & Riddhima ..they have cheated Anu several times..But Anu is aware of what kind of people they are..atleast they do not have the habit of playing games behind her back..atleast this way ..they are fair ..Chet has played with Anu's life..Used her as some Tissue paper & throws her off!.& I think ur aware of this..

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: samia siddiqui

Aun is personality is that of who loves everyone(example Neha).But the two people, for who she would give her life,are her father and Chait.But in our culture and custom,we don't allow any arguments with our dads.Therefore she didn't say anything to her dad,but she got really hurt everytime when he said manhoos,APNI MAA KO KHA GAI.
But everybody knows that,we argue with our husbands.So Anu did the samething.Why did Chait hide his first love marrige,its cheating, marrige is not a affair.Anu asked him several times,if he was hiding something.He always said no.

Thank u so much Samia😊..You got it exactly right!😳..Marriage is not an affiar..nor is it a child's play..

Edited by Cool_Dipti - 18 years ago

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