Do you exist future husband?

Hi!

Jeez! Stop stressing so much. At least u have the option of getting married by your own choice, some ppl don't even have such luck. Anyway, so the point is .. seek for new people, new friends - go hang out with your girlfriends, meet their friends and explore life. Just b'cuz suddenly u need a person, it won't drop rite from heaven with his unicorn pony. I mean you have to do lil work or wait for it.

I, genuinely think letting go off your stress and too much of a hard work is one of the best thing you can do to yourself. Its kind of like removing resistance in yourself - resistance is getting stressed and chanting in your brain "you need a guy". What i mean to say is, what will happen if you won't able to get a guy in 3 years ? Well! your parents will find a guy for you .. right ? I am assuming here you still have the option of choosing out of them as well since i feel your parents are open minded. So, not a finding a guy by yourself won't put you in a bad place. So Chill. You will hurry or compare yourself with other, you will end up making bad choices.

Just tell yourself i am in no hurry, though my attention is finding a good match for myself but that doesn't mean i will grab anything whatever comes my way.

short, below average looks, average intelligent, not funny - Ha! there you go. You have self esteem issues and you lack self love as well. Work on it. See, the thing is maybe looks work but it works only initially later its all about your attitude, personality, nature. You'll see people who are beautiful as heck, they sometimes lack attitude or don't know how to carry themselves which can be a turn off. So, if you don't love yourself enough - you will definitely missing alot here. You have to love the scar that is present on your right arm or that big giant ass pimple on your face - arrggh! that's too much of love, aye ?😆. I mean embrace your flaws and be confident about it. There is no trick to attract boys or getting liked by them. All you can do is Just be yourself and do some personal development - you'll attract more people in life. Confident girl and a smile on face - thats a good combo girl. You can control yourself but not others.

And about not having guy friends - there is internet - find some guy friends if not in real life - try some dating sites as well. Research your thing where you can meet more indian community. There are so many festivals, concerts and parties occur - you can go over there and meet new people. Options are endless girl. You just gotta try.

Thank you soo much!!! i guess i still have time:) I am really working on trying to like myself and accept myself.. which is tougher than I thought but I am really trying!! But thanks again!

You may think males are some form of aliens, but in reality we're not! Some of us may have different interests, but not all women have similar interests either.