Love means going Physical?

Is love means going physical and marriage a green slip?

Where Is the meaning of real love lost?

#Just a pov based post for activity. Share your thoughts.

Simple as that.

What CV's are showing through Yuvi''s character is their shallow thinking, that is, a woman is a commodity...so she can be used for any purpose and for revenge...she is the best option...as once destroyed physically...neither she nor her loved ones can live peacefully and face society.

But my question is why is the TV shows always try to depict it in this way while true love means care concern and support. (Which only Kunj shows in the show.) shows are portraying it like love is having sex post or after marriage and then children supporting over population and bla bla.. (#sorry no offense)

I hate the way they are showing the meaning of love to the society as a whole.

Like if you say your parents you have a girlfriend and the first thing they think is their son is physically interested or has gone beyond their control.

I don't understand why the TV shows creating the life of real people out their - living hell- to confess their love without fear of verbal or physical attack.

Love is peace, love is concern, it's care, and life time support. It's the confidence you are looking in your partner and mental compatibility.

(sorry added some personal life problem.. Lol)

I want the television industry to show real meaning of love.

I want the TV industry to change this. Love has a broader meaning and that part must be of real focus. Not just love is physical interest, marriage etc

Love must be the understanding between the two persons

I wonder why the stupid story writers of every show always provide the opposite meaning of love all the time. It's time to change this stupidity. I'm fed up with these kind of pakao story line and concepts. Where they are portraying love is all but physical attraction and marriage. Huh!

i agree fully

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Slightly - Off-topic

(All this misconception about love created by story writers of all the shows are collectively responsible for breaking real life love stories and there is nobody to repel their crap by rejecting what they are selling to mass public. I wonder why people pay them for same exhausted boring bundle of TRP gain masala they dish us all the time. I don't want others to get though the same I had. I personally feel it's high time to show what real love means. It's not just our thinking but emotions too which they are freely playing without any regulation and control.)

For some people it could mean having a physical relationship while for some it doesn't. Like there are a wide variety of people in the world, so are the relationships that they would like to have. Some people find love in having a financial stability, while some like to live free-lance and live each day as it comes. Some people enjoy having a purely sexual relationship with no romantic involvements while others wish to have strictly romantic relationship with no sexual intercourse. Then there are those who wish to have no sexual nor romantic relationship at all simply because they do not have those feelings for anyone.

There is no one strict definition of love nor certain criterion that you can check off.

Now, you must also look at the culture and environment that India is involved in and encourages. More than love, arranged marriages are encouraged. Why? Because the marriage is happening as per the parents/elders' choices. Why is this important? Because Indians are taught to obey and respect their elders' wishes. That your duty, your dharma is to obey and serve your parents. Now let's jump to after marriage. What is the point of getting married at all? In Indian society, it is to produce children. To further the name, legacies, blood etc. This is the sole purpose of having children for them. In other cases, it is also have back-up plans as due to certain diseases children could die young. So, if one dies, they have another one.

This is why the purity of a wife is so important. If a woman is involved in sexual intercourse prior to marriage, there is no telling what kind of diseases she could be carrying if she was engaged in sex without protection. To prevent the further lineage from being corrupted, people prefer virgins.

I think you had also questioned why people immediately think of sex when it comes to love. This is because sex is a natural part of expressing love. It happens due to a really strong attraction between two people regardless of what they make think of each other. They could be deeply in love or furiously hate each other. But sex is a natural part of a human being that cannot be taken away. Whether one develops a sexual attraction towards someone else or does not wish to engage in sex in their life is subjective and entirely their choice.

Also, while in love people tend to act in ways that they normally won't. To please the other person and to simply express their love for them, they will do extra things that they normally wouldn't for others. Sex is a part of this equation. Many people have engaged in sex for the first time because they were in a relationship prior to marriage and to the ones that they have loved. It is not unreasonable to think there wouldn't be some sort of physical intimacy involved in relationships. If it's not a fully sketched out sexual intercourse then it could be kisses, hand holding, dances, etc. Physical intimacy is a part of a relationship whether one agrees with it or not.

Yes, there are other ways of expressing love, but so is having a sexual intercourse and it should not be viewed as a monstrosity. It is a form of expression and an innate part of what makes a human being and should be viewed as such.