Sagar, you spoiled brat!

No, no I'm not bashing him😳

But truly, he's led a pretty spoiled childhood. He's had everything given to him. He was born into a rich family, as an only son - probably doted on by both parents. (And hated by at least one sister!) He works in the family company, whatever that is😕 He had an unusual relationship with an equally spoiled girlfriend.

When did he have the time to grow up? To be independent? He's always lived at his house and any members added to the family, moved in WITH them instead of the family members moving OUT. Both Karthik and Aniket moved in with the Singh parivaar. Harsh doesn't count since he's a parasite living off of their money.

So Sagar has taken his family (and all other relationships) for granted. He still needs to learn the value of love and relationships. Is it any surprise that he still hasn't asked about his so called best friend, Tusshar?

I don't blame Sagar for the way he has turned out. But he CAN change the way he will be - and the first step is realizing Vidya's love. He may not love her but he should respect the fact that SHE loves him. It's time he realizes that he also has been gifted with a brain. All he needs to do is use it.

P.S. I know compared to some other characters in Ekta's show, Sagar's an angel. He's no brat😳 But I just felt like calling him that because of the way he tends to be with Vidya sometimes...

Sravi! 😃 Nice to see you back posting after a long time. 😳

Sometimes I find Sagar's character quite shallow, I search for some deeper feelings inside waiting to come out. But as you said, he has taken all his relationships for granted. Even with Vidya, he expects that she will be there for him when he needs her and she will leave when he wants. It doesn't work like that dude!!! Its about time he understood the pain of love, its the least he owes to poor Vidya. He needs to appreciate her love and I hope she ignores him or something so the guy can realise what he has lost.

^^ And that's exactly why I really do want Vidya to leave after SIGNING the divorce papers so he realizes her value. I just want him to miss her so much so that he finally has the guts to come out of his little shell, be more independent, not listen to his pyari "Di" and confess his love for her.

Originally posted by: inavars

No, no I'm not bashing him😳

But truly, he's led a pretty spoiled childhood. He's had everything given to him. He was born into a rich family, as an only son - probably doted on by both parents. (And hated by at least one sister!) He works in the family company, whatever that is😕 He had an unusual relationship with an equally spoiled girlfriend.

When did he have the time to grow up? To be independent? He's always lived at his house and any members added to the family, moved in WITH them instead of the family members moving OUT. Both Karthik and Aniket moved in with the Singh parivaar. Harsh doesn't count since he's a parasite living off of their money.

So Sagar has taken his family (and all other relationships) for granted. He still needs to learn the value of love and relationships. Is it any surprise that he still hasn't asked about his so called best friend, Tusshar?

I don't blame Sagar for the way he has turned out. But he CAN change the way he will be - and the first step is realizing Vidya's love. He may not love her but he should respect the fact that SHE loves him. It's time he realizes that he also has been gifted with a brain. All he needs to do is use it.

P.S. I know compared to some other characters in Ekta's show, Sagar's an angel. He's no brat😳 But I just felt like calling him that because of the way he tends to be with Vidya sometimes...

I agree Saagar has values for his relationship, and is loyal but he does take a lot of things for granted, and it is true that he hasn't experienced love in it's true sense...maybe that's why Vidya confuses him...She is selfless, loves without any bounds, and is in some ways completely opposite of what he is.

He's not a complete brat, because he is sensitive when it comes to his family.

If something is continually hit, it will eventually dent, and that's the main problem with Saagar. Sindoora is constantly at him, even when he is sharing private moments she constantly nagging him, spying on him, figuratively and literally smothering and suffocating him against Vidya. It is frustrating, and I know we all wish that Saagar can take a step away from Sindoora, but in all sense Sindoora doesn't make it any easier.

Originally posted by: Wafah

I agree Saagar has values for his relationship, and is loyal but he does take a lot of things for granted, and it is true that he hasn't experienced love in it's true sense...maybe that's why Vidya confuses him...She is selfless, loves without any bounds, and is in some ways completely opposite of what he is.

He's not a complete brat, because he is sensitive when it comes to his family.

If something is continually hit, it will eventually dent, and that's the main problem with Saagar. Sindoora is constantly at him, even when he is sharing private moments she constantly nagging him, spying on him, figuratively and literally smothering and suffocating him against Vidya. It is frustrating, and I know we all wish that Saagar can take a step away from Sindoora, but in all sense Sindoora doesn't make it any easier.

wht a great post.....i can go on about this topic and can find a million reasons to defend saagar....😛 but tru...he does take certain things for granted like u said.....and the reason he's confused is tht how can he luv someone soooo much? how can he be sooo attracted to someone like vidya who's sooo selfless...and always luvs unconditionally...i thnk after he recovered he prolly seen a change in himself and thts whts confusing him....cause he cant believe tht he can luv someone...tht he can feel hurt for someone else....and tht someone can luv him without any conditions.....

oh and like wafah said.....if someone keeps on nagging u constantly...thn u eventually do fall for the stuff they say...and thts exactly the case with saagar.....so he's not totally to blame...yea i was very angry whn i read the update...lolll...but whn i thought about it...and watched the video...i could see the pain in his expressions....😳...and thts why in my short ff...i made vidya speak up for herself...and saagar realizing his mistake...😛

Shaili

you are so true ! sagar is a brat kinda ! he has many flaws ..... he has always been the way he is , he can't change himself for others ? espeacilly loved ones , like vidya ? he should thinkl about what he does and do wat he wants to not others ! u might not get my post but oh well 😕 ! Thankkkkkkks !!!!!!! 👏

Reemz, I agree with your signature. The undeniable chemistry AND the brainless twit 😆 Exactly! As long as Vidya waits on him, Sagar is not going to realize her worth. He needs to be pushed away to realize what he is missing.

Neha, I want Vidya to sign the papers too (IF Sagar decides to ask her for a divorce). No more crying and begging for his love. If he wants to be heartless, by all means, go ahead!

Wafah, I suppose you are right. Sindoora is always on his case. She never gives him a chance to think for himself. But even then, that's no excuse. He can listen all he wants to his sister, but in the end, it is his life and the choices he makes are up to him.

Armu, I agree that Sagar is confused. And the beginning that confusion was completely justified. He just got his memory back and he realizes he's married. But by now, things should be clearing up. He NEEDS to realize that Vidya stood by his side when he wasn't well. She never fell for others comments about his mental condition and continued to be there for him. Can't he, for once, even think about accepting her the way she is?

Loverocks, I get your post 😳 He doesn't necessarily need to change. But in the same way, he should realize that Vidya shouldn't have to change for him 😛

Lovely post Srav

Yeah I agree, u make some good points. But as u say its high time, he learnt to make his own descions

For all his education, he behaves more illeterate than Vidya

Man use ur BRAIN

yea thats true, he does act like a brat with vidya.. 🤢