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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am more interested as to what stand Jagya and Dadisa will take with regards to Pooja.

This will be their litmus test.

Here Ganga has made her stand crystal clear from the beginning. that she does not want to have anyting to do with Pooja. But Jagya and dadisa have not made their stand clear.

And Sarita's reaction if she comes to know about the truth of their relationship.

Pooja ignored all the warnings given by everyone.

Her new mother is too nice too her. Her previous mother used to slap her.
Nidhi was treated so harshly but Pooja seems to be getting away too easily for a much graver mistake.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't want to say anything about Ganga except that she is free to like or dislike Pooja and if she doesn't want her kid hanging out with Pooja she should have made it clear to HIM
Well Pooja might appear to get off lightly but that doesn't change the fact that life is going to extract a price from her.

She will pay for the lie she told to her mother and her mother will pay the price for believing that lie when bigger trouble awaits them

As of now it will be difficult to say what stand Dsa and J take.
Interestingly it was Dsa who suggested that Pooja should go home . It was like Pooja came to spend the evening with them now it's late she should be heading home . In other words BH will not be home for Pooja
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The material question here is not how life will treat Pooja; it is whether Anandi is even handed in the way she treats her students.

It is a well established trait in BV that close relatives/ friends/associates will be treated with kid gloves while strangers will be punished and slapped.

Doesn't Anandi's gang slap grooms who do Bal Vivah? But look at how gently and with great understanding and compassion Mannu is being handled.

It is not my case that Mannu and Pooja should be severely punished. While the law is the same for everyone, there can be mitigating circumstances for punishment.

The question then is: if there are mitigating circumstances for M and P -- Mannu's anger at perceived injustice, their youth etc -- there were mitigating circumstances for Nidhi too. These should have been considered, not later, but in the very first instance when she was thrown out and made to sit in the sun

I know Anandi went against her folks twice -- when she handed out a panchayat decision against Nandu and when she released the file against her father-in-law.

As against this there are scores of instances when she overlooked brazen crimes , DS, Jagya and DB being among them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dadisa was surprised that Pooja-Mannu came home after so many days and as Mannu has already met his family and Pooja is sitting with them comfortably and doesn't even remember she has a mother also. Maybe Pooja thought she is sitting in her sasra so she will go only when her sasrawale ask her to. Pooja darling just wait and watch, your honeymoon period is gonna over very soon.
Ganga won't accept Pooja.
Dadisa also won't accept, she made her stand clear indirectly.
Jagya, let's see.
Pooja's mother- well I have never seen such mother. Who behave like this when their daughter come home after days of eloping with a boy? And this pooja still put Sindoor in her hairs.
And this mannu wants to keep his beendini with him and then with what face he will go to school?
Jagya is far better than this mannu, at least he felt embarrassed for his child marriage status in front of his college mates.

No hopes from Pooja's spineless mother and Anandi, they won't punish this cunning, liar, pervert, shameless, boy-trapper girl. Ganga Dadisa Jagya should teach her the lessons. And Mannu, I don't know why this boy has become so foolish.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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In Pooja's case there are no mitigating circumstances. She knew she had been rescued from a child marriage. She knew Anandi's lifer mission is to stop Bal Vivha. She knew she will destroy Anandi's record by her rash act She knew Anandi's own child was suffering because she was rescued.

The only thing that goes in her favour is her age and hormonal rush at that age. But surely that is the case with all teenagers, including all of us who were teens once. Would any of us have rushed headlong into disaster knowing not only the dangers ahead but knowing many people had sacrificed to give us a good life?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi slapped the middle aged groom who was getting married to a child.

In all the other child marriages she was even handed with both bride and groom's parents.
The parents of both bride and groom were taken into police custody.

Even Heth Singh was taken into police custody along with Gulli's grand parents when the tried to get HS's small boy and little Gulli married. Heth Singh was not slapped because he was a small kid.

Even Kundan was not slapped when she went to stop Kundan Pooja's child marriage. It was Akheraj she targetted and she and her daughter are paying the price for that.

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Jagya Ganga Sarita didn't do child marriage of their kids.

It is their kids who ran away from home and gotten themselves married

It is their understanding of child marriage that is skewed. They convinced themselves that their marriage can't be child marriage because it is happening according to their own wish.


In this who should be punished? Mannu and Pooja or their parents who didn't have a hand in that?

Mannu Pooja they are kids should they be punished for their distorted view of child marriage?Hhow should they be punished? Should they be thrown into home meant for Juvenile delinquents?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I am more interested as to what stand Jagya and Dadisa will take with regards to Pooja.

This will be their litmus test.

Here Ganga has made her stand crystal clear from the beginning. that she does not want to have anyting to do with Pooja. But Jagya and dadisa have not made their stand clear.

And Sarita's reaction if she comes to know about the truth of their relationship.

Pooja ignored all the warnings given by everyone.

Her new mother is too nice too her. Her previous mother used to slap her.
Nidhi was treated so harshly but Pooja seems to be getting away too easily for a much graver mistake.


bold - yes, ganga had made her stand clear. But now the circumstances are different. Her son secretly married that girl and also consummated his marriage. If at this time, ganga does not think of the girl, then she should be ashamed to call herself a woman.

If she is a woman of substance, she should slap her son and teach him a lesson for using a girl for his own selfish reasons. Ganga can then be forgiven.

Even Harki thought of Urmi and tears came into her eyes. Let's see how ganga reacts. This is a litmus test for ganga.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think no one is punishing pooja because time will punish pooja automatically.
well person himself or herself is responsible for his or her deeds so whatever pooja did she has to eat good or bad fruit of it. no one can share those fruits , not her mother , not anandi, no one .

mannul loves pooja and till now he is shown faithful in this relation , let see how long he will love pooja.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


bold - yes, ganga had made her stand clear. But now the circumstances are different. Her son secretly married that girl and also consummated his marriage. If at this time, ganga does not think of the girl, then she should be ashamed to call herself a woman.

If she is a woman of substance, she should slap her son and teach him a lesson for using a girl for his own selfish reasons. Ganga can then be forgiven.

Even Harki thought of Urmi and tears came into her eyes. Let's see how ganga reacts. This is a litmus test for ganga.





I stopped expecting from Ganga. Because Ganga stopped hiding behind sweet words.
I am more interested in so called positive characters who fight for underdogs do this time.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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jagya and ds r neutral to pooja .if pooja become pregnant then jagya and ds may worry about pooja and both may show kindness and will try to build future pooja out of duty and humanity .ganga may be angry with pooja for ruining life of mannu ,

sarita will be emotionally hurt and shatter if she come to know that pooja is pregnant .sarita may be emotionally hurt but being mother of pooja she will be protective of her daughter if society taunt her daughter

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