Why is naitik blaming akshara?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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just something to ponder upon, why is he blaming her? he's been her husband for 20+ years, honestly that scene where he was just going on and on about akshara being a disappointment was so infuriating. does he not know her?? why can't these singhania men get a grip and do something for themselves?
1. naitik had his doubts he should've gone and cleared them out.. instead of giving akshara weird looks.
2. i can't believe he has the audacity to blame akshara.. they themselves are treating akshara like some sort of goddess like she can't make mistakes? are all the other family members dead? Raj banna? bhabi ma? why does the 'bahu' have to take the blame for everything?
when did akshara even defend sameer? she's just voicing her opinion just like devyani did earlier and she is not using dirty tactics like devyani to prove her point she simply wanted to know what happened from sameer, he deserved a chance to speak and atleast give his side of the story even if they wanted to throw him out of the house after that.
Naitik just behaved disgustingly to be honest. did he give akshara the space and comfort zone to speak her mind out? NO! Naksh and naira did and akshara did open up to them even though her reason was not valid..
i don't blame akshara for staying quiet, that was actually a smart move.. any other person would've whacked naitik on his head and walked out of his room. he kept emphasizing that akshara hurt the family? why these expectations from women only? did he have no responsibility as a brother to look into the matter? i think more than akshara he was a disappointment.

singhanias disgust me to be honest, if so much drama happened in real life they'd all have broken apart and would be living separately..oh well tv soaps 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dont worry nk will also suffer wen ak will not tell..
But blind trust for sameer is not gud..20 year's ki wedding mai chup ke rona bhi koi matlab ka nhi..
Fight kar lo chila lo...but spoke nhi to samne wala kud ko pagal sochega..
Nd ak hide two things firstly krishna than sameers drink wali talk than..now she is silent to ..
Sab wrong hai dev ko to goli mar do..
Nk ke brain use mat dikhao..ak ko rotu dikhao
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't think he is blaming her..but ya this is true that this time he is not understanding akshara...
but at least akshara should speak something...
which can give him peace of mind..
if she is supporting sameer...in this situation...then a least gave some solid reason about it...like she did in sagai...
for me both naitik and akshara r wrong here...
ek hai ki doosre ko samajh nahi raha...
aur doosra hai ki kuch bol hi nahi raha...
this is not a solution..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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just wait nd watch yaar,,
ak ki pov no one knows abhi tak..
but i believe in 20 yrs of relatons cant dey even trust det
nk and dev hear to wat ak is saying
if nk slaps naira tho kya sab says nk is bad person haa????
becuase sameer had drinking habit he became bad??????
where is proof to say sameer is wrong ya right/??
dev and nk decision based widout prrof tho hw u people r asking proof on ak belief????? they can listen actually wat happened and take a decison

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I do not blame Naitik...because I think he's way of speaking to Akshara was more about clarifying his doubts...Akshara should have talked yaar...
But I am super pissed at the "reason" they are blaming her. Akshara is not the decision maker of the family...if they are deciding on Rashmi's marriage, everyone's POV is important. Now just because Sameer is proved wrong, everyone is saying that Akshara is wrong...they trusted her judgement, God knows what else.
Why Akshara's judgement is held above all else? Couldn't they have a background check of Sameer rather than depending on someone's sixth sense...
I felt bad for Akshara throughout...Devyani's way of talking to her was very rude...come on, there is a way of putting across your points...
Cvs are also out of common sense...what justification have they bring? Akshara's sixth sense...give me a break 🥱
The only one who made sense today was Rajshri, I think. Everyone's opinions are changing in every second.
Maybe that is why, I am not mad at Naitik...he had reasons to suspect Sameer, and he had rights to question Akshara on it. And I do not think his tone to her was wrong.
I am just annoyed at the way this track has been handled. Nothing practical.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: karanhina

I don't think he is blaming her..but ya this is true that this time he is not understanding akshara...
but at least akshara should speak something...
which can give him peace of mind..
if she is supporting sameer...in this situation...then a least gave some solid reason about it...like she did in sagai...
for me both naitik and akshara r wrong here...
ek hai ki doosre ko samajh nahi raha...
aur doosra hai ki kuch bol hi nahi raha...
this is not a solution..

@bold - Exactly !

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