Stating my opinion!

There has been a lot of hassle whether to watch the show or quit. Fans on Twitter say that that they will watch for Dhruv or Hiba, which is quite fair as they have been working hard and have shown immense improvement. Talking about the current track, let's put ourselves in Amaya's place. Would you let your family honor to go down in drain? I know this is not the right way to fight it but looking at the scenario, this seems to be the possible way out. Those four witches insulted GC to the core and he suffered a heart attack. Moreover, they are concerned with their f#$king conditions i.e. The Mathur Haveli and the second is yet to be disclosed. Regardless of being modern or orthodox, race and caste, religion and beliefs, we love your family a lot. We can do anything for them. And that's what Amaya is doing. Just imagine, Mr. Ramashrey Gupta who cannot open his mouth to defend his love or someone related to her, would he stand up in the dais and defend Rachita once the truth is out? NO! He is spineless and useless. Whilst, Amaya is just thinking about the family and not her with Mantu. She is being selfless. I know it breaks our hearts thinking about the guy who loves a girl so much and can do anything for her like getting the electric shock would showing an inch of pain. What would he go through? It's horrendous.

I am not trying to defend the CV's or the PH, rather I'm trying to feel a bit realistic. I know swapping is the most stupid idea ever but to save her sister and the family, Amaya has sacrificed herself. I know we all want ManYa, I still have hope that we will have them [After seeing the picture where Amaya is sitting in a store and Mantu is standing].

About RaRa, I do not want them. I know I might be bashed but still I want to declare that I do not want Rachita and Ramashrey. She does not deserve a man like him. I have been trying to ignore this but it's impossible for me to do so. I mean how spineless. Even after finding out that Amaya has taken Rachita's place, he goes on to apply sindoor and put the mangalsutra. Seriously?! Is that how much he loves Rachita? I want someone strong, independent and determined for Rachita. Why should she always get spineless assholes? I am sorry but that's what I think. Period.

Lastly, the main reason of this shit happening, SP & their TRP's. Honestly, I think TSM is quite decently popular. I think because of the time slot, the show is finding it hard to gain the TRP's on the original time and people prefer watching it on repeats. I mean first 10:30 then 10 and now again 10:30? What a joke. I would request the PH to request for a timeslot on either 7:30 or 8 cause in news YHM is already going back on 11 to make way for some new show, so that show can take the 10:30 slot and TSM could air by 7:30 or 8. I don't know whether it is possible or not. Just an idea.

Loved your post and your reasoning... We can doing anything for our family and that is what Amaya did. She was the one who was present when Rama's mother was insulting and degrading Gajanand Chaubey. He even knelt down in front of her. Rama's mother and the other cronies were disgusting. Their behavior was so cheap. I just dont know how Amaya will be able to adjust herself in that family.😡

I can understand amaya's situation. ... my main problem is with the track ... why did the cvs create such circumstances? ??

Thank you for putting your opinion across and I am sure a lot of others may have the same opinion as you do too.

With all due respect, however, I tend to disagree. Especially since we are talking about how things would have worked out in a real life scenario. My biggest issues are:

A) Sneha is the head of the Mathur family now. Amaya is not old enough or mature enough to make such huge decisions yet. Transferring the responsibility and onus of keeping the family together, looking after the family's honor and happiness should be Sneha's responsibility - not Amaya's! As a daughter, Amaya's role is to support her mom in times of need but not to become her mom's mom. Parents are supposed to protect their children or make them strong enough to face adversities and not the other way round. By making Amaya feel that it is her responsibility, there is a role reversal of sorts going on here. And that is wrong. When Amaya finds it about Sumitra's threat to GC, the first and foremost thing she should have done is confide in Sneha or someone older. Amaya's step is not going to bring happiness to anyone. She is only creating new problems to avoid an old problem that will come out one way or the other. You can say she wasn't thinking right and was doing whatever she could to save the day, but that's the whole point, when you can't think right, you just don't just impulsively take a decision that would ruin so many lives!

B) The other thing I really really don't understand and cannot accept is - these girls are educated, modern (and I mean it in the sense that they are supposed to have a broader, more open minded view about the world) and yet, they calmly accept all the crap that Rama's family doles out. I understand Sneha doing it because she thinks Rachu really loves Rama and is willing to put up with it all for the sake of her daughter's happiness. But Amaya? She knows Rachita doesn't love Rama and has agreed to this wedding only for the sake of the family. How then does she think it's acceptable to put up with the Gupta women's nonsense? It's almost like making a case in favor of dowry harassment. Today she wants the haveli, tomorrow if she continues this and harasses Rachita, would that be acceptable too?


C) What was the worst case scenario here? The pics of Rachu and Rama getting leaked? The weddig getting called off because Rachita's paternity was questioned? The smarter move would've been if the Chaubey-Mathurs called off the wedding themselves and if Amaya had gotten Rama's mom arrested for demanding dowry (she wanted the haveli, didn't she?). If Rama's mother made a hue and cry abt Rachita's paternity, ask her for proof. What proof does she have other than Dev's words? And what proof does Dev have other than what Rudra heard? And who is Rudra? A thug! Who would trust him? With the wedding getting called off by the Chaubey-Mathurs, on solid grounds (demanding dowry is still a punishable offense the last time I checked) and the whole of Banaras would've appreciated the Mathur-Chaubeys for taking a stand.

But instead of that, what has happened? In an effort to save the family's honor, Amaya has only dragged it further into the mud. Now the whole city would be talking about saali listing after her jija and snatching away her sister's happiness and how ill brought up the girls are! I bet that's going to make GC super happy isn't it when he comes back from the hospital?

It all comes back to making Amaya feel as if she is super responsible and capable of taking care of and holding the whole family together when she isn't ready for it. She is way too young and way too immature. What she did cannot be justified in reel or real life.

What bothers me most about such tracks is the fact that there are so many young, impressionable minds watching these shows. The makers bring such twists to attract more TRP aunties but forget there are scores of youngsters they've gotten hooked to their show through their love stories. And they are giving the wrong message about taking drastic steps and ruining peoples lives and making an absolute mockery of marriage. What society thinks should not govern your life. What is right should happen. Putting up with the ridiculous tantrums of the groom's side somehow, anyhow just so you can get the daughter married off is indirectly saying that the daughter is a burden. If Rama's mom would have seen pictures of Rama and Rachita getting cozy would she have begged the Chaubeys and Mathurs to get Rachita married to Rama? The fact that GC did that and was in a way glorified only shows how our society views men and women so differently. Because ladki ki izzat is family's izzat and a ladka can get away with anything and everything.

We can say it's because Rachita herself admitted to being in love with Rama that this whole situation arose. But again, why did she do that? Because again, the girls felt responsible for protecting and helping their mother. Goes back to my point about role reversal. Instead, why couldn't they show the girls asking for time to find out who is behind all this? If the pictures did get published, people would've talked but they would've gotten over it too, eventually. Would you trade a lifetime of happiness that you deserve to quieten some gossipmongers? Sneha didn't do that! She chose Dev and chose to run away with him. When Dev did not turn up, she was afraid of the consequences yes, but again, she took a risk and ran away with Rishi! But I know that's too hard a concept to digest in TV land so I am pretty okay with Rachita's decision at that point of time. But I am not okay with Amaya's decision!

Sorry for the rant! Those are my two cents. Please feel free to disagree! 😊

And I agree with you 100% that I do not want RaRa.. Not until Rama grows a backbone and understands that love isn't about reciting poems and Shayari for the one you love. It's about understanding and cueing into their feelings, standing up for their honor and respect and valuing them.

He is like a teenager in love, lured only by the butterflies in his stomach and thinks love is all the song and dance that Bollywood tells you it is.

Till Rama grows up and grows a spine, I do not want Rachita to have any feelings for him at all!

But mind can't accept Rama and amaya at all ...what next will viewers see next amaya teaching Rama to gain confidence and teaching lesson to her somany mother in laws or facing their torcher for sake of family honour ...such a stupidityamaya and mantu are asset of the shoe their chemistry is what that attract viewers ...sucha crap storyline destroy the flavour of theshow.

Giving into a sham marriage that too by betraying one's sister and family isn't the way to support one's family. I don't understand why a girl should sacrifice her life to save her family's izzat. Firstly, Rachita agreeing for the wedding so that the photos don't come out. Then the Mathurs putting up with the in-laws behavior, GC pleading for the wedding to take place and whatever Amaya is doing... I don't know what CVs want to show through this. At this rate, the CVs may also show the girl has to jump in the well and kill herself; and justify it in the name of saving family izzat.

It would have been better if the Mathur girls fought through the situation instead of cowering to society's dictates. They are educated and financially independent; and they were not brought up in such regressive environments. So I don't see why they should be shown so helpless.

Well I agree that Rachita does not deserve Rama.