So the much awaited BM episode with not so pleasing results.
WTH? Ranveer & Deepika came to complete SwaSan's lovestory right? Kuch hua? Bilkul bhi nahi, except for Sanskaar having a teeny weeny FB of deepika asking him to give Swara a fair chance to speak. I wish she added that he just did not have to HEAR her but instead listen to her properly. What was the use of Sanskaar letting Swara speak when he couldn't even grasp the context of her words? I know Swara did not say I Love You to him but she did confess indirectly. Tum mere liye sabse zaruri ho. Main hamare rishtey ko aage badhane aayi hu, tumhe jeetne aayi hoon, aren't these sentences enough confession? Is I Love You so important to hear? AFAIK Swara had never said I Love You directly in her previous relationship too but still that went uptil the altar. It's pretty difficult to say ILU, especially when the vibe you are getting from the opposite side is of indifference & almost reeking of dislike but still Swara tried. Honestly I was super annoyed with her when in the car she started with the Ragini & Bade Papa jaap, I was like WTH lady, you wanted him to yourself so that you could confess your new found love for him but even here, all you're on about is Ragini & Bade Papa. THAT annoyed me SOOO much but then the scene outside MM came where the two were alone & Swara said things which I was waiting to hear except for the I Love You which she saved for her later monologue. (I am actually annoyed at myself for wishing her to say ILU in monologues only after seeing the way this track is shaping up. God, so much potential wasted!) I feel bad for Swara today but it's her fault too. Why hasn't she shown Sanskaar that he is her first priority, that she's here to win him & that she wants to take their relationship ahead? I understand that he's not talking to her & she didn't have a chance to confess but ever heard of actions speak louder than words? Instead of talking, she could've expressed her love through actions. Write a love letter (to make it more emotional & fond), type an email or text him, decorate the room with flowers, candles & other romantic shiz, get drunk like him & lock him in the room & just confess to him in the way he did, just grab him in & kiss him, that will be more than enough- there are literally so many ways to confess but first she should get fursat na from mirchi powder attacks, keys drama, Ragini, Bade Papa & tattoowali aunty. The girl really needs to set her priorities straight & work towards it. She can think about family after Sanskaar is completely on her side & then both of them will be much more stronger & successful in defeating the nuisance called Ragini. Ugh -_- I feel angry on her but also feel bad esp after the scene yesterday when Sanskaar called her baharwale, matlabi, istemaal karne waale etc. That made my blood boil so I can understand what Swara must've felt at that exact moment. I would've totally blasted Sanskaar left, right & center for that if not for the pained look he gave sideways after Swara left, which made me think that he said all that on purpose so that Swara leaves home & is at peace even if it's away from him. That calmed me down esp when I realised that in every interaction that Sanskaar has with Swara, everytime he's directly or indirectly insisted her to leave the house. Swara needs to stop begging & literally grovelling (I had wished for this too but CV's have gone so literal with meaning that it's actually become horrific to watch to really watch her begging for his acceptance) after she's thrown out of the house. She's actually confessed to him with those 3 words & now it should be upon Sanskaar to accept them or leave her, she should give him time & let him decide now if he wants her. Even after she comes back home, she should focus on saving the family & subtly remind him in ways that she actually loves him & will wait for him all her life. If at the end of all this, Sanskaar realises that Swara really loves him now, he'll accept her & all will be well and if he still doesn't, well there are other ways to live life too, love isn't everything. Just follow the policy that Sanskaar has done with her till date- Let the one you love go (decide) if he comes back, he's yours. If he doesn't, well then he never was yours. No need to beg & grovel anymore. Give him time & let's see the outcome. But ofcourse that won't happen cos Swara has taken this vow that she'll make Sanskaar, realize her feelings within 5 days following SRK's policy in Kal Ho Naa Ho, only it's reversee here. Paanch din, ladka in😆 How is she going to make this happen but? She's leaving the next day itself right? Will Swara actually have to be on deathbed to make Sanskaar realize her love for him? God I really hope Sanskaar is acting in front of Swara & only pretending to not trust Swara. He can very well not believe in her love confession for him after everything he's gone through but him believing that Swara would lie in front of god & demand for alimony will be the death of his character. I am pretty sure he'll be acting from here on but, the alimony clause should be his clue of Ragini's involvement in the divorce proceedings & I really hope he's pretending only to gain Ragini's confidence to beat her at her own game.
I was actually glad when they showed Sanskaar giving money to DurgaPrasad & saying they won't have to beg in front of Ragini anymore & when he talked of starting a new company. It was actually awesome to see Sanskaar being actively involved in the financial matters & tackling Ragini. Sanskaar here 😳 & & yeah the scene today when Ragini threatens Swara that she's going to lose her second love now & it's going to be more brutal & painful & Swara retorts by saying, not this time since I'll make sure I don't lose it this time around, you go girl 🤗 The rest of the chutki bajana was so euurrrggghh, like are they still in kindergarten?! 😊
What the eff were those two men from marwari samaj? It doesn't for godsake happen in real life. How can two random men come to an (influential) joint family & question the relationship between the son & DIL of the house? Huh? I mean there are organisations that make couples solve their differences & reunite but for the first time in my life, have I seen someone literally forcing a woman to divorce her husband even when she cleared that she wants to work on her relationship. Heights of W*F this was! Ramprasad taunted Ragini for his Bhaisa's seat on the couch but couldn't scold her for making random strangers take decisions for his son & DIL. DurgaPrasad who acts as a messiah, is dumb & acting like a kathputli for Ragini only to hide his own sins & is ready to break a couple deeply in love with each other by deceit only to save his Annapurna? These two random men were actually threatening the family in clear crisp words, even going to the extent of bringing in the unmarried daughter of the house in between & still the two elders were mum & listening to everything with calm demeanour? Like HOW CAN ANYONE?! One thing I am sure of, Sanskaar would have actually given good to these two, I really wish he was there too. Maheshwari men disgust me these days, except for Sanskaar & he too I am giving the benefit of doubt seeing the way he was treated earlier & understanding his POV.
Ragini, W*F?! So according to her dumb logic, Swara should leave the house cos her husband has signed divorce papers & apparantly hates her? What about YOU lady? Your husband signed the divorce papers long back, it is a publicly known fact that he literally hates even the sight of you, so much so that every kid of Kolkatta must now be aware of it, has kidnapped & attempted to murder you, PHEW! Where should YOU be then? By same logic, YOU should have been out of MM ages back but were you?! Then what right do you have to ask Swara to get out? Seriously this show & it's (ill) logic, it's mindboggling. I am speechless 😳 Ragini sitting down with sleeveless blouse & pallu over her head, like an adarshwadi bahu is the funniest sight EVER 🤣 Seriously who did Teju's make-up today? God she was looking so caked up, it hurt my eyes & Helly's dress? OHAMGEE 😳
I hate that precap. I just hope the episode is done with & Swara leaves MM maximum by tuesday. I cannot stand that humiliating drama, it gets on my nerves ugh :/ They need to change the track & get rid of so much negativity like RIGHT NOW!