letting anger out @ someone else.. good?

hey guys..

okay i wanted to debate this topic.. pretend u got a bad mark or something OR ur mad at somebody.. is it right to put ur anger out on ur friends.. like if ur friends asked u what happeend then u start yelling at them fr no reason.. cuz ur mad at that 'particular' person.. and ur letting ur anger out on ur friends..

is that fairr..? in my opinioon that is totally not fair.. ur friends dont deserve this when they ddint even do anything.. then why? why do ppl do these thingss..? things like this happens to me. when i let my anger out on my friends.. or they do that too.. but then i regret it and i say sorryy.. but does sorry reallyy help? 😕

your take..?

No not fair total uncalled for ... these ppl have a serious issue and look for an excuse to excerise there furstation on others who have never metion or done anything?? 😕

I serious believe these people need help and assistance to challenge there emotions and i hate ppl who let them carry on with it!!.... 😕 see we all handle things differently and everyone is not the same and our common sense levels is all different.... they are weak idividuals who are unable to understand the situation all ther emotions...See to me its a sign of weakness...but then our friendship and love gets involved and at the end of the day we are the better person! 😳 .... for helping them out

Kat

so true

i see people takin out frustratin

on others which is so unfair

i have diffrent issue 😆

i am not that hot tempered person

but sometime i do get angry n

i want fight but problem is

i donno how to fight i guess

i remain silent n others feel i have

so big attitute problem they mis understand

although my mom is the one with

whom i fight sometime next moment

we patch up 😆

otherwise i like keepin my feelings to myself

i want everything to be perfect

this is case takin out frustration on my own self 😆

i like this behaviour atleast i don"t take

out my frustration on my people 😳

which might hurt someone

Originally posted by: Catwoman

No not fair total uncalled for ... these ppl have a serious issue and look for an excuse to excerise there furstation on others who have never metion or done anything?? 😕

I serious believe these people need help and assistance to challenge there emotions and i hate ppl who let them carry on with it!!.... 😕 see we all handle things differently and everyone is not the same and our common sense levels is all different.... they are weak idividuals who are unable to understand the situation all ther emotions...See to me its a sign of weakness...but then our friendship and love gets involved and at the end of the day we are the better person! 😳 .... for helping them out

Kat

well said 😊

Look at it from other angle - You are actually helping your friend in anger, to calm down. Aren't friends for helping, later you get to hear sincere sorry, hug and words like "you are best friend in this world with tons patience"...isn't that priceless 😉 😊

😉Oh umm i am guilty of this 😳 not on stupid issues, just big major decisions that affect me.

but truth is i know that i do this, lolss 😳 Bottle too much up inside of me and one day bomb explodes for no reason. Take anger out on people i care about. 😳 but for me, i guess i know that these people are there 4 me no matter wht 😊

Sorry do not agree these people are weak individuals- Easy thing to do is go actually go punch someone, or smash a few plates. Hard thing is to do is take anger out on others as you know that they will always be ther efor you no matter what. And you might not think that you take anger out on others, but Fact is you probably do, we all do, its human nature to do. You just dont realize. Agreed many ways to go abt taking anger out...but think of times wen u r angry ay some1 else n get moody on other people, this is STILL Taking out anger on others, just that there are different ways that come under this bracket - of taking anger out on others.

Also for those who know they do it - thats the hardest thing to admit so well done to the ppl who do admit this, rather than be like others and so NO NO nver do i do this 😉

Yes its not fair when it is all the time for No reason, but sometimes might seem like a small issue to some people, but for them it could be a big thing.

Being on recieving end is better....😳 at least u know you are being good friend and comforting them...I have done it loads wih close friends. and i know that they are appreciative of me being there just listening to that someone when they just need someone to take things out on...my best friend, she takes a lot of fustration out on us close friends, but as of comfort level...she knows we are ther No matter what...and understand her feelings. This is what True friends are, who dont complain...just get on with it and deal with it. Rather than say how unfair it is. Or even with family. Family there 4 u no mater what😊

Originally posted by: anon

😉Oh umm i am guilty of this 😳 not on stupid issues, just big major decisions that affect me.

but truth is i know that i do this, lolss 😳 Bottle too much up inside of me and one day bomb explodes for no reason. Take anger out on people i care about. 😳 but for me, i guess i know that these people are there 4 me no matter wht 😊

Sorry do not agree these people are weak individuals- Easy thing to do is go actually go punch someone, or smash a few plates. Hard thing is to do is take anger out on others as you know that they will always be ther efor you no matter what. And you might not think that you take anger out on others, but Fact is you probably do, we all do, its human nature to do. You just dont realize. Agreed many ways to go abt taking anger out...but think of times wen u r angry ay some1 else n get moody on other people, this is STILL Taking out anger on others, just that there are different ways that come under this bracket - of taking anger out on others.

Also for those who know they do it - thats the hardest thing to admit so well done to the ppl who do admit this, rather than be like others and so NO NO nver do i do this 😉

Yes its not fair when it is all the time for No reason, but sometimes might seem like a small issue to some people, but for them it could be a big thing.

Being on recieving end is better....😳 at least u know you are being good friend and comforting them...I have done it loads wih close friends. and i know that they are appreciative of me being there just listening to that someone when they just need someone to take things out on...my best friend, she takes a lot of fustration out on us close friends, but as of comfort level...she knows we are ther No matter what...and understand her feelings. This is what True friends are, who dont complain...just get on with it and deal with it. Rather than say how unfair it is. Or even with family. Family there 4 u no mater what😊

you have a point... but i do see it as agressive bullying on indivduals who are taking for granted!

Kat

Originally posted by: Catwoman

you have a point... but i do see it as agressive bullying on indivduals who are taking for granted!

Kat

I guess then it depends on individual to Individual- on exactly how they take ther anger out on others😳

No one is taken for granted by me....and no one should take someone else for granted...knowing that they are there for you, is different to being taken for granted..being there 4 one another is what true lovefriendship is based on....and me too do not agree wiuth aggressive bullying..as to take anger out.😉 Just within reason,😆

guilty of taking my anger out on others a few times but not right at all!

felt guilty afterwards and realize that it was extremely unfair of me to have done what i did.

sometimes the stress of something is just too great that i causes us to react in such a manner that we shouldn't. i think we've probably all behaved in a such manner with someone at some point in our lives.......parents, friends, etc.

however, i think one should apologize afterwards for their behaviour.

Originally posted by: mittijalebi

guilty of taking my anger out on others a few times but not right at all!

felt guilty afterwards and realize that it was extremely unfair of me to have done what i did.

sometimes the stress of something is just too great that i causes us to react in such a manner that we shouldn't. i think we've probably all behaved in a such manner with someone at some point in our lives.......parents, friends, etc.

however, i think one should apologize afterwards for their behaviour.

Well said👏my thoughts too, we are all guilty of doing this.and yes immediately after am like soo sorry.😳 so yes agreed totally with everything u said😳