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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Well, wonderfully expressed. So well written! Definitely SANSKAR is heart, soul & TRP of this serial. Other three are mad! The maddest should be Swara! Heights!

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Kamala

@Kamala05

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: --Anna--
Brilliant post Kamala 🤗
I love this line, 'Pyaar karna asaan hai, par usse nibhana utna hi mushkil' - Wow!! 👏

Sanskaar Sanskaar Sanskaar! Kya kahoon jo aaj tak nahin kaha? Sanskaar is the epitome of Love! I mean seriously! This guy has me in tears in each of his scene. Some happy and some sad - his selflessness, his loyalty, his compassion, his balanced nature, his responsible behaviour - everything screams of undying love for Swara. Sanskaar ne pyaar kiya bhi and usse nibhaya bhi.

Laksh. Sometimes I do not understand what is the point of his character but then I get it. He is a pompous, arrogant, pampered brat who has in life been given everything he ever desired. Frankly, I think that is why he got married to Ragini that day. It was not because he wanted to help her or save her from committing suicide (like marriage is a way to stop suicide 🤪) - his ego was crushed that Swara had left him. His arrogance had fallen flat on his face and he could not take it. 😆 More so, again, he is committing the same mistake. He trusted Ragini then - I can still understand he was fooled by her innocence - but after knowing how she can manipulate - he still believes in her - I mean really, he does love Ragini from the bottom of his heart. 😆

As they say, Fool me once, shame on you ; fool me twice, shame on me.

This is APT for LRG! 😆 He is being fooled again and it is his mistake. 😛

Anna , thanks for your views
Sanskaar action reminds me of the following words of Khalil Gibran

"Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love. And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself"
Sanskaar love is superior cause it doesn't have ego . I have seen many men possess woman after marriage , for them the marriage gives them authority to take control of Woman , Sanskaar could have possess Swara too, he can easily convince her family and his family , but nay , he will not do that .

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--Anna--

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Kamala05

Anna , thanks for your views
Sanskaar action reminds me of the following words of Khalil Gibran

"Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love. And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself"
Sanskaar love is superior cause it doesn't have ego . I have seen many men possess woman after marriage , for them the marriage gives them authority to take control of Woman , Sanskaar could have possess Swara too, he can easily convince her family and his family , but nay , he will not do that .

Kamala, Sanskaar could have been so worse! He could have easily used this situation for himself. Indian laws are such that a husband is kind of assumed to have a right over his legally wedded wife - even if the wife does not desire to be in the relationship. Sanskaar could have easily forced himself on Swara - created situations for her to accept him - blackmailed her - done so much - but he did not. Love is not about possessing - or like Laksh said 'main tumhe paana chahta hoon' 😡 - it is all about giving and giving selflessly. Sanskaar is just that and that is why audience loves him. A man like this - so understanding and balanced is not an easy find in the society. People love Sanskaar for being a considerate husband, a loyal friend, a passionate human being and an obedient son. Ego has no role in love - where there is ego, arrogance - there is no love. Where there is talk of possession - that is to a certain extent lust and obsession - not love.

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Komal

@teribts7

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Bang on post... i loved it so much

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canuck-umz

@canuck-umz

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: sanabmw
what a beautiful post...👏
sanskar ne jo kiya hai swara k liye aur kar raha hai bahot badi baat hai..kisi ko pyaar karna aur use apni aakho k saamne kho dena ..than phir pyaar hona aur usse k jisko aap kabhi apni life main nahi laa sakte..kyu k wo aapko pyaar hi nahi karta..uske liye aapka pyaar dokha ho aur wo samjhe hi na aapko aur aapke pyaar ko...agar aisa hota hai to seriously koi bhi us unsaan sr contect na rakhe..even use pyaar bhi na kare...but no sanskar ne apna pyaar kabhi kam nahi kiya

This is random but I like how you write your posts in Roman Urdu/Hindi.

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Isha

@JilyPotter

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Beautifully said! Especially in the regards of Laksh (or any man) might not even let Swara and Sanskaar's friendship grow as he seems to jealous of his own brother, a brother who has never wished him ill. He treats Sanskaar with such disdain, and malice that their scenes are so gut-wrenching to watch, because Sanskaar is trying so hard to love, help, and care his brother, and all Laksh thinks of is Swara and he constantly berates Sanskaar. And Sanskaar simply looks defeated, and that truly is a sad site.

I feel in face everything, a boy, my future, anything honestly, the one person I would never ever want to lose is my sister. And Laksh is willingly scarifying a good relation with his brother for a girl. Now this is beyond ludicrous to me. Maybe that is why I understand why Swara is giving Ragini another chance because she so desperately wants her sister back (although I wish she saw through the facade). This reminded of a saying, "When the string of trust is broken, even if it is retied - there will always be a knot" and that applies equally to Ragini and Laksh.

Sanskaar's love is so selfless that I don't believe anyone or anything can waver it. It is truly pure,and unyielding that I wish to crave such a love. He puts Swara in front of anything else, but still at the end of the day - he still loves himself as well. And would never be the manju to off himself if Swara didn't love him back.

Edited by .Regal. - 9 years ago

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Kamala

@Kamala05

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: .Regal.
Beautifully said! Especially in the regards of Laksh (or any man) might not even let Swara and Sanskaar's friendship grow as he seems to jealous of his own brother, a brother who has never wished him ill. He treats Sanskaar with such disdain, and malice that their scenes are so gut-wrenching to watch, because Sanskaar is trying so hard to love, help, and care his brother, and all Laksh thinks of is Swara and he constantly berates Sanskaar. And Sanskaar simply looks defeated, and that truly is a sad site.

I feel in face everything, a boy, my future, anything honestly, the one person I would never ever want to lose is my sister. And Laksh is willingly scarifying a good relation with his brother for a girl. Now this is beyond ludicrous to me. Maybe that is why I understand why Swara is giving Ragini another chance because she so desperately wants her sister back (although I wish she saw through the facade). This reminded of a saying, "When the string of trust is broken, even if it is retied - there will always be a knot" and that applies equally to Ragini and Laksh.

Sanskaar's love is so selfless that I don't believe anyone or anything can waver it. It is truly pure,and unyielding that I wish to crave such a love. He puts Swara in front of anything else, but still at the end of the day - he still loves himself as well. And would never be the manju to off himself if Swara didn't love him back.

Fab analysis Regal , And the highlighted points are one of the unexplored version of this track. Thanks for your input.

Edited by Kamala05 - 9 years ago

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Sakura24

@Sakura24

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

I have never ever shipped someone who loved so utter selflessly. To the last ting in my heart your post mirrored my emotions towards this topic. Yes, everyone at one point or the other falls in love, but not everyone is strong or courageous enough to hang around and watch your love move on without you. That is a commendable quality.

But perhaps that is the difference between Lakshya and Sanskar.

You see, Sanskar was in love before. He had loved Kavita, lost her brutally and survived it. He is no stranger to love in that way he is mature than both Swara and Lakshya. Lakshya had never loved before...in my opinion he's still not in love, what he feels is just an extended form of an attraction, or a mild crush that he's currently developing in to possessiveness. He would never be as strong as Sanskar is, for to be steel you need to under go the tests of fire and the pains of ice...he had not and judging by the way he behaves will not in the future either.

To fall in love there is no need to be acquainted with the feeling, but to forsake it you must see the eternal suffering it would otherwise grant upon your beloved. To hold another's happiness above yours, at the cost of yours, is not every man's cup of tea.

Sooner or later I'm sure Swara is going to reciprocate this love. A river roams around certainly but at the end always rests in the arms of the ocean. It knows that the ocean is waiting, silently at the end of its journey, waiting for it to pour all its woes in to the endless depths and find solace among the cherry waves...that would be similar to the love she would one day attain.

Enjoyed your post to bits dear, write more, if you could. 😊

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sana

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

This is random but I like how you write your posts in Roman Urdu/Hindi.

i m from ahamdabad just like VK😳...gujju girl..😆.but after marriage i learn urdu.b/c my hubby living in pak.and his family member spoke eng or urdu..they dont know about hindi or gujrati..so this the reason behind my gud urdu😊

thx so much.

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