Adieu to Sanskaar (as we knew him)

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes, this is a good bye to Sanskaar as we knew him. The straight thinking, clear headed, purposeful, knowing where he was going (even when wrong), Sanskaar. The Sanskaar who could divine with one straight look, what lay behind a person's face. The Sanskaar who when he fell, fell so hard, he wouldnt compromise with it even if his loved one refused him. The Sanskaar who we all fell in love, when he fell in love with Swara, so very selflessly that no one, not even his own self mattered anymore when it came to her happiness.
The Sanskaar we see today is a pale shadow of that loved Sanskaar. We overlooked this Sanskaar not forgiving his Swara when she begged him to forgive her for not trusting him - we even said that perhaps she deserved it. We looked away when he castigated her for making him her kathputlui - both him and us conveniently forgetting that even she wanted him to opt out, he was the one who refused to leave her alone. We forgave him for turning away, ignoring, raging, not listening to her desperate pleas to sort out what she really felt for him.

Hell, we still gave him the benefit of the doubt, hoping it was him just play acting to hide a smarter plan for Ragini's defeat, when he allowed her public shaming, her breakdown at the temple, her being on her knees while begging him to allow her to prove her love.

We got, yes, a fantastic Swasan scene where he acknowledges that she could love him, and the resultant "Swara" and a "Sach Ma" to Shomi and some tense calls to Swara at the party. And thankfully a much awaited "Meri patni" confirmation that kept the faith going.

But today was inexcusable. "Cometh the hour, Cometh the man"...and today, Sanskaar had feet of clay when it came to the crux. When the time came to stand up like a man and quietly but firmly and honestly tell his ex-love (cant and wont use her name) that he had moved on, he looked away and cheated his ex love, himself and most importantly the person he purportedly loves the most, by saying that he was the same Sanskaar as he was before ! And in that, allowing his love to be torn apart yet again, something our old Sanskaar would never have allowed.

If Swara had broken his trust by doubting him in the kidnap fiasco, then Sanskaar today broke hers a million times over. Is it any wonder that she left MM as she did? To her credit, she left it in his hands to take the final call..and he heard it and knows it, and per the grapevine, still doesnt own up to the truth?
Then he deserves all the heartbreak and no I wont be sorry for him at all.

Sadly, he will also break Swara's heart, repeatedly, with this. And if his exlove is innocent (which I can bet my best bet, she is NOT), then he is creating another lost cause there as well.

The CVs of Indian telly just killed another much loved character..and while the Swasan love will be redeemed through a reconciliation, the Sanskaar as we knew him, is history. More Swasan moments will surely be around, but the true blue Swasan magic of an ardent, selfless, all encompassing love by Sanskaar - that has ended.

PS:- Wished to add that VK remains a superb Sanskaar to Helly's equally flawless Swara...kudos to both for keeping us enthralled with your histrionics. Its sad though that both characters have been made to look so foolish even slap-worthy, over the months...

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Apudip thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sanskar is concerned about kavita and was in luv with her in the past and that's why dealing with her subtly ? Is he resisting going to be engaged with her ? Is he handling the situation wisely at all? Has he informed his wife anything ? Has telephoned her once to clear the misunderstanding ? Has he told her that d'nth touch me all the time very politely or distance himself from her? The answer of all these question is big "No". These will be enough for kavita's obsession to think that Sanskar loves her dearly. She will be heartbroken in future after knowing the truth. She will be devastated because she has not gone through any changes about her feelings unlike Sanskar . THis will lead to destroy her good nature previously shown and make her a cunning woman. She will definitely create distance between husband and wife. So first and foremost sanskar has to clear her misunderstandings regarding their changed relationship . That's why I am saying that sanskar is not the same.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you, wholeheartedly. Sanskaar was such an amazing character. Sadly, he just became a case of another-one-bites-the-dust. A character who was flawed but practical and level-headed. Immensely lovable. I still love him, no doubt, but CVs have spoiled his greatness. I can't bring myself to say more. I am tired and heartbroken for my OTP. I hope SwaSan love story, a beautiful romance that started with such beautiful friendship gets back on track. Their characters get redeemed fast, not just for the viewers' sake, but also for Varun and Helly, who are just wonderful actors.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very true. I want the old Sanskar back, who knows what to do and how to deal with the situation.Agreed he can't say to Kavita then and there that he has moved on as this would ''kill her'' like she claims. But why not put himself and his wife out of this misery.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Swara- I really felt very bad for her. She said everything I totally disagree with the fact she was mahaan today . I forgot cross examining principle in which never ask a question to witness which could go in the wrong way. (something like that heard it in moot court challenges) kavitha did the same today. Swara particularly nothing to answer other than what kavitha want
Swara said "is baat ko jitni jaldi ho, khatam karte hain na". It showed her immense pain and wanted to runaway fromthe place. thank god she did not beg and plead.

Sanskar---- Today I am dissappointed with him.
Those begging crying didnot melt his heart he was firm on his stand but today he is asking SWARA .he was not pretending which was ahuge blow.
WHAT DOES HE THINK To even ask such a question
swara will ask her haq like ragini (this much he knows SWARA? ) or he is thinking that swara will live all her life for him and he will enjoy sorry sacrifice his life with kavita. so that Swara doesnot move on and choose anyone else. So that he might not get Swara but nobody else also gets that haq from her.
why is he asking this question it is an insult ?. I have two lovers whom will I choose. wow this is love. R u choosing ur clothes which colour will I choose?
If u dont know then this is true love.
Take cavity to a doctor not marry her then u will marry every coma patient.
or everyone will marry their ex when they return if they r in ill health.
A girl comes to u and says i will cut my wrist will the husband marry her bcoz he was her ex or the girl loves her so much then why blame those acid attackers they r also in love they only wanted to marry the girl.
If he does engagement out of helplessness what is the difference between Sanskar &...

Now Sanskar wants to be mahaan for which he was shouting at Swara
If he goes through engagement by SR for ever CVs spoilt the best character of SR . Thank u CVS .
I love the character of Sanskar more than Swara So if Sanskar is dumb why will I watch it
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Ijust want Sanskar to say a no to kavita in a very polite way and bring ur wife respect. Sanskar plz be back with a bang
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Posted: 10 years ago
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u have written so well dear. if cvs could hear us .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Pic! How are you? Been missing you! Not watched the episode yet so take what I say with that caution please!:). I am not sure I can agree in full although please do take the points that the cvs totally got so much wrong in terms of much more realistic reactions in favour of mindless drama and also lost such opportunities to do something truly different which is why I loved SwaSan in the first place.

I cannot really entirely blame Sanskaar for not being able to immediately turn Kavita down. To me, if from what I see in the precap he immediately speaks up and says Swara is his wife and is not moved to romantic feelings for Kavita even for a moment as his attention seems totally on Swara, I find that understandable. His ex literally came back from the dead. As far as he knows, she's not done anything wrong and was a tragic victim of a horrific crime. Why would he immediately push her away? If he doesn't put a stop to her overt affections soon I would feel different and it may come to that but so far I can see why he'd be totally stunned and thus not react as determinately as we would like. Only my PoV before watching :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dear piccola, i really loved your post. You really said a very good good bye to Sanskar. I truely agree with you. And this is the problme with CVs of Idian TV. When they get good trp, they get carried away & end up butcharing the show & the characters.

A bye to sanskar as i had stopped watching since the malkin snake track started. But i ll come to post on VK's profile.

Bye swasan friends.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I so wanted today for Sanskaarbto stop Swra but no he didn't know what to do himself...
My mom watching this and she was crying for Swara 😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you at some point but I am sorry I can't hate Sanskaar I still see the love he has for Swara in his eyes he was continuously looking at her he was even crying Swara is his weakness and he can't love anyone else like he loves her yeah he remembered his past love at some.point which I didn't liked but then he realized that his heart only belongs to Swara even in the promo Sanskaar looked so happy when Swara told him to put the mangalsutar on her but yeah I was sad too that Sanskaar didn't say anything and I hated the moment when he said main wohi hon everyone knows k tum woh nahi ho tum Swara kay Sanskaar ho I mean he too knows that he is madly in.love with.his Swara but I am not.hopeless I know our Sanskaar will be back soon the one who just don't know how to live without his Swara I love SwaSan.I am getting mad day by day.

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