Who loves more? - Page 3

Originally posted by: harisha_kb

By the way answer for ur post is none.

Pragya loves a person who is expressive and honest, who is impulse and short tempered.
Abhi loves a person who is secretive, who is calm and sweet.

Their are good in their way of love and fail in their partner's way of love. 😆

Lol enough for now 😆

Originally posted by: NasreenAyesha

None and both sowmy.
You're confusing.
Their feedback of their love is truly they didn't understand much amd trusted each other

Originally posted by: Pragz10

They both are equally in love, but have very different forms and perspectives of love.

Pragya-She has loved him since he helped her family in saving the marriage hall. I always feel like she fell in love with him pretty abruptly and a little too soon. Yes, he had helped out her family a couple of times, but so had she. Anyways, until the LM track, she has always believed in unrequited love. Sure, she dreamed of Abhi loving her back, but in almost every track (MMS, kidnapping, pregnancy), she was accepting of never getting back his love and only living with his memories. That arises somewhere from her insecurities of the past, where everyone rejected her (I kinda wish they would bring up more about her past sometimes). And like someone mentioned above, she is selfless in love. Furthermore, she has almost lost her identity as a person (literally after LM) in trying to solve all of Abhi's problems. And while many say she hasn't helped him, I tend to disagree. She helped him multiple times prior to the kidnapping track, she was equally involved in all the ways they survived the kidnapping track, and while it wasn't her business, she decided to stay and help Abhi during the pregnancy track. Were they successful? Ehh...no. But she did stay back and tried to help in all of their passive techniques. Even now, she is technically trying to help him, though we may not agree with her ways (and I agree, as Fuggy, had she come back and told Abhi about Aliya and Tanu, he would have believed her then..but Daddi and that ME😡). And finally, what I love most is the fact that Pragya has come to love Abhi...not just Abhishek. She hated the rockstar, but with time, they managed to slowly show how she came to respect all aspects of him.

Abhi-He realized he was in love on D-day 😆and that confirmation started settling through the pregnancy track. However, I've always seen Abhi as the one who's more attached to Pragya, who was always attracted to her from the beginning. No, it wasn't love at first sight, but I'd like to think he had feelings for her before she did, just never realized it. He treated Pragya badly, but the times that he helped her out or her family out were the snippets where we as an audience, and even Pragya, got to know that he's good at heart. Did those actions prove he cared for Pragya specifically? No, I'm sure had Jhanki been falling off the cliff during the kidnapping track, Abhi still would have come in front to save her...it just showed that Abhi is more than a rockstar; there is this very human, good-hearted side of him. And we got to see his loving side during the pregnancy track, where he was at her side 24/7. Unlike Pragya, Abhi believes in reciprocated love-he wants to be loved back and when he doesn't see that, it scares him. He's a rockstar, he's used to everyone loving him back regardless of what he does. So the thought that Pragya may not love him is super new to him. Unlike Pragya, he is selfish in love, and he won't give up everything for her, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. What I'd like to see develop in Abhi is that he loves Pragya...not just Fuggy. Because in Abhi's perspective, Fuggy is the girl who loved him (again, the reciprocated love). It has been shown multiple times that more than his property, he is bothered by the fact that she doesn't love him. I'm not saying to love LM, but he has to stop decompartmentalizing Pragya.

While they've both had someone special in their lives before, this is their first relationship where they realize its love. And neither is doing a great job right now loll. Both have positives and negatives in their perspective of love. What I'd like to see is for them to seperate and then begin the relationship through courting. Do they have to be married right away? Can they actually first figure each other out and then get remarried?😳

I'm sorry, once I talk, I blabber.😆

Originally posted by: wickedlyunique

There is no right or wrong way to love someone.

Abhi and Pragya love each other equally. They just have different ways of feeling it and expressing it.

What ABHIGYA are is Soulmates.

And this is why I love ABHIGYA.

Kate Rose said it best "The love we crave doesn't look anything like what it's supposed to. It's not always pretty"or happy. It's not the loss of common sense and spontaneous bursts of wonderfulness. It's not someone doing everything we'd want them to. And it's not two people being in such a people-pleasing mode that they stop living authentically happy and being true to themselves.

<h4>Soulmate love will never be perfect, because if it was, it would lack the necessary ingredient to be a soulmate: the ability to change us.</h4>

Change only comes from opposition, and only a soulmate can be a loving opposition that doesn't try and change us, but instead inspires change within us and our lives.

The soulmate love that we crave is dirty and imperfect. It's messed up and problematic at times, but it's also in our veins, and no matter how hard we try, we just can't quit it. It's sleeplessness at 2 am, and a hunger we can't satisfy. It's not about living a life that looks good to others"it's about living a life thatfeels good all the way down to our inner soul.

<h4>This is not the stuff of fairytales, because loving like this takes bloody courage"the courage to let go of everything we're supposed to do, includinghow we're supposed to love.</h4>

It's letting go of how two people should live their lives, and instead journeying together to find out what works best for them. It's about loving freely so that not only will there be space in our togetherness, there will be fluidity to it as well. It's the courage to stand apart from everyone else with confidence, knowing we're living the life that's best for us.

Being soulmates isn't a choice"we can't choose the person we feel a connection that goes beyond reason with"but embarking on a journey with our soulmate is.

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Sometimes we aren't yet ready for the type of love that a soulmate can offer. It's a gut-wrenching, honestly authentic love that rips our hearts from our chest. But oh, it's also so very lovely.

<h4>And that's what keeps us coming back for more.</h4>

We all have the ability to choose who we pursue romantically. Sometimes it's easier to take the path of least resistance, but no great love story ever started because it was easy for two people to be together. Greatness can't be born from simplicity.

Great love is born from challenges and the ability to overcome them.

It's walking through darkness with thefaith that there will be light on the other side. It's the math problem that just can't be solved. It's everything we never knew we wanted and needed. It's not knowing how the story will turn out, but being happy to even be a part of it.

<h4>It's not believing in happy endings, because choosing soulmate love is just the start of a journey.</h4>

It's a journey of love and self-discovery that will wind itself around our hearts, and bloom without us even realizing it. It's smiling for no reason, and collarbone kisses. It's the love that we feel not in our hearts, but in our souls.

That is the difference. (Elephant Journal)."

Originally posted by: -Tia-

IMO, Abhi and Pragya as a couple do not deserve to be called soulmates yet!

Abhi hasn't had honesty in this relationship from Pragya at all. Pragya has had a chance to be his love! Abhi married Pragya to hate and didn't believe in his emotions for her until a long time. Pragya chose to leave him for her guilt and a baby than trusting in their relationship! So they don't come across as an understanding/made for each other couple for me as of now.

They are just mates of destiny so far. Soulmates is far off a term for them. They need to grow into soulmates.

If you want me to choose Abhi's vs Pragya's love, I choose Abhi's, just because he trusts in AbhiGya more than Pragya.