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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#71

If I am Anandi, I would have persisted. Employed some private detectives. Would have tried everything under the sun. Give advertisements. Taken the help of people and announced big rewards. As it was a person of that region and also a villager, target nearby villages one by one.As births and deaths are registered, find out whether they match with the count of kids.

Yes, it is very hard work. I would have done it. I would have sent my other child to live with the grandparents and find time and energy to do all these things. Until I do this, I will not do any other work because this work required lots of legwork and also 100 percent attention.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
If I am Anandi, I would have persisted. Employed some private detectives. Would have tried everything under the sun. Give advertisements. Taken the help of people and announced big rewards. As it was a person of that region and also a villager, target nearby villages one by one.As births and deaths are registered, find out whether they match with the count of kids.

Yes, it is very hard work. I would have done it. I would have sent my other child to live with the grandparents and find time and energy to do all these things. Until I do this, I will not do any other work because this work required lots of legwork and also 100 percent attention.

Agreed with this.

I have already written about the stories of real persons who managed to search their loved ones because they persisted against all odds even when they had less resources.

Why Anandi could not do that when she is supposed to be an empowered larger than life figure ?.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#73

i agree wid u &i'd also done same but i wudn't'd sent my oder kid 2 live wid GPs only.if i'd such strong support like support of MLA i wud'd done same alongwid keeping my oder child wid me.it mite'd been difficult but not impossible 2 take care of a kid wen theres lot of help around regarding kid's upbringing alongwid search 4 oder kid wid such a strong support of MLA whos frnd also & can do everything in his capacity 2 help me.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#74

When Anandi met Akiraj for second time she became aware that her daughter has become an balika vadhu.

She just picked word balika vadhu and took sort of oath to remove this bad practices which was already her passion instead of taking oath that she would do every thing to search and find Nandini.

Her goal was not right from the start.

Bal vivah was not the reason for her daughter's kidnap and further plight. She was kidnapped for taking revenge not because Akhiraj was looking for a bride for his minor son.

News of Bal vivah of Nandini should have actually ensured Anandi that her girl is still at Akhiraj's house , he would neither sell off his son's wife nor he would now kill her.

Her task had became easier after that , her search has become limited to Akhiraj, all she has to do was to search Akhiraj , she knew his face , he was living in a near by village . Give advertisements, announce awards, hire detectives, go to check near by villages one by one .

All this would have rewarded in discovery of Nandini in few months , if not few in months then in few years but decade is passed and she still is waiting for her daughter and pining for her in the darkness of night. But in the day light no urgency can be discovered in her demeanour .

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#75

Nimboli fate has been determined by two facts.

One is going to the venue with the child to stop child marriage.

Second is not doing enough to find her.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Nimboli fate has been determined by two facts.

One is going to the venue with the child to stop child marriage.

Second is not doing enough to find her.

First one could still be understood but not the second one.

Why not do enough , why not try your best for the one person who is dear to you?

It is still possible that person would not succeed in the end but at least give your best for trying.

Here she is busy in SN and problems of the whole world for this or that reason but in searching her daughter.

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And on top of it her failure to secure a better life for N was tried to put on the shoulder of another woman who did her best to improve N's lot.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: anshurg5

First one could still be understood but not the second one.

Why not do enough , why not try your best for the one person who is dear to you?

It is still possible that person would not succeed in the end but at least give your best for trying.

Here she is busy in SN and problems of the whole world for this or that reason but in searching her daughter.
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And on top of it her failure to secure a better life for N was tried to put on the shoulder of another woman who did her best to improve N's lot.

It is that woman's attachment that atlast made her go ahead and give it a try. To free everyone from akheraj's atrocities.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#78

An explanation as to why Anandi couldn't find her daughter for 11 years - is something I am waiting to see before deciding on whether it is adequate or not.

I wouldn't find it strange if she couldn't find her after the search also.Because that happens in majority of cases in reality.

When she was lost she was a baby.Babies are difficult to search for.

The question that was never answered was why the police did not go around looking for Akheraj why did they not search for the kidnapper

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They made Anandi's child a victim of child marriage, made known to her that her daughter ended up as victim of child marriage, made her take a oath to work against child marriages. So they wanted her to get her daughter back because of the work that she has done against child marriage and also because of her good work done towards rehabilitating child brides. Which is fine too.

Ultimately Mangala is handing her over to Anandi not because she is the girl's mother but because she knows that the girl will be safe and will have a better life.So in a way her work did bring her back to her.

On paper it is a good story.

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This story will have credibility if only they show that Anandi has done all that she can to find her daughter and still could not find her.For this thye have to show either through flash back or through montages to show what Anandi has done. It is immaterial whether she succeeded or failed in finding her daughter

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

#79

It's yet to be seen whether Mangala is handing over the girl to Anandi because of her work.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: SPuja
It's yet to be seen whether Mangala is handing over the girl to Anandi because of her work.

Mangla had never seen any work done by Anandi, she only heard about her good work that too from herself only .

How she was so sure that Anandi could fight with Akhiraj was beyond me . It was only a blooper.

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It would have been another story if Anandi has done some good work in that village as a social worker and would have shown the villagers including Mangla by her work that she is capable of handing ppl like Akhiraj.

Then I would have called it her good work which repaid her but we kept on waiting for only becoming disappointed again and again. Her good work was limited to taking few random names in front of masterji.

Even the bond btw chokhi chudailsa and Nimboli which was considered as special did not made her do some thing extra for her which could have led her towards the truth of her being Nandini.

Now I think it was only shown for making her work easier for her acceptance from her daughter. 🤔

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