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Posted: 10 years ago
#21
While watching the episode, actually felt bad for anandi.
She got to know that the unknown girl she use to bond well with , was her daughter only. So while she was earnestly searching throughout the house , shouting her name, it might not have striked her even once that the girl could also Reject her, or refuse to see her after being aware of her being the biological mother.

Kamli's silence & zapping was understandable... As when anandi entered the house, kamli was clueless what was happening around her, or why anandi was addressing nimboli as nandini. For kamli, it might seemed as a social worker searching for a BV who might have came to take her away ...& after learning she is the girl's mother...she again got a shock as all she knows was the dumping theory...& then all i could was confusion on her face. So was urmi, glad she told about the attempt.

Harki should have got some more slaps...but alas...
anandi don't know anything about this household, their relationships & their behavior. Soon either she will be briefed about it or she will get a reality check herself. As soon as she will get to know everything, She will again get a super shock of her life & she will again go in a self blaming mode . Don't know how she will face the girl after knowing the realities of her life in the past 11 years.

Going by that akheraj's friend's dialogue, he will try his best to avoid kundan's arrest... In order to forever indebting akheraj.

Wish they would have given a little more screen space to anandi's search story post leap... Or atleast will give some flashback scenes or monologue about her search now.

Toral was fantastic today.


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Now after clearly thinking of the yesterday episode, the way mangala hurriedly picked up the bag & started packing clothes... I don't think she could have shown so much urge to give away nimboli...She was packing for the escape only .
but then why she was crying holding her clothes?? Just bcoz she know the circumstances of the girl's arrival in her life , thus what she planned to do now, is wrong?🤔 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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So far nandini had a safe life. No murder in the name of revenge. No suhag raat in the name of marriage. No rape in the name of lust. Mangala could manage all this apart from counseling her and keeping her happy. But it looks like there is one thing that mangala cannot do...I.e to stay with nimboli forever. Could that be the reason why she is running away? Probably all this is too sudden for her to digest the fact that the girl whom she protected and gave an identity as her daughter just to protect her, would be taken away? Or could it be some other reason..?? Will wait to watch why she did it.

Anyway since when such marriages are annulled in bv? J-Gauri marriage... mannu-pooja marriage... did I miss something?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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J-G marriage in childhood got annuled by panchayat (at that time they did not know about court procedures). Yes, J-G marriage in adulthood was neither annuled, nor divorce happen and everybody was OK with it - no law for that marriage even though they had a court certificate. But M-P marriage was not annuled even when BH people and Anandi now know the procedure. Mannu-Pooja are not husband wife anymore, but Nimboli and Kundan are still husband wife 😲
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11

Oh well I think today anandi just got a glimpse of what nandani have been through... it's gonna be tough for Anandi to win nandani's heart... and it was important for Anandi to know what her daughter have been through so that she could prepare herself for a fight not only against Akheraj and his evil deeds but also for Nandani to get over it...

Though Dr Anant Is an observer but I think he is gonna help Nandini to heal mentally... not that Nandani needs it... and he I think feeling a gap of Shiv which was required now..

This episode is mainly to give inputs to Anandi and what she has to prepare to fight against.
It will be tough for Anandi to win her daughter's love trust and respect and that's how it should be.After all Nandini has no reasons to love her mother and accept her with a hug.

As for Anant helping I guess he will.

But the gap left by Shiv will remain that way. Just like Shivam learnt to live with that void Nandini also would learn.
Shivam already loves and hero worships his father just from what Anandi told him about his father so will Nandini too when she gets to know about her father.
Just like in all these years Nandini though loves her teesa very much she has not considered her as her mother so did Shivam even if he loves his kakusa very much.

So they will have mother and father and the rest of the family is made up of Singhs and Anant.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi can win her daughter's love and trust if she tells the whole truth. But knowing Anandi - she will hide most things - just like she hid it from Shivam.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

More than the actual meeting, I wanted to see the dard and today I got to see it. One dont need hundreds of episodes but one or two is enough to bring out the best.

That dard was always there.Only thing was she was carrying it inside her and never gave expressions to that dard she feels.
Only a glimpses of that we got to see and then she would be drawn out of her own world is caught up in life that is happening around her and of course her responsibilities towards her children, Singhs and SN were there she couldn't wallow in that pain.
Only thing is that they could have spared a few more minutes to show her some details about her talash but they were too much in love with Jhalra characters that they would rather spend each tear drop of Kamili in great detail rather than show what Anandi is doing🤢😡

I think even with Nandini they used the same thing - she would go through moments of depression because of her feeling abandonment and anger at her mother and father but she too doesn't let what she is going through to affect her life or her relationships with the people around her and she is grateful for the small things that she got in life.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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It's tough for Mangala... after all she had loved nandani like her own daughter... for a second also she never thought that telling about Nandani to Jagya could turn the events so drastically... for her she was telling Jagya a crime which Akheraj did... therefore when Jagya called Anandi and informed about Nandani she couldn't think anything other then how will she live without Nimboli...
And this was important... coz until both Anandi and Mangala do not understand each other it would be difficult for Nandani to accept anandi...

And it's also important for Mangala to understand the life Nandani could get with Anandi which she cannot give her
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

This episode is mainly to give inputs to Anandi and what she has to prepare to fight against.
It will be tough for Anandi to win her daughter's love trust and respect and that's how it should be.After all Nandini has no reasons to love her mother and accept her with a hug.

As for Anant helping I guess he will.

But the gap left by Shiv will remain that way. Just like Shivam learnt to live with that void Nandini also would learn.
Shivam already loves and hero worships his father just from what Anandi told him about his father so will Nandini too when she gets to know about her father.
Just like in all these years Nandini though loves her teesa very much she has not considered her as her mother so did Shivam even if he loves his kakusa very much.

So they will have mother and father and the rest of the family is made up of Singhs and Anant.


Nobody can take shiv's place but as if now the gap to filled which a father could fill in is what Anant can do... being a father himself... no person how close they are cannot take a parent place... at this point I feel Nandani should get the love of her fathers family... wouldn't be it will be perfect some family members come back so that she could get close to her father... when gid knows how much Pl work anandi have to do win Nandani
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11


Nobody can take shiv's place but as if now the gap to filled which a father could fill in is what Anant can do... being a father himself... no person how close they are cannot take a parent place... at this point I feel Nandani should get the love of her fathers family... wouldn't be it will be perfect some family members come back so that she could get close to her father... when gid knows how much Pl work anandi have to do win Nandani

Anant can not fill the gap - because neither Shivam nor Nandini will allow him to fill that gap which is their father's place.
Anant is only a doctor.And a doctor can only do so much not more. It is parents who play an important role not doctors.Doctor can advice the parents and nothing more.

It is left to Anandi to play the role of mother and father in Nandini's life just like she is Shivam' s mother and father.What Shivam is supposed to get from his mother and father he gets all that from his mother and so will Nandini.

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