Originally posted by: eshaaax3.
okay this might be long,
*before i even start though, my choice has NOTHING to do with who is better looking, or who is so called *ugly*π₯± - i pity those who feel the need to get to the level of shaming physical appearances!! If not Vibhav, Aly or Gautam, someone else would have been playing Raj and Maddy- and what matters is the character sketch!!*
For me, Maddy wins everything, and therefore i do gear towards MaYal. Why Maddy?
Because he is a rational AND selfless person - not self-sacrificing, but selfless- he cares for the happiness of others, his family and friends' happiness makes him happy and he will do anything to see them happy.
Let's rewind to the episode after Maddy confessed to Koyal and found out Koyal loves Raj ... Did Maddy plunge at Raj and say "Oh so this is what your friendship is huh? Stealing my girl?" NO- he did not blame his friends, unlike someone else, instead he blamed himself for not being able to understand his own friends!! Do you see the difference in how he views things? He doesn't jump on people, he doesn't devalue them, he doesn't doubt them ... And after finding out Koyal doesn't love him but someone else, Maddy stepped aside and suppressed his feelings because he feels his love is not enough ... How many times has Maddy said that "I don't think I will be able to keep you happy" to Koyal? - He's in love with her, but still he doesn't just force that love onto Koyal, because he respects Koyal's choice enough to let her be.
When he married Koyal, he had no other choice but to marry her. That choice wasn't his first option, because he fears he won't be able to keep Koyal happy; He tried talking to everyone in the family and he had hoped Taani would come in time, but when he saw that Paro was in no condition to see the baraat leave and then may have to get admited again (which would then mean more money spent!), he had to resort to the absolute last choice.
I also LOVE Maddy's passion for education; especially when he pushes Koyal to do her studies and complete them.πππ
Also also also, can we talk about that episode where Maddy CRIES HIS HEART OUT IN THE BATHROOM???? Where no one can see that he's hurting, where no one can see how vulnerable he is, where no one can hear him, where no one can know how deep his pain is? GOD, that scene made me LOVE Maddy even more. He hides himself so he can see his own people happy. He can burn himself to see others happy ... but someone else can't burn for someone else's safety ... (referring to Raj plunging at Maddy for saving Koyal from marrying an ass like Samar ...π₯±)
And why i like MaYal? Because their friendship speaks so much more than any infatuation or love struck relationship. For those who are saying that MaYal are same old story, what exactly do you mean? You mean the "samjhauta marriage turns into love" ? Sure. But what about the fact that MaYal aren't an arranged marriage duo, or forced marriage duo?! MaYal are first BESTFRIENDS, not strangers or enemies. They're relationship is that of trust, understanding, support and loyalty, sprinkled with a layer of love beneath it all from Maddy. There have been VERY VERY VERY few shows on Indian Television that have showcased two friends who got married conditionally and then fallen in love along the way, AND btw the concept of friendship turned to love is not a popular concept to begin with, so that's definitely a reason why i say MaYal are DIFFERENT.
Maddy is Koyal's pillar, if she falls, he will pick her up. He will save her, he will ALWAYS be there for her. Maddy doesn't NEED anyone, but Koyal does, and the person who will ALWAYS stand by her IS Maddy.
I've watched so many, and i mean a crap ton, of telly shows and I've seen the same old "Angry young Man" + "Chirpy Girl" or the "Hotheaded but soft Guy" + "Whimsical Girl" or the "Romeo" so many times ... these Love-Hate relationships are boring now, and so is the "two people in love unite" story ... Maddy and Koyal's relationship shows the total opposite ... their friendship, that carries so much trust and understanding, will carry them through so many hurdles, and we've seen that since the beginning. I wanna see how a strong a relationship built on trust and years of friendship truly is, i wanna see how much love is hidden in that; it gives a realistic touch, i feel like in real life, there's more "friendships turned into love" then there is "love-hate " ...
(lastly i kinda somehow connect with Maddy, not personally, but something about Maddy is connectable, i feel like he's my own friend lolπ)
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