'You broke apart Swaragini Ragini' Swara you bent it first

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Jasmine

@Seventh

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Posted: 10 years ago

So I know I may face flak for this but I have to say it. Did Ragini really start breaking apart SwaRagini first or did her own sister make the first move? How did our devi possibly make the first move?

By going after her sister's Fiance now before you jump to her defense with Laksh fell for her first. Let's look at this situation when Swara had the chance to marry Laksh she took it. Did she once really stop to think how her sister would feel? *Disclaimer* (Not justifying any of Ragini's deeds by the way) but did she have the heart to say "No get lost." Nothing not even a guy should've been more important to than her sister <- I know we always say this line about Ragini but it applies to Swara too. I know she protested at first, but if any other sister would've been in her place she would have never given in.

Think about it. Imagine your own sister marrying the love of your life AND SHE KNOWS HE IS! Imagine having to watch every moment of it wouldn't that tear you apart?

Sure Ragini broke Swaragini but Swara bent it first. Blood is thicker than water but both forgot it!

Now Swara is basically using Sanskar as she pleases. Someone knock the sense into Mahan Devi please. If you can't wake up and see how much someone loves you! You aren't worth it.

Edited by Becoming - 10 years ago

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BB_CallmeC

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Posted: 10 years ago

I don't think I agree with you.

Swara wasnt the one who broke SwaRagini. Ragini was the first one who broke it.

Ragini, under the influence of a stranger (Sanskaar) decided to plan and plot against her own sister first by forcing her to accept her love and then malign her in front of everyone.

Even when Ragini was forcing Swara to accept Laksh, her intentions were different. And everyone knows that. She was not genuinely trying to get them together.

Swara had rejected Laksh as soon as she had found out about his feelings for her because she didn't at all wanted to hurt Ragini. Ragini on the other hand gave more importance to her supposed first and true love then her own sister

Ragini, on the other hand, just to get her love, started planning and plotting against her own sister. If Ragini actually wanted Swara to be happy, she would have let Swara accept Laksh on her own pace and with her own happiness. If Ragini's intentions were right, even if she had forced Swara, she wouldn't have planned to malign her in front of her own family.

Even Sanskaar, who was a stranger then and now her legally wedded husband, was ready to change his path of revenge as soon as he realized his mistake. And he asked the same to Ragini. She didn't.

I completely disagree with the fact that Swara caused the first bend. It was Ragini herself.. all along.

Edited by SwaSanFanGirl - 10 years ago

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710617

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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree swara is holier than thou with clay feet..
How can u romance with your sisters fianc .. Ragya were engaged so u always look at him like bro in law
Second she has been blatantly using sanskar and very merrily accused him because proofs were there..
So stop using him and leave the house why is she staying in mm house
At least ragini says she wants Lakshya .. That is why she is staying on in MM
Then thirdly she was busy dictating the ragya relationship .. Stay together fall in love ..
Lakshya is a creep but he would not have stooped so Low to try to kill ragini if he was not forced to stay in a marriage with ragini ..
He knows his Wife try to commit murder on her own Sister and did married him by deceit now it should be his and his parents choice whether he should stay in this marriage no ragini loves you stay with her zi

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Komal

@teribts7

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Posted: 10 years ago

Exactly!!!! Swara was the first person who had a part in destroying Swaragini. But, Ragini finished it (by joining hands with Sanskaar) like how she finished swa---lak. We all know Swara didn't want Lakshya, but circumstances made her fall in "love" with Lakshya. Any sister wouldn't fall in love with the same guy who your sister was engaged to 3 times. I mean why would she even tell Ragini that she "loves" Lakshya when Swara knows how much Ragini loves Lakshya and that Ragini's world is surrounded by Lakshya. Swara tried breaking up Raglak once by telling the world family about Lakshya's double personality.

I could go on and on... but I'm too lazy 😆😆

I agree that it was Swara who bent it first but peer pressure makes you make stupid decisions and Swara is paying for it now. She just wants her sister's love and Swaragini to be one. But, that can't happen as Swara decided to marry Lakshya the first chance she got and was even happy about it.

But, both sisters have a major part in breaking their bond.

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Jwala

@LoveSriNal

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Posted: 10 years ago

I will not justify swara totally. . but ragini is the one broke swaragini.. if a guy said that he don't loves you then why didn't she move on? she is the one who manipulate every situation to make swara to love laksh.. if she said once to swara that I can't see you with laksh then swara never ever love laksh.. it is ragini who said swara to love laksh. . it is she plotted with sanskar and make swara and laksh's mms. . if I were in the situation of ragini I will never love a guy who said he don't love me. and if he loves my sis I will said her frankly that it is your choice. . but I don't like this relation.. one more thing you can't compare swara with ragini.. no justification for killing your sister for a guy..

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.Sarcasmazing.

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Posted: 10 years ago

But Swara refused Laksh when Ragini asked her to accept him right?

Swara would've caused the first bend IF she had professed love for Laksh when RagYa were engaged but she did not. Ragini for her own motives convinced Swara to accept Laksh by getting influenced by a revenge driven Sanskaar, not because she genuinely wanted them together & happy. Swara made sure that Ragini was ok with this, repeatedly kept asking her if she was sure about this & when Ragini completely assured & convinced her that she would never be happy with Laksh cos he was in love with her sister, did Swara accept it. Why would Swara want her sister to be with a guy who doesn't love her but loves her sister instead & even Swara used to reciprocate his feelings at that time? So no, I disagree with you. It was Ragini's malice, obsession & plotting that tear SwaRagini apart. The girl without flinching for a second chose her obsession over her own sister so that's saying something. Although I am pretty sure Swara would be thanking her stars & Ragini for not getting her married to a jerk like Laksh if she's not already 😆

Regarding Sanskaar, I am in two minds. Kinda furious at the way she sometimes behaves with him & kinda sympathetic cos I think it's complete defensive behavior on her part where she's scared to come to terms with her own feelings for him due to her scarred past & likes to live in delusion that she can still have Sanskaar while playing BFF's with him & still living in the bliss of being loved by him. No wonder she's gone beserk now that he's ignoring her & breaks down for the first time for him when he refuses to forgive her. This push was very much required for her to analyse her feelings for him & hopefully she'll introspect on why his aloofness affects her so damn much.

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Jwala

@LoveSriNal

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Posted: 10 years ago

for the information of everyone it is ragini who said to swara to give a chance to laksh. . it is ragini who said to swara to love laksh.. it is ragini who happily arrange their marriage. . if she wants laksh why did she open it in front of swara? is backstabbing is such a beautiful thing you can do with your sis? and why you people saying swara using sanskar? sanskar loves swara.. he want her to stay with him.. he is her husband. . tum log he kon husband and wife ke beech mein jaane ki.. grow up guys.. do you want swara leave MM and sanskar fall in to depression. . If anyone wants that I would say they never wants the happiness of sanskar

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Jwala

@LoveSriNal

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.
But Swara refused Laksh when Ragini asked her to accept him right?

Swara would've caused the first bend IF she had professed love for Laksh when RagYa were engaged but she did not. Ragini for her own motives convinced Swara to accept Laksh by getting influenced by a revenge driven Sanskaar, not because she genuinely wanted them together & happy. Swara made sure that Ragini was ok with this, repeatedly kept asking her if she was sure about this & when Ragini completely assured & convinced her that she would never be happy with Laksh cos he was in love with her sister, did Swara accept it. Why would Swara want her sister to be with a guy who doesn't love her but loves her sister instead & even Swara used to reciprocate his feelings at that time? So no, I disagree with you. It was Ragini's malice, obsession & plotting that tear SwaRagini apart. The girl without flinching for a second chose her obsession over her own sister so that's saying something. Although I am pretty sure Swara would be thanking her stars & Ragini for not getting her married to a jerk like Laksh if she's not already 😆

Regarding Sanskaar, I am in two minds. Kinda furious at the way she sometimes behaves with him & kinda sympathetic cos I think it's complete defensive behavior on her part where she's scared to come to terms with her own feelings for him due to her scarred past & likes to live in delusion that she can still have Sanskaar while playing BFF's with him & still living in the bliss of being loved by him. No wonder she's gone beserk now that he's ignoring her & breaks down for the first time for him when he refuses to forgive her. This push was very much required for her to analyse her feelings for him & hopefully she'll introspect on why his aloofness affects her so damn much.

agree with each and every word kavya.. you said it.. it is easy to blame a person. . but it is difficult to find the truth out..

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Zaalima_5

@Zaalima_5

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Posted: 10 years ago

i don't agree..😊

it was started with ragini.. from hospital scene. She forced her to bent in first. Still she cares for her.

But one thing i should say.. Swara should know the limit to behave with guys. i know she is pure soul and don't have any bad intention, but still she should keep distance with a guy when you r interacting whoever it may be friend, relative. If swara would have maintained the enough distance with laksh then situation would have been different.

even she is maried, she is not scolding laksh for keeping his hand on her shoulder. seriuosly how dumb she is..😕 She knows laksh loves her, then she should warn him and strictly she should say "plz make sound or say my name and don't ever touch me like this.." Dadi also warned her but devi ji won't listen to anyone.. hamesha apna hi logic hi lagana hota hai..😆

she is unknowingly allowing and allowed laksh near to her and he got attracted.. So i would say she unintentionally started "swaragini's" destruction.. and i still hate her for that. Don;t when she will learn.

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BB_CallmeC

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.
But Swara refused Laksh when Ragini asked her to accept him right?

Swara would've caused the first bend IF she had professed love for Laksh when RagYa were engaged but she did not. Ragini for her own motives convinced Swara to accept Laksh by getting influenced by a revenge driven Sanskaar, not because she genuinely wanted them together & happy. Swara made sure that Ragini was ok with this, repeatedly kept asking her if she was sure about this & when Ragini completely assured & convinced her that she would never be happy with Laksh cos he was in love with her sister, did Swara accept it. Why would Swara want her sister to be with a guy who doesn't love her but loves her sister instead & even Swara used to reciprocate his feelings at that time? So no, I disagree with you. It was Ragini's malice, obsession & plotting that tear SwaRagini apart. The girl without flinching for a second chose her obsession over her own sister so that's saying something. Although I am pretty sure Swara would be thanking her stars & Ragini for not getting her married to a jerk like Laksh if she's not already 😆

Regarding Sanskaar, I am in two minds. Kinda furious at the way she sometimes behaves with him & kinda sympathetic cos I think it's complete defensive behavior on her part where she's scared to come to terms with her own feelings for him due to her scarred past & likes to live in delusion that she can still have Sanskaar while playing BFF's with him & still living in the bliss of being loved by him. No wonder she's gone beserk now that he's ignoring her & breaks down for the first time for him when he refuses to forgive her. This push was very much required for her to analyse her feelings for him & hopefully she'll introspect on why his aloofness affects her so damn much.

@Kavya,

I am damn sure she is definitely thanking every possible thing that had stopped her wedding with Laksh😆