In defence of Ananya and anita

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel at odds with the popular sentiment of being angry with Ananya and Anita's anger with Kabir.
1. Kabir was an eye-witness to Sudhir Kashyap's murder. He didn't get Sudhir Kashyap justice and let him remain a maligned character for years. He stayed silent.
2. Even after finding out that Ananya is SK's daughter, he proposes to Ananya BEFORE revealing the truth to her.
3. He continues hiding this truth and ends up getting engaged to her.
4. He has no intention of revealing the truth.

If I had such a fiance or son-in-law, I'd have been far more angry, upset, hurt.

This twist is definitely a change of storyline and is destroying Kabir's character for me!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ditto for me.
I mean on the one hand they tell us Kabir is this righteous person who cannot stay away from the truth so much so that he had to immediately confess his ONS to his already estranged wife without caring about the consequences for him or for Taarini, and then they give us this Kabir who pursues a relationship with the daughter of the very man whose murder he witnessed and kept quiet about.
I know people will say he's flawed and human and what not and that he's entitled to a little happiness and should be selfish etc etc, but then I feel that the Kabir who kept such an important truth from the woman he loves is going against the moral fibre of his character, and that for me is very hard to take.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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True.
I don't get any logic in hiding this strory from Ananya by Kabir. If he simply describes her that what happened then, how can a girl like Ananya cannot realise the helplessness of Kabir then. His nephew's life was at danger. If it his life , he would go ahead but how can kabir let a child who is his own blood line can denger his life? Is Ananya so insensitive, who would not understand the depth of the situation. I think Kabir, needed to keep faith in Ananya that she will understand. She didn't get benefit of doubt from him. It is kabir's lack of confidence on Ananya that stopped him .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: koyelbasu

True.

I don't get any logic in hiding this strory from Ananya by Kabir. If he simply describes her that what happened then, how can a girl like Ananya cannot realise the helplessness of Kabir then. His nephew's life was at danger. If it his life , he would go ahead but how can kabir let a child who is his own blood line can denger his life? Is Ananya so insensitive, who would not understand the depth of the situation. I think Kabir, needed to keep faith in Ananya that she will understand. She didn't get benefit of doubt from him. It is kabir's lack of confidence on Ananya that stopped him .


Koyel, my bone to pick is not that Kabir didn't tell Ananya the truth, its that he felt he could be in a relationship with her, get engaged to her, probably even marry her while all the while lying to her. If he felt he couldn't tell her the truth, he should've kept away. For me, this goes against the very grain of Kabir's character and what we've been told about him so far. This secret that he was hiding, though he may have been justified in doing what he did and also keeping it from Ananya for the fear of her and her family's safety, does not absolve him from the responsibility of being frank and candid in his relationship with her. And what rankles me is that till the time the threat came in the form of the email that outed it all, he did nothing actively to reveal the truth to her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

Ditto for me.

I mean on the one hand they tell us Kabir is this righteous person who cannot stay away from the truth so much so that he had to immediately confess his ONS to his already estranged wife without caring about the consequences for him or for Taarini, and then they give us this Kabir who pursues a relationship with the daughter of the very man whose murder he witnessed and kept quiet about.
I know people will say he's flawed and human and what not and that he's entitled to a little happiness and should be selfish etc etc, but then I feel that the Kabir who kept such an important truth from the woman he loves is going against the moral fibre of his character, and that for me is very hard to take.


Hi lizzie,

I have already asked this question, Kabir's conscience would never allow him to take this relationship forward without coming clean ...CV's really have made such a mess out of this twist, now I hope they can redeem this track and still execute it properly.

although Rajeev is such a brillian actor, my heart goes out to kabir.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate


Hi lizzie,

I have already asked this question, Kabir's conscience would never allow him to take this relationship forward without coming clean ...CV's really have made such a mess out of this twist, now I hope they can redeem this track and still execute it properly.

although Rajeev is such a brillian actor, my heart goes out to kabir.


If the reason for not disclosing the truth was as flimsy as this, then Kabir is surely to be blamed. The way he was talking to Tarini that his hands are tied, viewers were made to think that there's a real big secret coming out. Everyone racked their brains. Even I felt that there's something more to it that it meets the eye. Ultimately it turned out to be the normal, expected one. Kabir could've well informed her in one of those good moments when Ananya could've analysed and agreed to it. His excuse to Laxman is that he was worried her life would be in danger. When he was with her what made him think so? Now that she has left him, its all the more dangerous for her life. Yes, the whole track has been messed up. Hope the creatives have something up their sleeves to redeem their credibility.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vayuputras


If the reason for not disclosing the truth was as flimsy as this, then Kabir is surely to be blamed. The way he was talking to Tarini that his hands are tied, viewers were made to think that there's a real big secret coming out. Everyone racked their brains. Even I felt that there's something more to it that it meets the eye. Ultimately it turned out to be the normal, expected one. Kabir could've well informed her in one of those good moments when Ananya could've analysed and agreed to it. His excuse to Laxman is that he was worried her life would be in danger. When he was with her what made him think so? Now that she has left him, its all the more dangerous for her life. Yes, the whole track has been messed up. Hope the creatives have something up their sleeves to redeem their credibility.


Yes, CVs have messed up with this track big time. This goes against what we got used to watching and expecting from them over the last 100+ episodes - be it in terms of story or characters.. They set the bar very high for themselves all this while. This current track is not measuring up to it, making all of us frustrated.

I don't have any hope of redemption. The way everyone is talking about Khatara (including Tinu) they might just show it like Kabir felt Ananya and her family was in danger. Kabir didn't want to burden the family any further, so, was compelled to keep quite all this while or something like that.

Sad overall..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Eagerly waiting for u to update ur ffs. Pretty please.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Reproducing what I posted in another thread...it was an interesting discussion!
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I was disappointed with tonight's episode. Same old story. So Kabir lied and compromised too, to save his nephew. The script has gone completely awry. The man who met his lady love during a sting operation and was amazed at her dare-devilry, could not confess the truth to her about her father???? It took him all of two minutes to tell Lakshman the truth and having revealed all to Tarini, what kept Kabir from telling the truth to Ananya? Only her safety? 😲

The story was too lame, today. Not at all impressed! Found it difficult to digest. And now, he is going to go all out to find the truth himself, is he?? Has he got a copy of the CD of Mr Kashyap's conversation tucked away somewhere?? So, won't the same goons ruin Ananya today? Or have they since retired? 🤣 Eight years, right? Or has Kabir become macho enough to protect her from all and sundry!??

Ananya means the world to him and he had absolutely no intention to ever tell her the truth about her father! He considers this his pure bad luck and destiny where he finds himself in this mess. What do I make of Kabir's character? Is he trustworthy? Has Ananya made the right choice? I don't think so...😲


-Rekha
Edited by Danseuse - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sharada-


Yes, CVs have messed up with this track big time. This goes against what we got used to watching and expecting from them over the last 100+ episodes - be it in terms of story or characters.. They set the bar very high for themselves all this while. This current track is not measuring up to it, making all of us frustrated.

I don't have any hope of redemption. The way everyone is talking about Khatara (including Tinu) they might just show it like Kabir felt Ananya and her family was in danger. Kabir didn't want to burden the family any further, so, was compelled to keep quite all this while or something like that.

Sad overall..



all I'm gonna say is that let ananya stew in her rage and devesatation. right now she is think as sudhir kashyap's daughter, not as kabir's lover. She is stubborn and unreasonable times, but she loves kabir as well. hopefully the part of her that loves kabir, will come out soon. I think she just needs time to come to terms with what she has learned.

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