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Colors2012

@Colors2012

Voyager

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Posted: 10 years ago

She miscarried the child but the worst part is she can never concieve in future, that's the biggest punishment for a girl for the mistake she did unknowingly... Why a girl has to suffer so much???? When both are at fault???

Mannu is living normal life n now he'll be relived no kid no responsibility!!! But what abt pooja will they make her bahu of badi haveli in future????

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

I beg to differ. Pooja did not do this mistake unknowingly.

First, there was no reason fo her to run away with Mannu and then to keep nodding a yes for everything he said.

Pooja was never guilty of her actions and neither did she introspect her actions ever. She was in lala land always. Too much carried away in love that nothing made sense to her.

Miscarriage is a good solution in this case. Her becoming infertile is sad but such complications are usually part of teen pregnancy and this is how she will realise that she made mockery of her own life. I am not saying she deserved this punishment, but had she not, she wouldn't have realised the complexity of her stupidity.

As for Mannu, if he is any guilty or repentant, the only thing he can do is accept his mistake, stand by Pooja, support her and hopefully marry her in future clearly knowing that they may not have an heir but eventually take help from science to see if Pooja's infertility issue can be solved at some stage. As of now, marriage or promising to marry is not a solution

However, Mannu has the option to walk out on Pooja and unfortunately, despite his fault, there is no punishment that can be given to him which will equate to what Pooja is/ will go through

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

@esha i agree wid u on all & that M shud also b punished but why shud he accept P even in future??it"ll again b encouragement 2 BV and both M & P's actions that wat they did was rite but only wrong in consummating.and moreover it"ll b P's desire fulfillment of becuming beendani of M by using difft tactics 1st that seducn,then thru pregnancy & now using this miscarriage & won't b punishment 4 her 4 her acts which she has no reasons 2 do & nor any1 forced or EBM her.

it"ll b gud if they show all help her in making her future & she later on marry sum1else and can go 4 surrogacy etc wid her future hubby.

i don't want M& P 2 get mrd even in future as it"ll not prove BV wrong whether done by own will or by force & 2nd why shud oders pay 4 these kids follies like their parents??

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

@ Tiny, Mannu cannot be forced to marry P if he doesn't want to - he has a better escape, because biologically it is only women who can carry pregnancies and face good or bad health conditions out of it.

Men have an advantage given to them by nature, that they do not conceive and hence they do not end up facing pregnancy / health related issues out of pregnancy.

So no amount of punishment can be given to Mannu healthwise that will be equated to Pooja's infertility.

In other words since Pooja's punishment is infertility bse of her mistake, Mannu cannot get a punishment of becoming infertile for the same mistake by other humans (unless of course an accident happens).

So if he chooses to marry P after they have both grown up but kept their love intact, then there is nothing wrong. I don't see that as glorifying bal vivah. And why shouldn't M sympathise with P? And why shouldn't he also rectify his mistake in future by marrying P at the right age / mindset (ofcourse considering that they still have love for each other too).

Why should some other man bear the burden / baggage named Pooja and rectify the follies of her life without any mistake of his? Why can't Mannu owe it for his mistakes?

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For the other part, I hold a different perception for Pooja then you do.

I never saw her as someone aiming to be become BH ki beendani and hence going on seducing M and so on.

I only saw her as someone who fell for M, pursued him and hoped to marry him (which automatically makes her BH ki beendni) and in return he also fell for her, but both were continuing with their life and studies. Till here I don't fault either M or P. And thereafter both MP were wrong for everythng they did together. No one is blamless and no one is innocent

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731627

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Posted: 10 years ago

first of all I don't understand why cvs showing such thing that as if whole fault of mannu is and there is no fault of pooja .why cvs making pooja pure innocent and making mannu pure guilty .why cvs want to proove that pooja is made to suffer by mannu only .why cvs not showing that pooja is also responsible for her own suffering .she is one who first started love in with mannu

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

@esha i know M can't b forced 2 marry P but i don't want them 2gether 4ever as 4 me it"ll only justify their acts as rite & only thing that will b proved is they did wrong by consummating.and 2nd it"ll b again P's desire fulfillment but punishment 4 oders except M.

i want punishment 4 M also but not 4 their parents.

i agree that why shud oder man bear P's baggage which she created on he r own.but if sum1 wanted 2 then wats wrong in it?it"ll also give msg that not necessary that if sum1 like P can't get sum1 whos not in mistake wid her. and moreover M din't force her nor EBM her. she did it bcoz she wanted 2.

so its better 2 show P getting on her life & break wid M. its not life & death 4 he r 2 get only wid M.

i wanted abortion/miscarriage but never wanted this much bad 4 P even tho i hate this ckt from the time she started her seducn.

i m not saying M shudn't sympathise wid P. but i don't want both of them 2gether.

2nd part i again disagree esply that P din't seduce .if M'd done like that wid P i still wud'd said its seducn. and moreover post leap i find P's ways & acts like this.don't know but 2 me it luked always like seducn & desponess.oderwise i'd seen many gals trying 2 get noticed by their BFs or crushes in real life & in reel also but never felt that its seducn rather only just harmless pursuing.but not wid P. and its not i disliked this ckt from the start.

i think we both've difft takes on this.so lets agree 2 disagree.

btw i agree wid ur last line both r at fault & shud b punished.if P is punished M shud also b punished but theres no need of both of them 2 get 2gether.

and i don't think it"ll make them 2 stay 2gether. if it wud'd been case CVs wud'd done only miscarriage.i think M will b guilty & try 2 help P in standing but not marrying her.

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

yes i've this grudge wid CVs they r making luk like only M at fault & not P. they r trying 2 make P victim & want sympathy 4 her.thastwhy all this can't conceive 4ever.🤢

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

Yes Dolly, we can agree to disagree since our perceptions are different.

For me 'falling in love' part is alright even if it is underaged (in their circumstances). But marrying underage and consummating is only wrong.

If they had fallen underaged, but set their priorities right and married as grown ups after making something out of life, I wouldn't see that wrong - neither would that be a punishment for either parents. If both M and P have done all right things in life, why should either parents have an objection in getting them married?

However, they derailed from their priorities, consummated and landed into bigger problems. Both are at fault but one lost more than the other eventually.

So in future, if Mannu owes it upto his part of mistakes by realising how much Pooja has to suffer for the mistakes they both committed together and if he can care for her, love her and soothe her inner turmoil by marrying her, why not?

I have only given my POV, and I don't mind seeing them together in future with a mature mindset.

But it is ok if you do not wish to see them together - that's your choice

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago

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731627

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Posted: 10 years ago

she did not do mistake unknowingly .she know very well what she is doing

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Pooja will be shown as a victim because she is the one suffering now. It won't be nice to show mannu as a victim for pooja's pain and miscarriage and loss.

I hope they show mannu losing in life as much as pooja did. Then I won't mind if the directors show mannu too as a victim.

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