So is KaYa more imbalanced than ever now?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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This thought has been creeping up in my mind, in fact I just included it in an answer to another post.

After Kabir's revelation of his past deeds and Ananya's whole-hearted, non-judgmental acceptance of him and his love, Kabir was overwhelmed and thankful. It was made very clear that Kabir expected that it could go either way. That Ananya could choose not to be with him after hearing his story. And he would be fine with that. Cause he was wrong. Now that she has told him it makes no difference to her, does anyone think that another factor of imbalance has crept up in their relationship? A lot of us felt this imbalance from the fact that Ananya seemed less invested but now she has stood by Kabir and her love for him in the most trying of circumstances. Would Kabir now feel a sense of obligation, or gratitude for Ananya's magnanimity? Even Shreya thought Ananya would find it hard to accept Kabir's past with Tarini. Now that Ananya has done so, she has kinda come out on top. And the KaYa relationship seems to be on unequal footing almost as though Ananya did him a favor by accepting him. Does anyone think this could cloud their future together? Will Kabir always feel a sense of remorse and will Ananya always have a kind of upperhand?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I feel Ananya always had the upper hand in this relationship of theirs. Kabir was always grateful to her for bringing the Real Kabir back to life ! It might have sounded funny, but it was pretty well cleared with Kabir saying, "main manaunga, air main hi manata rahunga ". Come what may, Kabir would be ready to make all kinds of compromises to make this relationship work ! Theirs is a rishta of imbalance, which Kabir stated during his convo with Richa. How they finally strike the ultimate balance is what I feel will complete this love story !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: BedouinMe

I feel Ananya always had the upper hand in this relationship of theirs. Kabir was always grateful to her for bringing the Real Kabir back to life ! It might have sounded funny, but it was pretty well cleared with Kabir saying, "main manaunga, air main hi manata rahunga ". Come what may, Kabir would be ready to make all kinds of compromises to make this relationship work ! Theirs is a rishta of imbalance, which Kabir stated during his convo with Richa. How they finally strike the ultimate balance is what I feel will complete this love story !


Completely agree with u, Ananya always had upper hand in their relation. Kabir will never ever let go of her, He will now do saam daam dand bedh for Ananya.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Interesting post dear! But I feel this might not be the case in KaYa relationship. Love is not about balancing each other's support. Its about being there for each other as and when required. I am sure if ever Ananya needs him he will even sacrifice his life for her.

But yes in case cvs feel it should be a balanced relationship from the standpoint of story, we might see Kabir giving the test of fire for his love and I would love to see it. I still have a feeling someday or the other, Kabir will end up endangering his life saving her and that will be the day Mrs Kashyap will fully accept him and his love...dunno its just a personal gut feeling.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Interesting post dear! But I feel this might not be the case in KaYa relationship. Love is not about balancing each other's support. Its about being there for each other as and when required. I am sure if ever Ananya needs him he will even sacrifice his life for her.

But yes in case cvs feel it should be a balanced relationship from the standpoint of story, we might see Kabir giving the test of fire for his love and I would love to see it. I still have a feeling someday or the other, Kabir will end up endangering his life saving her and that will be the day Mrs Kashyap will fully accept him and his love...dunno its just a personal gut feeling.


Malika same feeling I have maybe this rajasthan trip something will happen kabir will save annaya putting his life in danger
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Interesting post dear! But I feel this might not be the case in KaYa relationship. Love is not about balancing each other's support. Its about being there for each other as and when required. I am sure if ever Ananya needs him he will even sacrifice his life for her.

But yes in case cvs feel it should be a balanced relationship from the standpoint of story, we might see Kabir giving the test of fire for his love and I would love to see it. I still have a feeling someday or the other, Kabir will end up endangering his life saving her and that will be the day Mrs Kashyap will fully accept him and his love...dunno its just a personal gut feeling.



I too kinda second your gut feeling Malika. He has been beside her whenever he has smelled danger around her till now and this trend won't cease ever. I would not be surprised if he even risks his career for her (will prove Anita that ain't the orthodox he was portrayed to be by Shreya).

Will he be put at test again and again in order to come clean on all the accusation that Shreya has put on his character? Starting from committment phobic - Anita will ask him to get engaged and he will like aap engagement ki baat kar rahe ho par main toh shaadi ke liye bhi ready hoon LOL.

Jokes apart by the end of this series their's will be a well balanced relationship. They still have a long way to go together ;)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Interesting post dear! But I feel this might not be the case in KaYa relationship. Love is not about balancing each other's support. Its about being there for each other as and when required. I am sure if ever Ananya needs him he will even sacrifice his life for her.

But yes in case cvs feel it should be a balanced relationship from the standpoint of story, we might see Kabir giving the test of fire for his love and I would love to see it. I still have a feeling someday or the other, Kabir will end up endangering his life saving her and that will be the day Mrs Kashyap will fully accept him and his love...dunno its just a personal gut feeling.


Sounds filmy! 😆. Its not about convincing Anita or anyone else. It about themselves and their equation towards one another. Most screen couples I've been watching seem imbalanced in one way or another, either with one being more invested than the other or something else. Hence my thoughts went there.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lizzie, nice post. If Ananya offered her blind trust then Kabir made her feel secured with immense love and went out of his way just for her happiness. Isn't love about giving what your partner demands/needs (in a particular situation or in whole)? They both just need opportunities in order to show their depth of love for each other. Both are equal - no more and no less. As these opportunities surface we will see the a perfectly balanced couple who will sail through all the odds because theu believe in completing each other.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: idonkno

Lizzie, nice post. If Ananya offered her blind trust then Kabir made her feel secured with immense love and went out of his way just for her happiness. Isn't love about giving what your partner demands/needs (in a particular situation or in whole)? They both just need opportunities in order to show their depth of love for each other. Both are equal - no more and no less. As these opportunities surface we will see the a perfectly balanced couple who will sail through all the odds because theu believe in completing each other.



Exactly! What he has been doing for her might be li'l things like ensuring her safety, making their relationship public and walking hand in hand with her but yes this cant equate with what she has done for him. And I feel even if we feel the need of a balancing out act or not, cvs surely will, sooner or later.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika



Exactly! What he has been doing for her might be li'l things like ensuring her safety, making their relationship public and walking hand in hand with her but yes this cant equate with what she has done for him. And I feel even if we feel the need of a balancing out act or not, cvs surely will, sooner or later.


Indeed we can't equate what she did for him with his gestures which might be small but are an absolute necessity in a relationship. Would she have been able to keep her words of blindly trusting him if he had not made her feel so secured and loved each and every time either by his words or actions?
People act as per what situation demands.When given an opportunity he will surely do something comparable or even more than what Ananya did for him. As you said let's leave it on the CVs to decide

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