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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

maria yeah even i was wondering abt these allegations. wenever ppl blame J they get the proof 4 their biasedness. ystrday nowhere J lied abt gauri. he never said nor he meant that he lived wid gauri bcoz he thot that they were mrd in childhood.he only gave the reason saying that he fell in luv wid her & then came 2 know that shes same gal wid whom he was mrd 2nd time by his DS. he said we started living like hubby-wife tho Aji was still mrd 2 him. so it was clear that he meant 2 say that his preference got changed once he bcum adult.thatswhy M 2day was saying that Aji & J's mrg was not like theirs as that was forcibly done by their elders so J's prefernce change but ours won't change a sthey mrd wid consent & r in luv.

but as usual sum ppl perceive their own ver & twist the dialogues & scenes.ppl r themselves lying a white lie thru their teeth& calls a ficnl ckt redeemed liar.🤪

exactly what Jagya said in teenage what feelings you have for the other you cannot differentiate between attraction and love He was giving his own example There was a time he too attracted to Anandi in his teenage which he thought as love but when he grew up his preference got changed Is that a lie? when he fell for Gauri even then he was very young but when he married her at that time he was legal age of marriage and where he lied ?Was it a lie that both times when he was married in childhood it was against his will ? He was merely a kid for God's sake and his parents really thought by getting him married as a kid they are doing the right thing Sandhya teacher also told them same thing Way of seeing life changes as you grow up so these child marriages cannot stay Its all Singhs fault who ignored Sandhya's sane advises
Jagya never said he lived with Gauri only because she was his BV He said they fell for each other and later he came to know she is the same Gauri Is that lie? well thats exactly what is shown in serial What he meant to say preference change as you grow up and see life beyond your Bal vivah This age is to explore and see life not to get married

now people will start making their Gauri baby victim Why Jagya left her ?well what she did after that only her fans can love her who probably themselves do her kinds of works Normal human will be too hurt to give her nth chance and finally she realized her misdeeds It was she who was bad bad lover and wife and cvs cannot criticized they blaming poor souls They never showed her as a good wife neither even intended too🤣


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Posted: 10 years ago
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@maria cvs never intended to show Gauri as Jagya's victim but still people keep making her 🤣Poor cvs what to do
Hatred for Jagya is so strong that vamps have become saint victims🤣

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ah the same old question.
My doubt- the show was aimed at showing the ill-effects of Child marriage..so were we to assume that Jagya and Anandi won't have had any issues with the concept if it was not for Jagya's infidelity..as in would then had endorsed the projection.

I don't support how Jagya handled it but then i don't blame him or think he hurt Anandi. It was dadisa, her parents , Singhs' who are responsible for the plight of these two kids.

Two kids raised with the notion that child marriage be end all. Cocooned away from the reality and harshness of it. One gets an out and explores, his perspective about love, life , marriage changed and rightfully so given the exposure and his own growing up.

For him child marriage became nullified. Yes, he could have handled it well but then that would have defeated the purpose which is to show the ill-effects of Child marriage. This is bound to happen , either this or difference in lifestyles, desires and wants.

If at all anything is to be blamed for their fate it is child marriage and the elders who conducted it. Both kids were unfairly treated , stripping them off their freedom be worse.

If they would have shown a happy Jagya and Anandi then that would have justified child marriage. If only infidelity is blamed ( which in this case is very grey) then I don't know what people expected from their marriage in the first place.
Edited by charminggenie - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why Anandi has to stand while others are sitting comfortably? Cant an extra chair be arranged for her? It looked awkward to me. The Principal standing as if she had done some mistake while the student sitting royally.

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