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Posted: 10 years ago
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I saw a post supporting Ragini today. Looong paragraphs with delusional thing just as Ragini would say. I didn't want to reply because my reply won't make a difference if you are a Ragini-lover.
But I want to say one thing. Please know the difference between Character and Actor.
People who support Ragini and call themselves Tejaswi fans actually give the rest of the Tejaswi fans (like myself -I'm both helly and Tejaswi fan) a bad name as well as Tejaswi herself.

Ragini is negative. Understand that. Tejaswi knows that. That's why she wanted to quit. Everyone knows that. A person who tried to kill her own sister twice... Drug her.. Defame her etc. is not positive. However you put it.. She's not positive. She could turn positive in the future but she isn't. Wanting her to turn postive is different to saying she is a good person and needs sympathy from everyone.

And if you still think what she done is all fair when in love. Then dears you need to rethink in life. May be you haven't been in a relationship and don't know anything about it. If you havn't I'm yelling you know what Ragini has done is not the way people 'in love' behave. That's obsession and a psychotic behaviour.

I really wish that I could make you understand. But I hope that one day you understand right from wrong.

I hope that may be one day you fall in love with someone after they propose to you. And then you realise your friend/sister loves them. So you back off. But then your friend/sister says they have no problem with you being with that person at all.. And pressurise you to marry them. So you fall more deeply in love and follow your heart. Then that friend/sister of yours drug you... Defame you and try to kill you and marry your fiance. All of this after they pressurised you to accept the love. Worst of all they don't regret any of this and thinks you ruined their life. Im sure you'll still feel the same way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I m ragini fan & know ragini is wrong but dear let me tell real truth of real world that no sane girl in her sane mind will go for a guy whom she knows that rejected her sister & r sister luvs d person. swara was having feeling 4 laksh from very long time but still not confessed 2 ragini, her confession 2 shomi says itself its story. pressurise whom swara , do u think swara is girl whom u can pressurize 2 luv someone till she herself don't want & if ragini pressurized swara so much into luving laksh , so I think swara never luved laksh in real. I also have a sister if my sister claims so much luv 2 me & same time have feelings 4 d guy I luv & never herself confess 2 me, at end I find out it myself about it , I swear nor me nor family will see d girl face in whole lifetime. I will not do what ragini did but for me its betrayal.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

I m ragini fan & know ragini is wrong but dear let me tell real truth of real world that no sane girl in her sane mind will go for a guy whom she knows that rejected her sister & r sister luvs d person. swara was having feeling 4 laksh from very long time but still not confessed 2 ragini, her confession 2 shomi says itself its story. pressurise whom swara , do u think swara is girl whom u can pressurize 2 luv someone till she herself don't want & if ragini pressurized swara so much into luving laksh , so I think swara never luved laksh in real. I also have a sister if my sister claims so much luv 2 me & same time have feelings 4 d guy I luv & never herself confess 2 me, at end I find out it myself about it , I swear nor me nor family will see d girl face in whole lifetime. I will not do what ragini did but for me its betrayal.


I'm soo sorry but I completely disagree with you. If she was having feelings for Laksh for a long time then why would she be so happy when Laksh accepted Ragini back after Sanskar entry? And okay.. Given then she had feelings for him for a long time.. She didn't take any action to initiate any expression of love To Laksh and was happy for Laksh to marry Ragini. How can you expect one sister to be so sacrificial. Again. I don't knkw if you have been in love before. But love doesn't happen after a careful consideration of all facts and figures okay. Love just happens like that. You can't say "it's wrong for swara to feel love towards Laksh". It's about how you act on it that makes it right or wrong. Swara didn't accept Laksh's love for a long time possiblly because she didn't want to betray Ragini. So why is she wrong when Ragini herself is the one that tells Swara that she wants Swara to be with Laksh she accepts him.
I don't knkw about your little sister and you. But I know that even if I fell in love with her husband after she got married (eww I won't do that btw.) she would never defame me or try to kill me. Because we are sisters and that is not what normal sisters act. She might stop talking to me but that's it.

Outside of the stupid serial. Personally from me to you. You seem like nice girl so thought I'd give you a little tip for future. :)
I think you're pretty young so as an older sister I'm telling you a lesson for life. If a guy says he doesn't like you and likes someone else. Don't go begging after him and get obsessed over him. That's just silly. You need to think that he doesn't deserve you. If he doesn't like you he doesn't. You can't force someone to love you. Have you not heard of the quote that goes something like this... If you love something let it go free.. If it was for you it will come back to you.

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