Duty as a Wife or Mother?

I'm kinda disappointed with Leela today. She automatically agreed to do all the rituals with RT again today and I know that doesn't change that much, but I felt like she shouldn't have, not as a mother. Twinkle has no clue that her father is back, he never passed away and he left them alone most of her life. Twinkle lives for her mother, so how can Leela "renew" her rishta to the man Twinkle, forget forgiven, doesn't even know about? I felt as a mother Leela shouldn't have agreed until Twinkle was in the knowing. But then I feel bad at my thinking and say we can't blame her as she is his wife. She lived her youth as a widow and now her hubby is back, wanting to become a part of her life and she ofc craves companionship no matter what.

I really would love to hear what you guys think about this!

Okay I know RT annoys us all because he has the weirdest expressions and overall presence, but like NO YOU DON'T TELL YOUR DAUGHTER YOU ARE HER FATHER LIKE THAT. His expression was so angry and tone so aggressive. Twinkle has every right, more right than he does or ever will have because he left them, to speak to her mother. Even if she asks "Aap kaun hote hai beech main bolne wale?!" that does not mean you throw it in her face! I felt so bad for Twinkle in that moment :/

Ive been disappointed and irritated with leela for over a week now.

Yes you are right She is wrong as a mother but as a wife she is right. She gets her husband back after long time it's not wrong agree to do all the rituals but yes she should tell everything to Twinkle first at this point she is wrong .

Leela as a character was most beautiful but sometime it is destroyed very badly it was destroyed 3 time firstly when she blackmailed with poison then she broke relationship with twink and now completely by forgiving the man who has left u and ur daughter alone and moreover giving more importance to that very man than ur own daughter