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Posted: 10 years ago

Isn't this a marriage of compromise? Yuvraj should be the last one to support it.I was surprised to see him accept it so soon. Yes, of course, Sharad is excellent human being but is that enough?

From his own experience, even though he found Suhani to be a better person than Soumya it took him a lot of time to accept Suhani... wouldn't the same logic work here too? Lucky, he fell in love with Suhani but it need not be the case for Sharad-Bhavna, no? What if the marriage doesn't work? Why is he thinking of this only as immediate solution to Rishi problem and not thinking of implications in the long run?

Two good people coming together doesn't warrant a good married life. The situation, the circumstances, Sharad's own guilt a lot of factors contributed to this but Sharad had a purpose of taking this step, so that he can address his guilt but why should Bhavna be pushed into this marriage?

I only found Suhani and Pankaj making sense today. Lata irritated the heck out of me with her nonsense. She is a terrible mother. And Srivastavs have horrible neighbours. Them and their regressive crap. No wonder Lata is also like one of them.

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yuvanissel

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Posted: 10 years ago

I totally agree.. but lata is lyk typical mother dats all..

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sandiab

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Posted: 10 years ago

I disagree I haven't watched yet an hour and a half to go. Bt I think his reaction is correct as he probably feels that the pairing is destiny. And that everything is for the best. He didn't wana get married to suhani bt that ended up being the best thing that could happen to him. And him knowing sharad and knowing that bhavna is good he might think that this is a perfect couple

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yanks28

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Posted: 10 years ago

Poo, I disagree with you a bit...I think Suhani's openness about her opinion in this matter will hurt her a lot in the future. It will be used against her once they go back to BH. There are ppl there who don't like her so when she keeps blabbing about how this rishta is wrong for her Di, it's going to cost her...

Secondly, I take it that Suhani's stance is based on her own experience. Lata forced her to agree to marry Rohan and shelooked unhappy throughout. I feel that's the basis of her feeling so outraged at Sharad's move today...but his wasn't explained well today. Her dialogues sucked and her stance was there but not defended with good arguments.

Also, while Yuvraj favored the correct party (Sharad is a very good guy), he had ridiculous dialogues of how Sharad is 1000 times better than Rishi. That was crap...Rishi is a potential rapist...and IDK, but suddenly his molestation issue has been shoved under the rug as well, but a potential rapist vs. your cleaned hearted younger brother...why did he keep saying he's 1000 times better? LOL there's no need to keep saying that. Again, bad dialogues...

And as for Lata...her issue is basically marriage. She was ok with Rishi the murderer/rapist accepting that child he wanted to kill by force...just 5 minutes later, Sharad fills Bhavna's maang and Lata is beaming with happiness...this woman has no conviction.

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anita_m

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Posted: 10 years ago

du, agree 100%. Only 2 people made any sense today, and neither impressed me as much as they would have if their own words annd actions hadn't been quite different during the Rohan marriage.

What destiny, yaar Sandi? It was ridiculous and made NO sense. You can't go around marrying someone without so much as a by-your-leave. He's a guy living off someone, in someone else's house. How can he even THINK of doing this?

And du, I also felt Sharad didn't do the accifent.

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pam789

@pam789

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Posted: 10 years ago

I didn't agree with suhani coz sum of her dialogues did nt make sense to me...even yuvraj saying sharad was million times betr than rishi was funny,i mean why to compare...suhani never used her voice wen she was forcefully getting married to Rohan,but now her overprotectiveness is going to cause her trouble.

I think yuvraj was right...both the marriages r different,nd he believes they sharad will keep them happy knowing his nature,like how sharad is always dedicated to the people he cares...

The less said abt lata the betr...she is getting worse day by day...

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Ayomi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Sharad must be feeling so sorry and he must be in real fear. Also it is so normal of him to think that it is because of him that this whole mess has been created. I think he must be feeling responsible of Bhavna and golu' future. So Sharad really didn't have the calm mind set to think about how this marriage will work out. So in my point of view it was quite fair and normal of Sharad who is a really caring person to marry Bhavna.

Also Lata has become so unbearable. 😡

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Posted: 10 years ago

@Sandi:

Then Yuvraj may still not have realised what a lucky guy he is, if he is thinking destiny favours everyone in a good way.

And why is he thinking only for Bhavna? Doesn't Sharad deserve to marry someone he likes and want to marry? I felt he accepted a little too easily and soon.

@Yanks, Pam, Ani:

I agree with you about Suhani herself succumbing to pressures but taking opposite stand now. That coupled with some terrible dialogues. But she underlined an important point about this being "Bhavna's life' and hence, should be her decision... I think she has now realised she made a mistake in Rohan's matter, so she doesn't want the same to happen to her sister... They should've been more clear with the dialogues on this... making Suhani point out her fear and why she is so rigid on her stand.

I hope she takes her own advice and leave it in Bhavna's hands and help her when she is asked for it. Her over-protectiveness due to Bhavna's situation will backfire on her like yanks said.

That's the problem with this show...they create complicated situations which are very interesting but then don't bring out the conflicts, fears, emotions out properly and superficially glide over them or don't address them... This is a story potential enough for many POVs clashing... because everyone had some valid reasons to support or go against the marriage... and all the actors involved are pretty good... but as usual this will become more about evil trio poisoning, Suhani being the misunderstood messiah, silly fighting making it a total drama and sweeping under the carpet a potentially strong storyline...

@Anita: And his meek reply about finding a job soon... I laughed when he said Bhavna can live her life at her will now. Haha, even he lives by Dadi's words under her roof... that's a big promise he gave. Ideally, he should find a job and contribute to BH's source of income to give some respect to Bhavna (or move out altogether).

@Ayomi: Sharad's stand is understandable (though not right) but everyone else doesn't know why he did what he did... so they'll be bound by their own opinions... If they all knew why he married I'm sure even Yuvraj wouldn't have supported this marriage.

He married Bhavna by hiding such a big truth from her. Is he not cheating not just Bhavna but even Yuvraj, Pankaj n all those who are supporting him?

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pam789

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Posted: 10 years ago

Du,thats wat I have been saying the dialogues by suhani did nt convince me enuf to take her side...if she says its bhavnas decision then why nt ask her?? she even said I nd yuvraj know sharad but nt bhavna...really??? nobody was forcing bhavna anyway except lata ofcourse so she could have tried to speak to bhavna by taking her away from lata nd find out wat is it that she wants...to go with sharad or stay back...suhani succumbed to lata's blackmail too without her marzi...

Her overprotectiveness will definitely cause rift coz even dadi is gonna fake accept this rishta...

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