KDR: Paanch din, husband in?

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So the much awaited BM episode with not so pleasing results.

WTH? Ranveer & Deepika came to complete SwaSan's lovestory right? Kuch hua? Bilkul bhi nahi, except for Sanskaar having a teeny weeny FB of deepika asking him to give Swara a fair chance to speak. I wish she added that he just did not have to HEAR her but instead listen to her properly. What was the use of Sanskaar letting Swara speak when he couldn't even grasp the context of her words? I know Swara did not say I Love You to him but she did confess indirectly. Tum mere liye sabse zaruri ho. Main hamare rishtey ko aage badhane aayi hu, tumhe jeetne aayi hoon, aren't these sentences enough confession? Is I Love You so important to hear? AFAIK Swara had never said I Love You directly in her previous relationship too but still that went uptil the altar. It's pretty difficult to say ILU, especially when the vibe you are getting from the opposite side is of indifference & almost reeking of dislike but still Swara tried. Honestly I was super annoyed with her when in the car she started with the Ragini & Bade Papa jaap, I was like WTH lady, you wanted him to yourself so that you could confess your new found love for him but even here, all you're on about is Ragini & Bade Papa. THAT annoyed me SOOO much but then the scene outside MM came where the two were alone & Swara said things which I was waiting to hear except for the I Love You which she saved for her later monologue. (I am actually annoyed at myself for wishing her to say ILU in monologues only after seeing the way this track is shaping up. God, so much potential wasted!) I feel bad for Swara today but it's her fault too. Why hasn't she shown Sanskaar that he is her first priority, that she's here to win him & that she wants to take their relationship ahead? I understand that he's not talking to her & she didn't have a chance to confess but ever heard of actions speak louder than words? Instead of talking, she could've expressed her love through actions. Write a love letter (to make it more emotional & fond), type an email or text him, decorate the room with flowers, candles & other romantic shiz, get drunk like him & lock him in the room & just confess to him in the way he did, just grab him in & kiss him, that will be more than enough- there are literally so many ways to confess but first she should get fursat na from mirchi powder attacks, keys drama, Ragini, Bade Papa & tattoowali aunty. The girl really needs to set her priorities straight & work towards it. She can think about family after Sanskaar is completely on her side & then both of them will be much more stronger & successful in defeating the nuisance called Ragini. Ugh -_- I feel angry on her but also feel bad esp after the scene yesterday when Sanskaar called her baharwale, matlabi, istemaal karne waale etc. That made my blood boil so I can understand what Swara must've felt at that exact moment. I would've totally blasted Sanskaar left, right & center for that if not for the pained look he gave sideways after Swara left, which made me think that he said all that on purpose so that Swara leaves home & is at peace even if it's away from him. That calmed me down esp when I realised that in every interaction that Sanskaar has with Swara, everytime he's directly or indirectly insisted her to leave the house. Swara needs to stop begging & literally grovelling (I had wished for this too but CV's have gone so literal with meaning that it's actually become horrific to watch to really watch her begging for his acceptance) after she's thrown out of the house. She's actually confessed to him with those 3 words & now it should be upon Sanskaar to accept them or leave her, she should give him time & let him decide now if he wants her. Even after she comes back home, she should focus on saving the family & subtly remind him in ways that she actually loves him & will wait for him all her life. If at the end of all this, Sanskaar realises that Swara really loves him now, he'll accept her & all will be well and if he still doesn't, well there are other ways to live life too, love isn't everything. Just follow the policy that Sanskaar has done with her till date- Let the one you love go (decide) if he comes back, he's yours. If he doesn't, well then he never was yours. No need to beg & grovel anymore. Give him time & let's see the outcome. But ofcourse that won't happen cos Swara has taken this vow that she'll make Sanskaar, realize her feelings within 5 days following SRK's policy in Kal Ho Naa Ho, only it's reversee here. Paanch din, ladka in😆 How is she going to make this happen but? She's leaving the next day itself right? Will Swara actually have to be on deathbed to make Sanskaar realize her love for him? God I really hope Sanskaar is acting in front of Swara & only pretending to not trust Swara. He can very well not believe in her love confession for him after everything he's gone through but him believing that Swara would lie in front of god & demand for alimony will be the death of his character. I am pretty sure he'll be acting from here on but, the alimony clause should be his clue of Ragini's involvement in the divorce proceedings & I really hope he's pretending only to gain Ragini's confidence to beat her at her own game.

I was actually glad when they showed Sanskaar giving money to DurgaPrasad & saying they won't have to beg in front of Ragini anymore & when he talked of starting a new company. It was actually awesome to see Sanskaar being actively involved in the financial matters & tackling Ragini. Sanskaar here 😳 & & yeah the scene today when Ragini threatens Swara that she's going to lose her second love now & it's going to be more brutal & painful & Swara retorts by saying, not this time since I'll make sure I don't lose it this time around, you go girl 🤗 The rest of the chutki bajana was so euurrrggghh, like are they still in kindergarten?! 😊

What the eff were those two men from marwari samaj? It doesn't for godsake happen in real life. How can two random men come to an (influential) joint family & question the relationship between the son & DIL of the house? Huh? I mean there are organisations that make couples solve their differences & reunite but for the first time in my life, have I seen someone literally forcing a woman to divorce her husband even when she cleared that she wants to work on her relationship. Heights of W*F this was! Ramprasad taunted Ragini for his Bhaisa's seat on the couch but couldn't scold her for making random strangers take decisions for his son & DIL. DurgaPrasad who acts as a messiah, is dumb & acting like a kathputli for Ragini only to hide his own sins & is ready to break a couple deeply in love with each other by deceit only to save his Annapurna? These two random men were actually threatening the family in clear crisp words, even going to the extent of bringing in the unmarried daughter of the house in between & still the two elders were mum & listening to everything with calm demeanour? Like HOW CAN ANYONE?! One thing I am sure of, Sanskaar would have actually given good to these two, I really wish he was there too. Maheshwari men disgust me these days, except for Sanskaar & he too I am giving the benefit of doubt seeing the way he was treated earlier & understanding his POV.

Ragini, W*F?! So according to her dumb logic, Swara should leave the house cos her husband has signed divorce papers & apparantly hates her? What about YOU lady? Your husband signed the divorce papers long back, it is a publicly known fact that he literally hates even the sight of you, so much so that every kid of Kolkatta must now be aware of it, has kidnapped & attempted to murder you, PHEW! Where should YOU be then? By same logic, YOU should have been out of MM ages back but were you?! Then what right do you have to ask Swara to get out? Seriously this show & it's (ill) logic, it's mindboggling. I am speechless 😳 Ragini sitting down with sleeveless blouse & pallu over her head, like an adarshwadi bahu is the funniest sight EVER 🤣 Seriously who did Teju's make-up today? God she was looking so caked up, it hurt my eyes & Helly's dress? OHAMGEE 😳

I hate that precap. I just hope the episode is done with & Swara leaves MM maximum by tuesday. I cannot stand that humiliating drama, it gets on my nerves ugh :/ They need to change the track & get rid of so much negativity like RIGHT NOW!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Kavya 🤗


Wonderful post! 👏👏 While reading it I realised you wrote about yesterday's episode too. 😳

Just copy pasting from another post her;

Actually I feel for both Swara and Sanskaar both today. Swara finally said what she should have said before - but she said it so kudos to her. 👏👏

The reason I am never convinced by Swara is because she always says things at the wrong time. Since she has come back in MM she has done nothing for Sanskaar out of the box. She has consoled him - as a friend and otherwise she has done her Ragini and bade papa jaap which is beyond ridiculous. Swara called Sanskaar 3 times yesterday and it was for DP; she called Sanskaar to the garden again for DP; she wasted the car moment to talk about Ragini - when she could have talked to Sanskaar about their relationship.

The whole thing boils down to priorities. We know Swara thinks that her priority is Sanskaar but she has done nothing to show him that. She has all been about the bahu and not the wife. She has tried to speak to Sanskaar but just not enough. She needed to try more and she failed at that.

Looking from Sanskaar's POV, he is right. The girl who he has absolutely no expectations from - suddenly comes to him and says that he is the most important person in her life when she has done nothing to show him that - its completely okay. When Sanskaar fell in love with Swara, he had done so much for her and she still doubted his love and called it a betrayal. Swara has done nothing to show Sanskaar that he is the most important person in his life so as she claims. If he was - this confession of feelings could have happened prior in the car and also through a message a long time ago.

Love is not about the words, its about showing it. Actions always speak louder than words. Sanskaars have always - it is Swara's turn to show it to him now. And I know she will. 😳

It will NOT be fine if when Swara confesses to him again in the mandir and he does not believe her. THAT will not be fine. Unless ofcourse he is acting and he apologises for his indifference later on. 😳

However I am getting done with all the negativity in the show. It is so damn hard to watch. I am hoping this whole begging and grovelling thing is the last that we have to see and Swara comes back a stronger women determined to win her man back.
Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont know what to say yar... This stupid drama is giving me head ache... Well these film promotion did nothing to story plot yeah still... Sanskar listened to Dpad not Swara😲😲
Sanskar is acting to protect Swara.. Like you said in yesterdays episode he was hurt after speaking like that... Well car scene I for one won't blame Swara... She called him to discuss about bade papa's affairs and bechari went ahead with that.. Plus the way he was treating her I don't think she had that courage in her to discuss with him and when she started we saw his reaction...These two idiots
And about confession she can just grab him and kiss him when he is talking rubbish so easy😳 but these people👎🏼...


Ragini and her mind boggling logic is out of this world.. better not talk about her...
Don't talk about DP all he dont give a f**k about his brothers family.. All he cares is about his jhooti izzat and his good for nothing son and double dhokli wife🤬

Precap OMG what a torture it will be...We asked for Swara begging for Sanskar's love and these people took it in literal sense😲😲 She should have confessed her love in front of temple and left it to him to decide & not doing this begging & pleading...
Edited by DivineDarkness - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I was thinking about KDR only
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i am so confused ?????????how swara can win this 5 day chllange because she is going out of mm before that...


my biggest question is that now how swara will come back mm???????????because she is insulted a lot besides sanskar's behaviour is very doubtful ????????????????
ragini ------for her swara shouls ask those samajmen that even her hubby is not ready to accept her & all her crime????????????
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wonderful Post Kavya👏 👏 👏
I am just so awestruck by seeing Ragini's idiocy in all these. I just don't get her. She keeps saying she should leave because Sanskaar hates her. Bro, doesn't Laksh hate her as well? Or am i blind to see that and it is actually her true louuu? I mean I get why she wanted to separate Swara from Laksh but why from Sanskaar? I mean didn't she always wanted Swara to be away of Laksh and remember when she was forcefully getting them married, how she had asked Swara to accept Sanskaar's love? Now that she is finally finally doing it, Ragini se woh bhi dekha ja raha? What kind of a sister would do that to her own sister? Ragini's character is beyond my understanding now!!!! BEYOND!!!

If anyone would have asked me before todays episode on whether Sanskaar should have believed Swara's mandir wala confession or not? And I would have said its ok for him to not believe her since the only thing he has heard her talk is about the divorce. But after todays episode, HE HAS TO BELIEVE HER. She has indirectly already confessed it to him today. And he knows and everyone knows, Swara has never lied about her feelings for him whether it was during her denial of his love, their friendship and now her feelings. And she has NO REASON TO LIE INFRONT OF THE MANDIR!!! So I am hoping that it is an act that Sanskaar has pulled just to checkmate Ragini and protect Swara. If thats not the case, SwaSan is ruined for me!!! Period!!

And I don't see the begging as confession. I get no sadist pleasure in that. So even I am hoping that we get done with that as soon as possible and as Anna pointed out, hope she comes back as a stronger woman ready to fight for her love without any crying!!

P.S: I really loved Helly's acting today. She was outstanding in the last scene. I was staring at the scene like a statue not even blinking my eyes. I had tears as well. 👏
Edited by SwaSanFanGirl - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hey kavya
aajkal show main kya ho raha hai aur kyu ho raha hai kuch samajh nahi aata😕

the 2 samaaj wale people kya bolu unko..ragini tell tham swara bungali hai😆are kaise shekhar maarvadi hai to swara bhi wahi hogi na😕😆😆koi logic nahi hai...maine ye first time dekha hai k bahar wale aakar kisi k ghar k bete ki shadi todne ko bol rahe hai🤢cvs pagal ho gaye hai


swara ka kya kahu simple kiss kar de bas ho gaya hubby tera 5 days ko goli maar...5 sec main pigal jayega kiss se😳😳

waise mujhe koi hope nahi hai 5 day k task se ..b/c swara to MM se bahar jane wali hai na so koi fayda nahi😭😭

bas cvs sanskar k charcter ko mat khraab karo...ek wahi to sabse best hai...i hate DP hamesha sanskar ka love wahi dur karta hai usse pehle kavita and ab swara apne purani galtiya saamne na aaye isliye usne ragini ki har baat manni hai😡i hope atlist wo sanskar k aage confess kar le k usne swara se sigh karwaye the.wo bhi dokhe se

now ab ye dekhna hai k cvs ne aage kya plan kiya hai hope swasan ek saath milkar ragini dadi and wo aunty ka game end kare
Edited by sanabmw - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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True dear too much illogical stuffs like who were those two men? CVs have lost it.

But I am afraid were these guys responsible for Kavita's murder? Then Swara's life too is in danger as she is Bengali.

Loved reading it as always Kavya 🤗
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Ranjini, I don't think these baaharwalas would be the ones responsible for Kavita's death. That track is a TRP ka khazaana & it will surely be revealed to be someone from MM only.

Swara I seriously think is IN DANGER. Actually I have this feeling that Sanskaar is going to be attacked brutally in these 5 days & Swara is going to be on deathbed saving him, finally accomplishing her goal of making him realize her love for him. Ugh I hate this -_-
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Kavya, Amazing title and KDR
Let me ask you one question when has these promotion celebrities words ever made any difference to the story or the characters?

When Swara started her bada papa and mission in the car I wanted to choke her. Trust me if I could just get into the screen and choke her, I would have done that. I mean she got such a golden opportunity to convince him on her true intention of coming to MM or to make him listen to her. Why can't she just start by saying I;m happy that you are with me. I want to tell you many thing. And then build it to a confession or atleast try to make amends with him. But Swara is famous for using word words at the wrong time when it comes to Sanskar. But we have to give it to her. She did make an effort later by saying that she is there for their relation. But the words again. Rather than starting with Main tumhare saat iss riste ko aage badana chahati hoon she started with I want to stay here, I don't want to leave.😡 The guy who wanted to listen to her has already closed his ears by then. And no I Love You is not always necessary if the other person knows that you will fight with the universe for him. Here things are different. And she always, always says I Love You Sansakr after he leaves. What's the point? I'm not saying she should just go and tell him as its not easy to say. But Swara never made any effort in a direction which showed Sanskar that she is there for him or their relation like she claim. I want to see her work hard on her relation rather than those 🤬 MM.

Sanskar is still roota roota. Can't blame him. Like you have mentioned, yesterday he told her all that and has asked her to leave. I've had a lot of discussion on that yesterday and will not repeat it here. But if you look at this situation, we can always see that when ever Swara is hurt, he breaks more than that. He don't want her to spoil her life for them. Today in the car scene, when she started crying he switched of the radio and kept looking at her from the corner of his eye. And like he said today, a person who had no consideration for his feeling till the day before suddenly wakes up and feels she is in love. How can anyone believe that. He is trying desperately to keep her away from the problems in MM. Swara needs to be more desperate if she wants to win him. Begging will not get anyone love. Show him how mch he means to her and what she can do for him. Thats what I want to see now.

Comedy was that Ragini told about having great sanskar which her Dadi gave.🤣 Rest of her drama not worth writing about.

Oh and I forgot, the great Precap. When Ragini throws Swara out, the picture she throws away is Swara and Sanskar's. I'm happy with that. Anyone with normal brain will understand why she wanted that picture. I'm sure he will realise that she has started having feeling, but wont show. I so don't want him to give in easily.


Edited by Sree8410 - 9 years ago

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