Ugghhh I feel more like killing or at least kidnapping Ramashrey until ManYa are safely married?? He's been acting like such a slob lately. I mean, he doesn't even see that Rachita is not interested in the wedding??? Doesn't he even really love her??? And the behaviour of his relatives??? Sure, he can't say anything to them in front other people but he could politely at least suggest them to be more humane in private. No?? He's just drugged with his own happiness and nothing else matters. If he wants to see Rachita, everybody just drop whatever you were doing and help him. What the???
Look at Mantu for god's sake, he truly loves Amaya. Since day one, he detects if there's something wrong with her the moment he sees her and he gets her to open up to him about it and he tries to help her. Yes, he didn't understand her love for him recently but Uma and her stupid vachans had a lot to do with it. She forced him to see things differently but that never stopped the little voice that screamed in his head that Amaya loves him too. Now, that is true love.
And when Mantu thought that Amu does not love him, he didn't go and put any sort of pressure on her. Again, some ideas he developped about her are slap-worthy but it was all Uma's poison. But the way Rama pursued his love is creepy? He basically stalked Rachita when she clearly told him she's not interested. I always thought he should have found another way to woo her. Right now, Rama doesn't really deserve Rachita. He needs to get out of his bubble, realise a few things and earn her respect and trust back. She'll fall in love with him automatically. And he really needs to gather the guts to say no if asked to marry Amu, because if he doesn't, he'll be ruining her whole life. He loves her own sister, he better keep that in mind!