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Is love means going physical and marriage a green slip?

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1056084

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Posted: 10 years ago

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@asmaanixx

Great answer but I find no answer.. Lol

No offence or debate, let me go point wise.

Firstly your first part of the answer and my first part of the question. Love doesn't have a meaning? Really? I had a question directed at all the story writers who portray love as only physical attraction whereas love is a spectrum of light with many lengths and degrees. One can add Sex (physical attraction and attachment and romance.) to the list but it's not the complete meaning. Of course Sex is a important part but NOT only the part to be of all time focus.

Secondly, I know importance and meaning of Sex and etc you have added but I don't consider it an answer to my question.

The question was marriage a green slip? Which is related to the first question again.

As the complete topic is directed towards show strory writers way of portraying love and marriage interchangeably with Sex as the functional structure. I mean is it only the only single way? Why not show something new.

(btw forgot to add above your meaning of love is more based on desires. And I don't think desire is a love. Desire can be positive and negative too. Just like Yuvi 's desire is revenge and Twinkles desire is pure love.)

For me Love is basic fundamental need to have in life. Sexual desires, family generation security and everything else is secondary.

I don't think love must me misinterpreted mainly as sex or physical attraction. That is important part but not a complete part or aggregate meaning of Love as a whole; which TV shows normally portray on screen and influencing like love is sex or attraction and if you love, the final destination of the story is marriage.

(#sorry if my reply hurt you. I didn't mean it and wanted to share my pov about love. And I'm broke)

Edited by MNsTrous - 10 years ago

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Okay first of all people need to stop apologizing to me when they wish to speak to me. When I read your replies I initially don't find any offense in it. However, when you leave behind this little disclaimer, I read your comments in a different light, under the assumption that some sort of offense was meant to be directed at me. Whether I find offense or not is for me to decide and I will point it out when it's needed. There is no need for you to start off diplomatically and apologize in advance for something that the situation might not require.

As for initial reply, it was not directed at the questions that you had posed within your post. I didn't even get the chance to look at them. I simply answered the question that you had posed within the heading as due to my limited time, that is all that I have the time for.

But I will reiterate, love and the manifestation of it, or the presentation of it, is subjective and should not, cannot, be trapped within defined boxes of categorization. The way love is presented should be looked at and understood within the realm of the world and the context that it is being presented in. The application of one world's rules and regulations do not apply to the other and one should not assume that they do either.

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Anupama

@prem_diwani

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Is marriage a green pass ? I say yes but with certain caveats. It is the state where after 2 people have gone thru all the steps of meeting , liking, accepting and taking a vow to be together for eternity in the presence of family friends and all they hold holy.
Intimacy is a part of the understanding of marriage. But does consummation have to happen the same day and by force - NO. Its never ok... Both need time and a certain degree of physical comfort and emotional connect.

With changing social times in India and personal independence and financial freedom the mentality of 'my life my choice' has come in and is embraced by both genders with open arms... Media has happily grabbed this scenario and depict it with more spice and give it a stamp of modernity. So what happens down the line?
They say going physical is ok if you are in love .. but given love is fleeting till you have truly established it indeed is real, how does get physical tell you that? Hence the advice to wait till you find the true love of your life or women should be prepared to be used and tossed aside as yuvi planned for twink under the pretext of having fallen out of love.

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1056084

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

@asmaanixx and @prem_diwani: 👍🏼 Have nothing to say. I just wanted to put some light that TV shows seriously need to show other beautiful meanings of love in a better way. I'm bored with all that is shown on TV screens presently.

(Before it was saas-bahu era and now it's love-then-marriage.)

Love is not just a physical attraction right? It's the special feeling that makes you feel happy, compatible and fearless with the person of your love. A few thoughts in reply...

Anyways thanks a lot for your comments.

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Anupama

@prem_diwani

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: MNsTrous
@asmaanixx and @prem_diwani: 👍🏼 Have nothing to say. I just wanted to put some light that TV shows seriously need to show other beautiful meanings of love in a better way. I'm bored with all that is shown on TV screens presently.
(Before it was saas-bahu era and now it's love-then-marriage.)

Love is not just a physical attraction right? It's the special feeling that makes you feel happy, compatible and fearless with the person of your love. A few thoughts in reply...

Anyways thanks a lot for your comments.

You are right in that respect.. When in love its like a brook of joy ... And if with the right partner, you can be yourself and the understanding you share as a team is what sees you through life... Physicality has a place yes but doesn't define your relationship.

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