Originally posted by: Aamina2013
i agree with Ranvi and his anger Coz Gunjan was completely wrong in doing what she did. But the truth is Ranvi himself is to be blamed. There is a part of me that really relates to gunjan that despite screaming her lungs out that she is doubting him and is feeling insecure and scared he will leave her he did nothing to remove her fear. what did he do as a husband to prove her wrong apart from his empty promises.
I've just caught wit he episodes I missed in ramadan lol so quoting back. In one episode where Rahul is watching geet feed deepu who sat in ranvi's lap! Little things like that can escalate into bigger things especially from a wife's prespective in fact no husband will tolerate that.
I might be different to everyone else here but seriously the character that has really annoyed me is Ranvi. He has never got his priorities right.
I think all the other characters are flawed too but The character Ranvi is the worst one.
I see where you're coming from. But at the same time, I honestly think it's a little preposterous of Gunjan to be so freaking jealous of Deepu. Yes, it makes sense that she's a little insecure of her inability to have children. But does that mean she'll completely disregard all the times Ranvi has made her his priority and reassured her of his affections toward her? Ranvi has been madly in love with Gunjan since the very beginning - how can she even think that he'll leave her? He stuck with her when she stole from them, tried to run away, etc.
I think some jealousy over Deepu would make sense, but Gunjan is beyond that. She's acting as if Ranvi's gonna leave her for Deepu soon. There needs to be at least some trust in a relationship. Even if Gunjan says she trusts Ranvi but doesn't trust Geet (which is also ridiculous because by now I think most people can figure out that Geet has attempted to get out of their life/ limit Deepu-Ranvi interaction -- even if she hasn't been the most successful), she needs to remember that it takes two to tango. So she can't trust Ranvi and distrust Geet and still think that there's a chance of her being kicked/ replaced in Ranvi life. That means she doesn't trust Ranvi either, despite all that she's said.
Also, I'm not saying that Ranvi doesn't have faults. He definitely does. He's definitely been insensitive during Gunjan miscarriage track. But at the same time, Gunjan too has forgotten their life together, the past where Ranvi has stood by her. Did that count for nothing?
To TM: I agree. Even tho RanJan will probably be together in the end, I wish they seperated. The fact that Gunjan freaking gave away the damn fields Beeji gave to her, over some stupid suspicion her husband would leave her, not to mention that she didn't even bother to check how Dilawar was as a person and attempted to barter the life of a woman over some fields, speaks of how absolutely terrible she is a person. Like really. Not is she jealous, but she's also moronically idiotic. Like how stupid can you get?
But, since she confessed her own misdeeds, she'll prob be forgiven because Veera and Ranvi are pushovers and will forget everything.
That's another thing I hate -- Gunjan never faces consequences of her decisions. She's never gonna learn.
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