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naturesk

@naturesk

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Posted: 9 years ago

I have been a silent reader of this forum. This is the very first time I am going to share my views on today's episode.

I am sure there will be some of you who are going to disagree with me but you are all welcome to share your views (but please keep calm and donot abuse each other 😊).

This post is about Rochelle and Prince and whatever happened in today's episode.

1. First thing I would like to point out is that Prince and Rochelle seems to gel along really well. They look very comfortable with each other when they are on talking terms. I personally believe that they will remain good friends after BB9 is over.

2. BOTH are here to win. But there are differences in their approach to win:

ROCHELLE is a very clever and a beautiful lady. I find her really smart and strategic; she will do whatever it takes to move forward in this game. Most people think that she doesn't plan but I strongly believe that she does. She thinks and calculate before taking her steps. Her personality seems to change according to situations in the house. Apart from Keith, she is not going to be friends with anybody for a longer term. She will always have an on-off relationship with Prince and Mandana.
She might talk a lot unnecessarily but there are certain things that she knows when and how exactly to say or do. During a task if she feels she is going to lose, to tackle that situation she either starts using phrase "PHYSICAL (which we are all very familiar with now 😛)" or ofcourse "CRY". It is a known fact that most people mellow down when a girl starts crying. This is her strategy to get out of a situation and well it seems to be working magic for her. Not to say that it is a bad strategy, because almost every girl in all the bigg boss seasons have used it and are currently using it.

In today's episode, when Rishabh tried bringing her out of the car, she started crying and saying that he was being physical with her. She also claimed that Prince touched her inappropriately. This was her strategy to stop the boys from succeeding in getting her out the task. If she had not done it, she would have been out of the task within few minutes.

Let us move on to PRINCE. He is not a strategic player. When he said he goes by his heart, he actually meant it. Most people call him dumb or stupid but I strongly believe that he is neither of it. He is very childlike and soft, I do not find any fakeness in his personality. This guy is literally an open book. One of the most genuine person I have seen in a reality show. He makes friends really easily, trusts them and shows concern and care for them. But when it comes to a task, he does what he is best at- that is use his will power and strength to win it no matter who the opponent is.
His strategy to win a task is very simple, straight forward and very clear to the opponent team as well. He does get hyper in tasks for sure and it makes him look a lot aggressive.

In today's episode, when Rishabh asked Prince to help him get Rochelle out of the car, Prince started tickling her. She was seen taking it supportingly, but for the first few minutes ONLY. When she realized she was going to be out of the car soon, she used her strategy of crying and saying anything she could at that point, be it- rishabh is being physical or prince is touching my breasts. Mandana stopped both the boys and everybody left her alone. Rochelle knew very well too that neither Rishabh nor Prince meant any harm to her. She also mentioned later on that she is crying NOT because Prince touched her but because her birthday is ruined. They were all doing a task where Rishabh and Prince played their part and Rochelle played hers.

3. Analogy: Let us assume that I am playing football with my friends who are all boys (Oh! I forgot to mention, I am a girl 😃). It is a game and for sure I am going to be pushed, pulled, touched unintentionally almost anywhere. But it is a game and we play it happily and enjoy it. But the losing team will have to pay 1000 rupees per head. I do not want to pay a single penny and MY team is losing 😭, sooo I stand in the middle of the ground and call out my opponent and scream at him saying, " You are being physical! You are touching my breast. You cannot do this". The next thing- I start crying and the game is suspended. Nobody wins and I don't have to pay any money. This was my strategy.

So really guys, the whole point is:

Believe it or not, Rochelle exaggerated the whole situation so that she could stay inside the car and win the task. Smart move by her but it does harmfully negate a boys image.
Prince was not at all wrong. I am sure he would never intentionally touch any girl inappropriately. When they are doing a task, they should stop using phrases such as "PHYSICAL", "SEXUAL", OR "TOUCHING MY BOOBS" and instead fight with all their strength. A boy and a girl will never be equal UNTIL AND UNLESS we do not stop using these phrases for our own advantage. But if a gender really sexually abuses the opposite one, then by all means take action.
Really sorry to mention this but this forum is filled with so much negativity that when I read it today, it looked like Prince was sexually abusing Rochelle. I am really sorry but being a girl myself I did not find that happening at all from what I saw. It was a task!, a game!, everybody is playing. A boy would never do this intentionally especially when they have a camera above their head and the whole nation is watching them. Prince is not here to ruin his career or image, is he?

So really next time we start abusing a boy's upbringing or his character, we should really think about it. Sometimes, what we see is only the half truth. We should always stop and look at the same picture with a 360 degree turn. The first thing I thought was, what if it my brother instead of Prince. I know my brother won't ever touch a girl inappropriately. He is clearly having fun with her and trying to get his water bottle back, that doesn't mean he is sexually abusing her.

So guys please, we should all keep calm and not exaggerate this.

Note: This post was not to hurt anybody's feeling. If I did, I really apologize. 😊

Edited by naturesk - 9 years ago

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Nysax3

@Nysax3

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Posted: 9 years ago

I agree. I feel like some girls are going crazy over this and calling Rochelle "strong". In my opinion she is making girls look extremely weak. Yes, Prince touched her in the wrong place. But it was not INTENTIONAL. Yes Rishabh pulled her leg out but it was not AGRESSIVE or FORCEFUL. They way she cried afterwards, it was as if she was being seriously physically abused. She is a big drama queen and very slick, and its sad that people are falling into her trap.

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..Views..

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Posted: 9 years ago

Welcome to the forum

I felt so too ..

While I also felt like smacking the boys that even if roch is friendly n says u on face her strategy be careful while u deal with her..coz she will not hesitate to throw ur future under the bus for her game .

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Daayan Bai

@KunwaariDaayan

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: javeriiax3
I agree. I feel like some girls are going crazy over this and calling Rochelle "strong". In my opinion she is making girls look extremely weak. Yes, Prince touched her in the wrong place. But it was not INTENTIONAL. Yes Rishabh pulled her leg out but it was not AGRESSIVE or FORCEFUL. They way she cried afterwards, it was as if she was being seriously physically abused. She is a big drama queen and very slick, and its sad that people are falling into her trap.

Very nicely put!Its really funny how people can still fall into this trap when Rochelle herself has openly admitted on WKW just last week,that she used the "physical hai card to her advantage for task sake.Shouldn't these people now stop and think that..hey maybe it's her crying wolf again?

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naturesk

@naturesk

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Views..
Welcome to the forum

I felt so too ..

While I also felt like smacking the boys that even if roch is friendly n says u on face her strategy be careful while u deal with her..coz she will not hesitate to throw ur future under the bus for her game .

Thank you. You are absolutely right. I feel the boys especially Prince are soft with everyone in the house in general after a task is done; but the girls are very clever. They are playing even when there is no task ongoing.

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NEHU

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Posted: 9 years ago

I agree with each and every word of yours. You actually put my thoughts into words.
The only logic that I wanted to give others who were bashing Prince was the one you mentioned above. Why would someone do something inappropriate on cameras, he has a life outside of BB. People should at least use common sense.
Ro according to me is portraying women in a bad way. She talks about equality of gender(remember when Rimi said about girls should not try to be like guys) but still uses that women card as per her convenience. She should at least think that her pointing finger on someone's character can ruin his image forever. One should not stoop so low for a f**king game.

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peeyara

@peeyara

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Posted: 9 years ago

Initially i loved Roch cause she was related to cricket(one of my love 😆) toh obviously i was inclined towards her but that inclination has been reduced to ashes, i don't think i will be ever to like her ever even in cricket when she will come on screen

I hv been observing that in the name of playing game , she is ruining Prince's image which is just not right

Prince was definitely not doing that on purpose, it was unintentional

Irony is She will do anything to win but she starts crying when others give back to her

p.s. u explained it nicely ⭐️

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naturesk

@naturesk

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: DelusionalMe
I agree with each and every word of yours. You actually put my thoughts into words.
The only logic that I wanted to give others who were bashing Prince was the one you mentioned above. Why would someone do something appropriate on cameras, he has a life outside of BB. People should at least use common sense.
Ro according to me is portraying women in a bad way. She talks about equality of gender(remember when Rimi said about girls should not try to be like guys) but still uses that women card as per her convenience. She should at least think that her pointing finger on someone's character can ruin his image forever. One should not stoop so low for a f**king game.

I am really glad some people are on the same page as me. It just hurts to see how a girl can bring down a guys image so easily even on a live show by just using these few phrases; the worse part is most of us fall for it.

All I could see in today's episode was just a task being played, there was no sexual abuse or aggression but ofcourse since we all have different perspectives others might view it differently.

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naturesk

@naturesk

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: peeyara
Initially i loved Roch cause she was related to cricket(one of my love 😆) toh obviously i was inclined towards her but that inclination has been reduced to ashes, i don't think i will be ever to like her ever even in cricket when she will come on screen
I hv been observing that in the name of playing game , she is ruining Prince's image which is just not right

Prince was definitely not doing that on purpose, it was unintentional

Irony is She will do anything to win but she starts crying when others give back to her

p.s. u explained it nicely ⭐️

hahah, thank you 😊. You are right, none of the boys in the house would do this intentionally. And all the girls know this very well; they are playing smart and using every chance to gain attention or sympathy. What prompted me to write down this post was the negativity that I see in this forum. Nobody is trying to see through the real personalities of these celebrities, especially the ladies of the house.

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WreckLass

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Firstly, welcome to the forum. You have written your post well. It's clear n precise.

Now coming to the woman card, I agree, its been used way too loosely this season. It's a task n touching happens. They should just let it go. Fine its a strategy in their game...but not every time.

Having said that, we can never know the intention of the man too. Yes the girls use the woman card, that doesn't mean the guy gets off without any blame whatsoever(in some cases).

Even if the dude is a pervert, just coz the woman uses the woman card, he will be let go scott free...nah! Not always.

All am saying we can't really judge if the guy did it intentionally or it was just a task thing.

Guys should also know their limits. Even if its a task, why touch the girls..why tickle? Well, u know the woman card will be used..happened in previous tasks too. Then why even do the same thing. They should have come up with another way of letting the girl outta the car..without touching.

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