Originally posted by: asmaanixx
Thanks! 😃 ok i just typed a whole response to this, and my page froze and i lost my reply :( here it goes again.ok so just looked over my previous comment, and boy i went on a tangent and was incoherent as well. plz do excuse that.Sikhism as a culture has been raised to be really proud of themselves. I don't know how much you know about the Sikh history, but there has been a LOT of bloodshed. So many sacrifices have been made by our Gurus because of their strong beliefs and values. The torture and inhumane manner in which they have been murdered is absolutely horrifying. I feel it's because of this horrific past, we have been raised to be not depressed or feel pity for ourselves. But rather to be proud and feel honor in the sacrifices that have been made. To walk with our heads held high, feeling confident in everything that we do and not back down from a challenge.yes i know about Sikh history and the faith, so no worries, I understand all your referencing to. I completely agree with your connection on Sikhs being raised as such because of the background of Sikhi and all the sacrifices made. Its very much true I feel, that imbibing pride and honor comes from that. Also remembering and respecting all who sacrificed as well, is of great importance in Sikhi, and is mentioned in the religious scriptures as well.I think the idea of spending lavishly is not to be tied down to materialistic things. Money is merely a tool in which we can buy commodities to please ourselves temporarily. The true inner peace and happiness is supposed to come from the companionship with our friends and families and most importantly from reading the Gurbani. 👍🏼 well said. totally true from the spiritual/religious perspective. i relate to what you stated. the lavish concept is more of a stereotype for the Punjabi community as a whole in general, and it is just a generalization that doesn't apply to everyone, but is just how most people perceive Punjabis to be- big hearted maybe describes it better.See, as a person, I am incredibly shy until you get to know me. I keep to myself and only talk when it is needed. But when I do talk, there is so much that I have to say. As you may noticed I have generally presented myself as this "professional" writer and an insightful analytic. But today I did break down those walls and presented the crazy,jhalli side to me. 😆yes i noticed😛😆 its nice to se that side :) and its great to be yourself and talk/write as however is comfortable :) In this regard, Sikhs can be quiet, timid or shy, but they are most well known for their loud and outspoken personality. They have even often been called the "life of the party" and yes I'm being biased here, I find this to be true. 😆We really are different.yes, and though some Punjabi stereotypes hold true for most, everyone is not alike. at the end of the day, everyone is an individual, and unique.Mast mahol mein rehna, hamesha haaste gaate rehna, it's all true for us.I'm actually reminded of this one Daler Mehndi song, maybe you've heard of it. It's going something like, "Saade nal raho ge toh aish karoge, Zindagi de saare cash karoge". heard of that song? i love that song 😆Punjabi old school songs ftw!😎Gosh, that actually brought back so many memories. <3