It's not as if Ananya and Anita hadn't heard of Tarini

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ok I was too shocked yesterday so I didn't hear what Ananya(my favourite person) was saying
But I watched it again and well this one stuck in my mind

Ananya said she heard of stories of Tarini and believed them and it had not mattered to her

Even Anita had heard them right ??? And even she had given her consent right

So what happened now??? It's not as if Anota has heard a new thing ??? So why the grave reaction

Either she should not have accepted that day and asked him about Tarini or she should let it be now

What do you say ???

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Ananya said she'd heard rumors and didn't know if they were true but didn't care anyway. Not sure if Anita knew specifically about Taarini or had just heard rumors of Kabir being a womanizer. Either way there's a world of difference between speculating on what facts are and then deciding you don't care either way, (when there's hope that it may not be true) and actually knowing the true facts and then having to decide whether you do care or not. Ananya needed to make an informed decision about her relationship with Kabir and for that she needed to know everything about his past. Even if she felt it wouldn't make a difference to her either way, only Kabir knew what had happened and I think he should have told her at the beginning of their relationship. If he wanted to keep his conscience clear he should not have let Ananya make that judgment call about choosing not to know. He should have unburdened himself then and then let her make the call about their future.

As for Anita, maybe she too like Ananya gave him the benefit of doubt, but after the way Shreya presented the facts placing the blame entirely on Kabir, I'm not surprised she reacted the way she did.
Edited by LizzieBennett - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Gitanjali-

Ok I was too shocked yesterday so I didn't hear what Ananya(my favourite person) was saying

But I watched it again and well this one stuck in my mind

Ananya said she heard of stories of Tarini and believed them and it had not mattered to her

Even Anita had heard them right ??? And even she had given her consent right

So what happened now??? It's not as if Anota has heard a new thing ??? So why the grave reaction

Either she should not have accepted that day and asked him about Tarini or she should let it be now

What do you say ???





May be Anitha thought tarini affair thing was in the past...because when Shreya said kabeer abhi bhi tarini se milta hy aur woh dono bahut kareeb hy...Anitha was shocked. So Anitha has three doubts in mind
1. Shreya has come back and still has feelings for kabeer
2. Tarini is also there in kabeers life
3. According to what Shreya said he is still having somekind of close relationship with her

Listening to this any mother would get protective of her daughter. When kabeer talked to Anitha he said my past to bhula chuka hu... But in present shreya and tarini both from the past are there in kabeers present so Anitha is judging from that point of view. I feel the day kabeer met Anitha alone he should have presented all the facts to her irrespective of her enquiring...if he indeed has committed this mistake with tarini it was his responsibility to start a new relationship on a clean slate. Kabeer usually is so honest and straightforward didn't understand why he didn't do so ????
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

I think Ananya said she'd heard rumors and didn't know if they were true but didn't care anyway. Not sure if Anita knew specifically about Taarini or had just heard rumors of Kabir being a womanizer. Either way there's a world of difference between speculating on what facts are and then deciding you don't care either way, (when there's hope that it may not be true) and actually knowing the true facts and then having to decide whether you do care or not. Ananya needed to make an informed decision about her relationship with Kabir and for that she needed to know everything about his past. Even if she felt it wouldn't make a difference to her either way, only Kabir knew what had happened and I think he should have told her at the beginning of their relationship. If he wanted to keep his conscience clear he should not have let Ananya make that judgment call about choosing not to know. He should have unburdened himself then and then let her make the call about their future.


As for Anita, maybe she too like Ananya gave him the benefit of doubt, but after the way Shreya presented the facts placing the blame entirely on Kabir, I'm not surprised she reacted the way she did.


CV's dropped the ball here. only reason kabir's past was delayed was so they can create more suspense here. not even kabir, even anita did not ask for specifics, or about his family, or what his long term plans about this relationship.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lizzie Anita in one episode I think during Sinha case told Anabya ' I think Tarini is the reason for diverse'
And Anabya fumed and walked off
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Gitanjali-

Lizzie Anita in one episode I think during Sinha case told Anabya ' I think Tarini is the reason for diverse'

And Anabya fumed and walked off


No it was post Baghi get together at their place and her friends where discussing why his ex wife didn't even turn up even after listening to such news. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually Gitanjali - Anita of course knew about Tarini - but like all of us she must have believed that the link up was a rumour ... but actually hearing that he had a physical relation with her is enough to shock a mother...Ananya trusts Kabir and loves him and knows that after that one night - Tarini is his friend only - so she has accepted the fact...but Anita ko toh thoda time lagega...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yea everyone, just like us viewers... Everyone knew that Kabir and Tarini are rumoured to have had an affair.. Like always knowing something is very different from actually going through it. Lot of us in forum actually knew that Kabir did something which is very gulity about but now that the truth is out..we having difficulty to wrap our minds around that.

In our minds we know lot of stuff but to practice them is the hardest thing.. That's the exact case with Anita, she knew about them but she didn't expect that Tarini is very much part of his life currently. It's was a very natural reaction, it would have been really fake to see her accept him right away.

Just imagine as a third person, you don't know the details.. You just know that.. Kabir Shreya had a love marriage, they started having issues from the beginning and then one fine day Kabir cheats on Shreya(that's the brief version of what Shreya told her), and topping is he is still friends with Tarini. Who would give thier daughter to that kind of a man?

Yes I agree she should have found out all details before giving her consent to date.. That would have been simple logical thing to do but shows doesn't work with logic..they twist n turn to keep the drama quotient :)

Edited by Sherni541 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Anita thought that Kabir has nobody in his life now who belongs to his past, Cz only Ananya had seen Tarini (in the hospital & the fon call) And also when we are shocked that Kabir had physical relation with Tarini, whatever may be his mental condition then, so it will obviously be a tremendous shock fr Anita, she has full rights to deny their relation, seeing Anita's mental situation now!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anita too heard about Tarini earlier. but as a woman. she didn't give any interest knowning him more as she is not aware her daughter is unconsciously loving him.

Now as a mother of a girl who loves him, she heard the story present to her by his ex-wife. always how the happenings are narrated does matters.

Shreya narrated in a way she is cheated by Kabir from the beginning of their marriage. it is our woman mentality and tempted to get sympathy on Shreya. Anita did the same. above all Shreya hinted still she loves Kabir. even before she met Shreya and while hearing the story, her mind started registering one point that Kabir is not the way he looks like. he is negative person under good cover.

Ananya is too much obsessed towards kabir. she don't want to lose Kabir at any cost. She is moving closer with him. she didn't find any trait of him having that illegal attitude now. She too hugs Ronie in a very possessive way. any common man will take them as lover. In this way, from the start she never had any doubt on Kabir and Tarini relationship.

This one mistake is a shock for her. but analyzing his attitude the way she know him, she came to conclusion he did a mistake but it can be forgiven as he needs love to come out of his guilt. Anaya's decision to continue their relationship is perfect decision. but she needs courage to face this world which includes her mother.

from Anita's pov, her decision is right. no mother in this world allow her daughter to marry a person who committed sin in his unconscious state what ever be the reason.

it is hard for anita to believe her daughter life will be peaceful knowing his ex-wife still having feeling for him. Anita is still directly haven't understand Kabir-Tarini's level of relationship.

we have to wait for few more episodes to get clear picture of that night.

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