Originally posted by: desirocks
nice topic sapna..i often talk abt this stuff! 😛
well responsibilities hav increased over the years 4 women not jus them but girls 2! im 17 yrs old senior in high school. i hav a job so that i can save up money 4 college n then im tryin 2 graduate at same time but when i come home my mom expects me 2 do my chores!! my weekend like goes wrking n cleaning the house. i think almost all south asian girls hav to do all this but guys they dnt hav 2 n i dont think this thing will ever change??Yes this is the way mothers treating their girls in every whare,( but my case my brothers also helped me . they are so helpful hence) I have no complaints. But I didn't think in western countries also South Asian girls treated like this. But as a mother of two girls I want them know how to do the work not more than that.Trained accordingly, (but not compulsorily make them do the work) they have to live themselves in later years.
ppl these days expects girls to be "padhi likhi" if they want her 2 b there daughter in law even tho they dnt knw if they want her 2 do a job or not?? ppl r confused themselves. they r giving women to b modern n advance but still hav them tied to the house hold wrk chains!!Even mothers cant change them how can mothers in law.
thats wat my opinon was..hope i didnt offended no one!! 😳 😛
Girls should know the household work otherwise if there is no servant they can not even prepare their own food. My parents made it sure myself and my brothers should know the necessary house hold works so that we may not be dependent on others Now it is fashon that mothers are boasting that ther daughter don't know any house hold work.