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Posted: 18 years ago
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guys i do not agree at all to the attitude of gyan at all😡 he knows very well that sidhi is a very modern girl and she's not used to too many ppl or a joint family, he's very much aware so y dosent he take it easy with sidhi😕, it will take her time to adjust to this ltfe styledid u see the way he reacted when she hired a nurse😡 i dint see anything wrong there, he just over reacted. even on their wedding day, about the pictures and many others. siddhi is trying her best but gyan is not trying at all. he is not even giving her time, is she supposed to change over night?😕if things continue like this wat do u think siddhi wud do? wud she be able to handle it? or wud she give up?

guys plz do send ur comments😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I totally disagree with this statement that Gyan's attitude is wrong..

See , viewing from his own perspective, he has been a person who is really close to his family.. To him, his life revolves round his family.. But now, after marriage, Siddhi wants him to give all the time to her, and not even think of his family. This si wrong.. And how will a person, that too a son feel when he sees his family photo lying under the bed just like that.. And remember, above all, the thing that pissed him off was that Siddhi lied to to him that she had given it for framing.. I dont think any person would be patient given the circumstances...

And hiring a nurse, i think he reacted a bit too much. But again, he is so close to his family that he probably intends doing every bit to his mom, by himself.. So keeping a nurse actually distances him from his family.. This might be his viewpoint..

And where does he have time to understand her? I mean, his mom is seriously ill, and she is not even understanding that.. She is not even feeling bad for his mom's illness. All she knows to do is, argue.. She wants Gyan with her all the 24 hours.. She does not understand that he has some responsibilities as a son..

I agree that Gyan should also compromise. But now, seeing the situation that Gyan and his family are in, it is the right time for Siddhi to pinch in and do her bit for them.. But sadly, she does not understand.. 😭 😭
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sree

I totally disagree with this statement that Gyan's attitude is wrong..

See , viewing from his own perspective, he has been a person who is really close to his family.. To him, his life revolves round his family.. But now, after marriage, Siddhi wants him to give all the time to her, and not even think of his family. This si wrong.. And how will a person, that too a son feel when he sees his family photo lying under the bed just like that.. And remember, above all, the thing that pissed him off was that Siddhi lied to to him that she had given it for framing.. I dont think any person would be patient given the circumstances...

And hiring a nurse, i think he reacted a bit too much. But again, he is so close to his family that he probably intends doing every bit to his mom, by himself.. So keeping a nurse actually distances him from his family.. This might be his viewpoint..

And where does he have time to understand her? I mean, his mom is seriously ill, and she is not even understanding that.. She is not even feeling bad for his mom's illness. All she knows to do is, argue.. She wants Gyan with her all the 24 hours.. She does not understand that he has some responsibilities as a son..

I agree that Gyan should also compromise. But now, seeing the situation that Gyan and his family are in, it is the right time for Siddhi to pinch in and do her bit for them.. But sadly, she does not understand.. 😭 😭

siddhi won't be able to understand yet what good in-laws she has.if she really loves gyan,she should acccpt his being very attached to his family.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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it's not easy for siddhi at all cuz she's not used to that life gyan shud give her some time and explain lovingly 😃 if he continues scolding her this way, it wud make matters worse and siddhi will go further from the family and not closer
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: tjay-z

it's not easy for siddhi at all cuz she's not used to that life gyan shud give her some time and explain lovingly 😃 if he continues scolding her this way, it wud make matters worse and siddhi will go further from the family and not closer


gyan would do that if siddhi actually listens to him and not hate his fmaily. before all this gyan told siddhi that he loves his family more than anything. and if siddhi really loves him, then she should be happy with what gyan is happy with.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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but he dosent really hate his family she just dosent like so many of them around
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: tjay-z

but he dosent really hate his family she just dosent like so many of them around


well thats the thing, if shes loves Gyan, then she has to get used to it. cause for gyan, his family is everything, so he would do anything for them. Siddhi loves him soo much, then why can't she do anything for Gyan.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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give her some time, she wud adjust with the family 😉

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