Adieu to Sanskaar (as we knew him) - Page 2

It is exactly my sentiments too.

Cv's have clearly became delusional to butcher such a lovable character

I don't deny that Kavitha was sanskaars first love. Well she did take the initial shock when he claimed that swara is his wife.

It was quite clear that she heard sanskaar loud and clear unless she has some hearing disability.

It requires great patience to explain, but he did not do it.

It is not like she just now got up from coma,according to her it's a while already.

He could have taken a stand.

Even letting swara beg in the Mandir, letting get her humiliated by ragini, was too much.

Ok even if I think he didn't get confirmation until he heard the recorder,but after that he could have called her.

This is tech savvy generation, he could let swara know even after the recorder incident but again nahin.

God his not opting to tell the truth is going to cost him very badly.

Hi Shruts!!

I completely agree with you. I don't think Sanskaar was wrong today by being silent either. Don't get me wrong, but I would be the happiest person when he will come out of his mute mode, run to Swara and unite with her. But I think his reaction was justified for me. First and foremost, he loved Kavita to death. And second of all, he never had any bad memory with Kavita like Swara had with Laksh. There were two main important reasons that Swara kept outrightly rejecting Laksh: First and foremost, he didn't trust her. And second and most important, he jumped into a matrimony with her sister. Hence, from then there was no looking back for her. No matter whether Swara would have loved any one else or not, she would not have gone back to him. But incase of Sanskaar, thats not the case. If Swara wasnt in his life, had he not loved her, he would have immediately gone back to Kavita (provided that he didn't love Swara). He was in utter shock!! He didn't know what to do. The girl, his first love that he had assumed to be dead was in front of him and asking him to come back in her life. Shruts is right. He definitely doesn't love her today but he does have a very soft corner for her and he cares. And the way she was being all touchy touchy and emotionally blackmailing him how she cannot survive without him, is gonna stop him momentarily to tell her the truth. Obviously, he wouldn't want to hurt her. She hasn't done anything wrong to him. She hasn't wronged him like Laksh had wronged Swara. Yes, I know, in this process, he is hurting himself as well and Swara too. Yes, he does need to find a perfect time, sit down calmly and make her listen to himself.

If he keeps stretching this, thats when I am not gonna like it. I wasnt happy with the engagement development as well to be honest. Especially the OLVs, which suggested he is not telling her the truth because he fears she might not be able to handle it. Going ahead with the engagement without even trying, is definitely not Sanskaar. Not informing Swara about it is definitely not Sanskaar. Thats something which is I am not able to digest. But I am not gonna say more about this. But again, I am waiting for the episode before I can conclude my stance on that. Yes, Kavita should know the truth as early as possible because you are giving that girl false hopes. Even if you care for the girl, you will have to tell her the truth because you are risking her health condition even badly by not telling her until the nth hour and then leaving her in the mandap.

@TM, if you would have noticed in todays episode, both Swara and Sanskaar were trying to avoid eye contact with each other. Both of them. They both were scared that they will breakdown the moment they will read the pain in each others eyes. And thats what they were trying to avoid. Both are trying to handle the situation as calmly as possible.