I am loving the way CVs are setting up Ram-Siya match made in heaven or rather why they are made for each other. Once again they showed how as individuals their wavelengths matched. Ram is worried for the horse. No one is stopping the horse as it is a symbol of power. Stopping it means fighting with Ayodhya army. But more than the symbol it is a living thing which will have hunger and thirst. Ram thinks will there be a person who will be emphatic towards the horse. Will there be someone who sees horse as a living being than the symbol of power. And we are shown Sita coming with food and water for the animal. In a way his thought, she implements. Both meet the same cause. Taking care of the animal, treating it as a living being.
In life partners such values are very important. You can give and take on so many things. You can change your dressing sense, food habits etc etc.. with respect to your partner. But it is very difficult or near impossible to change your beliefs and value system. An empathetic person cannot live wth someone who is more concerned about flaunting their power and wealth. A person who treats everyone equal cannot live with someone whose world revolve around me, my spouse, my kids.
Mapping the values of people is a very important aspect in marriage and something very much overlooked. That is why it is said that man and woman need to understand each other before they can decide on marriage. Compatibility has to be checked at emotional level, value level. If these things match physical intimacy will happen because it is a natural process. But these days importance is more given to physical intimacy. Every relation wants to test the physical compatibility. People don't understand physical compatibility happens very fast. You only need lust, not love for that. But it also fades fast when lust goes out of the window and reality strikes. Emotional compatibility is harder to achieve. Because it requires love and respect. And these things are not instant. But developed through actions. Just like it is harder to get, it is much more harder to go. Even after lust fades away the emotionally compatible couple will be able to sail through any difficulties in marriage.
So in the most important relation of your life give importance to your feelings. Wait, understand and then decide whether this is the right match.
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