Anyways, I just felt the need to express my thoughts on Meher, I dont know what it is about this character that connects with me but I just love it. So today we see bua snap at her because she's over abeer and blames meher for bringing him into their life ultimately sayin you went to school to learn and yet went on to fall for the ddlj that occurs at college. Meher being who she is took the insults and the pain and walked away. Of course our hero overheard all and couldnt sit quiet so he took his weapon of choice her diary and brought it out for all to know the real truth.
I LOVE that she wrote a diary, it gives viewers and in this case her bua about what was really going on inside Meher's mind and we see that she doesnt even want to entertain the thought of falling in love because she loves her family and owes them all which includes focusing in school and making something of not just her life but her family's. We can see bua's shock and awe that all the things she said were wrong and you can see her pain. I love bua because she represents the viewers she is finding out as we are what is going on. I really do feel bua has gone through something similar to meher i can just see how the two women (meher post divorce) truly relates to her bua
today's epi also eluded to the fact that the something that happened over the past 8 yrs was something big I'm not sure what but as bua said it didn't just impact meher but her entire family. I really wonder it was that broke this strong woman (meher) as well as her family (esp bua). I guess only time will tell.
Another interesting angle I noted was that and I hope that it takes meher some time to forgive abeer (as well all know it will happen), but I just feel that she was already closed off to love due to the pain and heart breaking her dad caused not only her mom but her bua and her and her brother, but somehow abeer managed to thaw her heart and make her fall in love and get married and she trusted and loved him enough to approve it. And yet the end out come was her getting left behind as abeer "walked away" and signed the divorce and she was left alone. We can see that she chose not to take the route her mom took but rather chose to follow the path of her bua to stand on her own two feet and to completely cut all ties with abeer and her past. And it is for this reason that I feel that it should take abeer even more time to break through to meher for she has now gotten her heart broken twice and it isnt so easy repairing the damage
Anyways i just wanted to bak bak a bit.
Arpu