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Posted: 10 years ago
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i hope making Raghav, Kaushayla, Shivam and Riya feel guilty by Sarla and probably later on by Shanti ends. That is so cruel on Sarla's part.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sarla has got a golden opportunity to blame Kusiya and family n she will utilize it ..till someone shuts her up...it cud be Riya , lets see..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kaushalya is not only ok with sarla n shanti dominating n taunting her, but she wants riya to follow her footsteps n keep crying her whole life just so sarla n shanti can get away with everything.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree.
Hope this guilt trap is not dragged with More Sarla chaos like they did pre wedding track.

Wonder when will Riya remember she had told Sarla about Shivam right after meeting him in restaurant. and perhaps few other times.

Hope this wedding night-day roll getsdone & Riya comes to her normal thinking senses.

Kusiya is classic case of person trapped in same old routine think pattern. She has never realized responding back to Sarla & Ammajis nautanki might get her some positive result.
Good for Renu to tell her not to lead Riya her way - and anyways Riya is not so timid. so all good.

One more thing which kind of was annoying was:
Nimmi & Preeti wishing Riya standing up for THEIR mother like how she did for HER dad.
Instead of wishing that, they should have thought of being more assertive, strong, vocal for THEIR mom. Nimmi is, but she gets shush down always. she needs to learn conviction from Riya & stand up for her Mother.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: spdp

Agree.
Hope this guilt trap is not dragged with More Sarla chaos like they did pre wedding track.

Wonder when will Riya remember she had told Sarla about Shivam right after meeting him in restaurant. and perhaps few other times.

Hope this wedding night-day roll getsdone & Riya comes to her normal thinking senses.

Kusiya is classic case of person trapped in same old routine think pattern. She has never realized responding back to Sarla & Ammajis nautanki might get her some positive result.
Good for Renu to tell her not to lead Riya her way - and anyways Riya is not so timid. so all good.


One more thing which kind of was annoying was:
Nimmi & Preeti wishing Riya standing up for THEIR mother like how she did for HER dad.
Instead of wishing that, they should have thought of being more assertive, strong, vocal for THEIR mom. Nimmi is, but she gets shush down always. she needs to learn conviction from Riya & stand up for her Mother.





I understand what u feel abt her and its correct also..but frm what i read, Kaushalya was indirectly narrating HER delimma...what she told Renu, that Riya openly muh kholo in front of ammaji & i will teach her etc. etc. , , she said this for a reason..she knows that in this house, what happens to the person who goes against amma...If Riya takes a stand against Sarla or Amma, she is bound to lose... either she will be out of Shivam's life or she will be humiliated day in day out like Kaushalya...She is only wishing good for her children, this is the reason why she stops Nimmi & Shivam also to raise a voice against her SILs family...She knows Shivam loves Riya , she doesn't want Riya out of this house, nor does she want to see Riya in her place...



after so many years of facing this humiliation, this is the way of life for her, so may be she sees nothing wrong in it..in the long run, what she is gaining is what matters to her ...this is what many females do..if her husband is not supportive, at least he is not anti to her, he treats her well..unlike ppl like Amit.. her children r loving & caring...her husband has only one expectation from her, to keep his family happy including his mother and sister hence, she tries to do it...


@bold 2 , this is the theme of the show..how all of them stand up for themselves , basically find a way to balance everything...the process will be very slow..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: just4fun

i hope making Raghav, Kaushayla, Shivam and Riya feel guilty by Sarla and probably later on by Shanti ends. That is so cruel on Sarla's part.


She is taking her chances and taking it too far.
I hope she utters each and every word of truth tomorrow in front of Shanti's whip, instead of adding more masala or leaving out important info in-between.

Her mother should now understand, her daughter Sarla is one up on her and not to give so much importance to her, otherwise, Sarla is capable of stepping on her mother's head so-to-speak!

But that is Sarla's character and displaying it very well. It is for her mother to understand now.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shanti sure knows Sarla 's scheme but still she let her say things to Riya, Shivam and Kaushayla like Amit sacrificing. This should really end after Shanti confronts. Shanti is already depriving her son and family and giving everything away to Sarla. Riya is now Shivam 's wife and Amit should look at her that way as his sister in law. He very well knows Riya never had feelings for him and it was not his right to get married to Riya which has been taken away by Shivam.
Would love to see Riya and Rani bring some sanity.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good post. It is cruel. Sometimes , mind games are more painful
than physical abuse. The kind of torture Shivam, Namita & Preity go through
in their own home on a daily basis is bad enough. Now, guilt has been added to
their mental load. The 3 children have grown up now & they must
make themselves free . With riya's help.😊
Ironically, Shanti, Sarla & Sarla's children will not be their greatest problems in this task.
The greatest problems will be Raghav & Khushiya who will be forcing them to
shut up & obey Shanti, Sarla's children.😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Leelalore

Good post. It is cruel. Sometimes , mind games are more painful

than physical abuse. The kind of torture Shivam, Namita & Preity go through
in their own home on a daily basis is bad enough. Now, guilt has been added to
their mental load. The 3 children have grown up now & they must
make themselves free . With riya's help.😊
Ironically, Shanti, Sarla & Sarla's children will not be their greatest problems in this task.
The greatest problems will be Raghav & Khushiya who will be forcing them to
shut up & obey Shanti, Sarla's children.😭


yes this is the biggest hurdle..if someone thinks therez nothing wrong in being bullied, oppressed, those who value rishta over self respect, therez nothing that anyone can do to help them..both Kaushalya and Ragwa were telling us how they r and want both Riya and Shivam to follow their footsteps..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't get how dumb that family is - not including Shanti and co?
Sarala did all of these and no one ever doubted!! Now she is taking more out of that guilty drama. No one thought of investigating it .. how that misunderstanding happend..and so many times!! Riya is perfect match for that dumb family. She never mentioned that she told Sarala about shivam at coffee shop. Agree no one listens in that family, but she had golden chance at her mandap.. everyone was listening her. Expose her in public.
And I don't agree with raghva..and khusiya.. advise to shivam, teach your kids don't do injustice to anyone and don't let anyone do it to u.. being dormat..or dominating others is not a way of happy life.
They are shutting up shiya..before they even think about situation. No wonder if shivam.is. another raghva and riya.. is another khusiya..in family by the time that guilt drama ends .

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