Why is Meher not able to commit to Abeer? The Ishaan connect.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Is Meher upset with Abeer that he divorced her? Was she not the one who left him in the morning?

He was begging her to come back to him and accepted his mistakes. Meher was the one to sign the divorce documents first. Meher was witness to Kuber talking about the money in front of Abeer during the divorce and she would be dumb to not know how Kuber was scheming. So why is she bitter about the divorce? After all it was her decision even though Abeer's immaturity lead her to get to that point. But seriously, they could have moved out of the house and pulled their lives together with some effort and compromise; or at the very least tried. But Meher didnt want to...

In today's episode Suman tells Meher that Meher till now could never forgive her father for what he did to them and that Meher should not compare Abeer to her father. Abeer as we know him is not at all like Meher's father.

What did Meher's father do? He ditched his wife and children, married someone else.

Abeer has never thought about anyone but Meher as his wife, he was immature but did not exactly ditch Meher. Meher wanted to leave and at some point he succumbed to the scheming of his father... so the only crime he could have committed would be to have given up on his child. That is something Meher could not accept or forgive; as thats exactly what her father had done!! The man whom she hates.

For one to be in the midst of a broken family is very difficult, it leaves a lot of emotional scars. Meher having been from such a family will not be able to handle a similar situation rationally. Abeer's reaction to their child was explosive and it hurt her a lot and made her compare him to her father.

Now that Dove boy and Meher are going to be engaged, Abeer has started following Akshat and would find Ishaan and also realize that Akshat is truly a gentleman. Abeer would be drawn to Ishaan and would try to befriend him and also own-up to Meher that Akshat is a good guy.

So any guesses, who Ishaan might be?




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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have a strong feeling that it's Akshat's son for sure..
The way suman and meher convo was.. I feel that Ishaan must be akshat's son.
I'm sure that its not Mehbeer's child, i can be wrong too..
But this is my point of view!



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post yaar
I agree Eventhough the relation broke up due to abeers deeds, meher also didn't give a chance to abeer to regret for his mistakes. ...and this may be due to mehers fear...
But now I think meher should atleast see to it that abeer was living only in her memories. ...
I too agree abeer should ment his ways ...but one thing is foresure from today's episode that meher also couldn't resist abeer...
And there is no justification in comparing her ghattiya father with spoilt brat abeer in anyways...I think she should take her father's and ex husband matter differently...
And also till now it is not shown how she suffered during these 8 yrs ...we will wait and see that...I think she should make abeer understand about the hurdles she had to face during 8 yrs than always blaming abeer for the same
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarathy321

Nice post yaar
I agree Eventhough the relation broke up due to abeers deeds, meher also didn't give a chance to abeer to regret for his mistakes. ...and this may be due to mehers fear...
But now I think meher should atleast see to it that abeer was living only in her memories. ...
I too agree abeer should ment his ways ...but one thing is foresure from today's episode that meher also couldn't resist abeer...
And there is no justification in comparing her ghattiya father with spoilt brat abeer in anyways...I think she should take her father's and ex husband matter differently...
And also till now it is not shown how she suffered during these 8 yrs ...we will wait and see that...I think she should make abeer understand about the hurdles she had to face during 8 yrs than always blaming abeer for the same


Exactly my point. She should tell Abeer what she went through and see for herself what happens after that. Why is she not telling him? Thats Mehers problem, not being entirely open with Abeer :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mages007

I have a strong feeling that it's Akshat's son for sure..

The way suman and meher convo was.. I feel that Ishaan must be akshat's son.
I'm sure that its not Mehbeer's child, i can be wrong too..
But this is my point of view!




True Ishaan must be somehow related to Akshat...
The way Suman was talking didnt really seem like herr grandson
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mages007

I have a strong feeling that it's Akshat's son for sure..

The way suman and meher convo was.. I feel that Ishaan must be akshat's son.
I'm sure that its not Mehbeer's child, i can be wrong too..
But this is my point of view!




Yes... she may be signing the guardianship agreement. But why would Suman bring up Ishaan and say he 'may' be happy too?

Akshat looks like he just passed out of college, would be difficult to digest him having a 6 or 7 yr old son ;)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishaan is Mehbeer son for sure.He cannot be Akshat's son.This will be the biggest twist of the show.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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ishaan is confused mystery...but i feel he is Mehbeer's son...but than one part of me says why is the whole Purohit family hiding to abeer abt his son...he is not a jallad who will snatch away his son from the mother of his kid...he loves his wife more than his life...he will not snatch her son from him...doesn't he have the rights to know that he has become a father...the biggest joy for every men in the world that he has become a father...doesn't abeer has the right to know that he has enter the next phase of his life that is fatherhood...why hide his son from him...why such a cruel punishment to abeer when its equally of meher too...

I read that abeer wants to find out abt akshat's weakness...if ishaan is Mehbeer's son...he is definitely not akshat's weakness...yes he loves the boy...but he is definitely not his weakness...as some point of time...he has to let ishaan go to his real father...abeer malhotra...

everyone are so casual abt ishaan...but doesn't the real father of the kid have the rights to know that there is a existence of his son...his shadow...his blood...his soul...his love symbol...

if meher thinks abt what abeer says 8 yrs back abt their baby...she is highly needs to grow up becos 8 yrs back abeer was in his early 20s...who has no idea of how to take the responsibility of a father...now abeer is in his 30s...if he yearns for his wife and wants her back in his life...he want his kids too from her...he has been living life alone all his life in this 8 yrs...he wants his family consist of his wife and kids...people won't stay the same...abeer though immatured in nature...he is not the same abeer of 8 yrs back...he has that little maturity in him...which meher fails to see or doesn't want to see it...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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BD is full of surprises cant say but this ishaan is a big mystery.
My gut feeling is saying he is mehbeers kid but what i felt is hiding the fact from abeer may be...they think..abeer would again insult them...but ...what i fell they are not hiding it by abeer but by the world i mean by KM most probab !!! dont know may be there is something big happened btw...km amd meher regarding the kid isssue..wich is still under the curtains...and thats why all are hiding the ishan fact...

there is so many possibility..one possibility is this that ishaN is so attached to akshat he fells akshat is his dad and purohit family rthink that if abeer will get to know about this will get more hurt specially suman...so may be this...is mere possibility..meher is hiding form abeer bec she thinks abeer will agaain run awayay and insult her..suman tihnk abeer will get hurt knowing ishhan so aatached to akshat...and whole family...is hiding bec the ..Malhotra family issue...😲

Third possibility is..akshat to be ishaan father and his mother to be dead but Akshat is not at all like a father figure he is like just now paased on collage...😕

Confusion hi confusion hai solution kuch pata nahin lets see...yeh BD kya kya rang dekhata hai aur...😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

ishaan is confused mystery...but i feel he is Mehbeer's son...but than one part of me says why is the whole Purohit family hiding to abeer abt his son...he is not a jallad who will snatch away his son from the mother of his kid...he loves his wife more than his life...he will not snatch her son from him...doesn't he have the rights to know that he has become a father...the biggest joy for every men in the world that he has become a father...doesn't abeer has the right to know that he has enter the next phase of his life that is fatherhood...why hide his son from him...why such a cruel punishment to abeer when its equally of meher too...

I read that abeer wants to find out abt akshat's weakness...if ishaan is Mehbeer's son...he is definitely not akshat's weakness...yes he loves the boy...but he is definitely not his weakness...as some point of time...he has to let ishaan go to his real father...abeer malhotra...

everyone are so casual abt ishaan...but doesn't the real father of the kid have the rights to know that there is a existence of his son...his shadow...his blood...his soul...his love symbol...

if meher thinks abt what abeer says 8 yrs back abt their baby...she is highly needs to grow up becos 8 yrs back abeer was in his early 20s...who has no idea of how to take the responsibility of a father...now abeer is in his 30s...if he yearns for his wife and wants her back in his life...he want his kids too from her...he has been living life alone all his life in this 8 yrs...he wants his family consist of his wife and kids...people won't stay the same...abeer though immatured in nature...he is not the same abeer of 8 yrs back...he has that little maturity in him...which meher fails to see or doesn't want to see it...


Well Ishaan is a mystery..If he is a kid, I think he is Mehbeer's son, but not sure, and about everyone hiding it from Abeer, well I would say to a point it is justified, not saying it is right, Abeer should know. I completely agree with ur point that Abeer has changed a lot in the past 8 yrs and he has the rights to know about his son...

Well I have a feeling this Ishaan will take a entry soon and it's going to change a lots of things, I am already getting lots of ideas on how to fit Ishaan in the story, And I don't know why but I am having a strong feeling if Ishaan is Mehbeer's son Abeer is going to have a grand meeting with him soon (I hope u understand what I mean by grand😉) and from the first meeting they will bond, and this will also effect Meher..

And I am having another feeling that all these might happen in the engagement day it self and this grand meeting engagement ka band bajadega...😆

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