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Aasaan naheen yahaan aashiq ho jaanaa
Palkon pe kaanton ko sajaanaa
Aashiq ko miltee hain gham ki saugaatein
Sabko na miltaa ye khazaanaa..
Rarely did scenes or characters in serial exert influence on me. I can actually count the previous instance, which a series or movie influenced me and gave me sleepless nights.And after 3 years a character and his love had an impact on me. Sanskaar Maheshwari's Pyaar again reminded me that Pyaar yesa bhi kar saktha hai. He loved Swara without expecting anything, he loved Swara when he was so sure that Swara will not even think about loving him and still he promised her to be her friend till the end.Pyaar karna aasan hai, but sacrificing love is not that easy yet people do that, but can we really make ourselves suffer by staying close to the person as a friend for a lifetime? And that impressed me most, that is something which I couldn't do and I will not do as I know the intensity of the pain very well. I would have simply avoided the person or limit the contact with the person. No matter how selfless we are, it is agonizing to watch the person we love with another person and when Sanskaar agreed for the lifetime friendship with Swara he know that sooner or later Swara will move on with another person (it can be Laksh or some other man). If Laksh was in Sanskaar's place, he would never do that. And Imagine, if in future Swara choose to look as her life partner, will he allow Swara to continue the friendship with Sanskaar, will he respect her friendship, No.He may pretend to respect it, but he will be insecure and if he caught Sanskaar from their bedroom at midnight he will burst out. Someone questioned yesterday how Sanskaar is a good husband, my simple answer, he follows one of the main and my favorite vow of marriage, IE, the promise to maintain the companionship, togetherness, loyalty and understanding between themselves. The vow to carry out the friendship for a lifetime and the vow that they will not break their friendship in life.
And Laksh Ji;
Bas itna samajh lijiye,
Pyar Karna Aasan Hai Par Use Nibhana Utna He Muskil
And how is your love different from Ragini's madness. You already forgot that the ultimate reason for your decision to marry Ragini is her suicide drama, and you are doing the same to convince Swara? And seeing her concerned face, you decided that she still loves you, even you were concerned when Ragini collapsed during Durga Puja, so can we interpret it as your love for her? You have made the most important decision in your life, when she was about to commit suicide, can we interpret your action as love?
PS: Note: If an interesting character like Sanskaar was not in Swaragini, I would have stopped watching it the minute Swara showed immense faith in Ragini even after knowing the gravity of Ragini's misdeeds. Creatives are actually mocking the intelligence of viewers with the recycled story line for TRP purpose. Ragini is playing the same game. Kidnap, pretending to favor Swara-Laksh love, misleading Photographs and the suicide idea, Wasn't it the same game which she already played and succeeded to fool others. And Laksh ji, you are not making a mistake now, you chose to be with Ragini. And I believe in the famous saying , you can't make the same mistake twice, the second time it is not mistake , it is a choice.
Palkon pe kaanton ko sajaanaa
Aashiq ko miltee hain gham ki saugaatein
Sabko na miltaa ye khazaanaa..
Rarely did scenes or characters in serial exert influence on me. I can actually count the previous instance, which a series or movie influenced me and gave me sleepless nights.And after 3 years a character and his love had an impact on me. Sanskaar Maheshwari's Pyaar again reminded me that Pyaar yesa bhi kar saktha hai. He loved Swara without expecting anything, he loved Swara when he was so sure that Swara will not even think about loving him and still he promised her to be her friend till the end.Pyaar karna aasan hai, but sacrificing love is not that easy yet people do that, but can we really make ourselves suffer by staying close to the person as a friend for a lifetime? And that impressed me most, that is something which I couldn't do and I will not do as I know the intensity of the pain very well. I would have simply avoided the person or limit the contact with the person. No matter how selfless we are, it is agonizing to watch the person we love with another person and when Sanskaar agreed for the lifetime friendship with Swara he know that sooner or later Swara will move on with another person (it can be Laksh or some other man). If Laksh was in Sanskaar's place, he would never do that. And Imagine, if in future Swara choose to look as her life partner, will he allow Swara to continue the friendship with Sanskaar, will he respect her friendship, No.He may pretend to respect it, but he will be insecure and if he caught Sanskaar from their bedroom at midnight he will burst out. Someone questioned yesterday how Sanskaar is a good husband, my simple answer, he follows one of the main and my favorite vow of marriage, IE, the promise to maintain the companionship, togetherness, loyalty and understanding between themselves. The vow to carry out the friendship for a lifetime and the vow that they will not break their friendship in life.
And Laksh Ji;
Bas itna samajh lijiye,
Pyar Karna Aasan Hai Par Use Nibhana Utna He Muskil
And how is your love different from Ragini's madness. You already forgot that the ultimate reason for your decision to marry Ragini is her suicide drama, and you are doing the same to convince Swara? And seeing her concerned face, you decided that she still loves you, even you were concerned when Ragini collapsed during Durga Puja, so can we interpret it as your love for her? You have made the most important decision in your life, when she was about to commit suicide, can we interpret your action as love?
PS: Note: If an interesting character like Sanskaar was not in Swaragini, I would have stopped watching it the minute Swara showed immense faith in Ragini even after knowing the gravity of Ragini's misdeeds. Creatives are actually mocking the intelligence of viewers with the recycled story line for TRP purpose. Ragini is playing the same game. Kidnap, pretending to favor Swara-Laksh love, misleading Photographs and the suicide idea, Wasn't it the same game which she already played and succeeded to fool others. And Laksh ji, you are not making a mistake now, you chose to be with Ragini. And I believe in the famous saying , you can't make the same mistake twice, the second time it is not mistake , it is a choice.
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