Please update your definition of 'STRONG WOMAN'

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I just saw the poll where Kishwer was voted the strongest woman in BB9 on the forum ?
Seriously?...Just because she raises her voice and is loud, and has strong opinions doesnt make her strong. Just because she talks back to people and isn't "afraid" that makes her strong?

A strong woman doesnt bully people, A strong woman doesnt spit in peoples food and most importantly, a strong woman doesnt try to control people which Kishwer is obviously doing in the house.

Please update your definition of what a strong woman is supposed to be because Kishwer is anything but strong...she hard-headed, stubborn, loud, adamant, opinionated, bold...but sorry to say she is not strong at all!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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If strong here is used in physical sense than yes Kishwar is indeed the strongest woman.

She is quite manly..she is tall..she is wide..she is physically strong, she has violent tendencies, she shouts, she is abusive, like men she has no problem in urinating in front of anyone.

I never found are feminine..there is nothing in her that defines a woman let alone strong woman

My definition of strong women are Rochelle, Priya and Rimi...yes Rimi is dheet and shameless but to get that treatment which she got in the end and still not loose cool was very impressive

Some will say when one becomes too dheet then u just dont care. I however think that was not the case with rimi..it was her game, her plan which she did not execute properly and over did it and backfired..this also means she is not immune to humiliation and somewhere inside she must have felt bad and there she remained strong and did not show and kept a smile..that is strong in her

Priya is also strong as proven by the task

Roch is strong because she stands up for what is fair and can go against anyone who is wrong.

"mera jo dooshman hai' is in between...some time good but weak other times

Digangana is okay for her age

So yes

1- Rimi
2- Priya
3- Roch
Edited by hippopotamus - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Most importantly, a strong woman is NOT insecure. This woman holds grudges against Mandy from day one until today, and she proved it in today's episode where she spoilt the fun people were having. She's just rude, not strong.

You can tell how hard it is for her to hold back her venom against Mandy, had Sallu not bashed for two continuous weeks then God knows how else she would have tried to bully Mandy.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agree..Kishwer is defintiely THE MOST physically strong woman in the house.Hands down...But Mentally.. no..

for me a strong person

-is a person who takes all criticisms, but doesnt stoop too low in doing the same thing as the other. to justify it...eg:.like if you snatch mine i will snatch yours...

- Strong are those people who use the mind in a smarter way to beat the other one in the game..Look out for their weaknesses.and use at the right time...

-Strong are those people who take stand at the right time, in a bold manner,but definitely not rude.. Laid back attitudes are the worst

-Strong people are those learn from mistakes and doesnt stoop low in doing it again...

-Strong are those people who have creativity in tackling their opponents..

All Kishwer really doesnt think from the brain..She just do whatever she wants,.From her view she is doing all good... Her voice and the way she expresses is one of her biggest problems... She can say nice things, but her voice modulation and expressions just change the meaning of her statements, and it comes out looking crass and rude...

And another problem is that, she gets a bit agitated when none supports her arguments, and she lose her cool alot of these times..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Did anyone declare Kishwar as "The strongest woman of all time" ??
Who said she is perfect? She has some flaws too. Just like everyone.
Its subjective.
A quality that I feel is strong might not be strong enough for you.

There is no measure of how strong a woman or a man is.

A person who always speaks loud & aggressively might be sad and upset from inside.
Similarly, a person who looks weak from outside might be mentally very strong.

You can never be the STRONGEST. You can never be STRONGER than ALL. But you can be STRONG enough for you.

Coming to Kishwar, I will still say ...
Yes. Kishwar is strong. Both physically and mentally !!! She is strong enough for herself.

But if we start comparing her with other women in the house like Priya is stronger than Kish, or Mandy is weaker than Kish... then there is proper answer for it.
Edited by diasingh2 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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So who is a strong woman for you?
Rochelle?

The woman who unnecessarily fought and swore at priya and damaged all the viewers eardrums?

You say Kishwar is loud, that must mean Rochelle is a banshee.

If Kishwar is a bully then what rochelle did today is no less than bullying.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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When Mandana, Rochelle, Diggi, Priya etc state their points and are comfortable with their opinion, don't care if other people agree, you will get a whole list of words of how these women are insecure, bitchy, pathetic. But when Kishwer does it everyone goes "wooow" she's such a strong woman.
Rochelle and mandana's crying is used to defeat their arguments, but kishwer is strong because she has two men who are there as a voice of validation.

The final argument used is always this "abba dabba jabba" nonsense - as though its some sort of the highest defeat of another argument. Kinda shows the stretch of their mental prowess.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaitan-Haiwan

I just saw the poll where Kishwer was voted the strongest woman in BB9 on the forum ?

Seriously?...Just because she raises her voice and is loud, and has strong opinions doesnt make her strong. Just because she talks back to people and isn't "afraid" that makes her strong?

A strong woman doesnt bully people, A strong woman doesnt spit in peoples food and most importantly, a strong woman doesnt try to control people which Kishwer is obviously doing in the house.

Please update your definition of what a strong woman is supposed to be because Kishwer is anything but strong...she hard-headed, stubborn, loud, adamant, opinionated, bold...but sorry to say she is not strong at all!

@bold... In this case the only strong woman in the house is Rimi... Or should I say, was Rimi.
Because the rest of the girls except for spitting incedent do exactly what Kish does. Roch went a step further and used a toothbrush.

Digi I have not named as strong because she was part of the spitting incedent... Was not strong enough, nor clear enough to explain to the others not to fo it.

@ italics this applies to all the girls in the house to a certain extent except for digi... Who has been as meek as a mouse in the show.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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FYI there is not one single post that says who is the strongest woman in the house.
So much insecurity?

Just because ppl aren't bashing kishwar that much like before and are bashing your favourites and rightly so, you can't stand it?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Strong women are like gauhar , urvashi

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