Urmila and Nandini's spats look some what similar to Abhi and Shivam's
Except the spats between these two girls are happening in the setting of child marriage.
Both girls are unconsciously or consciously trying to assert themselves in the only way they know.
May be Urmi was pampered by her parents so she is a bit of spoilt brat and she knows that her parents will stand by her in her fight against Nandini who is there and a potential competition for her.
Nandini doesn't have anyone except her wits and daredevilry to use in her fight against this Urmi.
Both the girls are equally un exposed to the world outside.They only know family setting and they are using that to assert themselves.
While their behaviour may seem childish and dumb their concerns are quite valid. Nandini does perceive this girl as a threat although why she doesn't know she feels that way so she was using all kinds of tactics - starting with extending friendship when that didn't work she used her tricks and this jalebis - I guess she found them irresistable but also wanted to get even with Kundan and Urmi.They are having party without her so will spoil their party.
I think they have sound and very vaild reasons to feel this way and thye are expressing themselves in the only way they know.
They are not educated so they don't have eloquence to express their feelings in a civilised manner or intelligent manner.
Don't know why people think those two girls are dumb. They are trying to survive in the situation they are put in with the only means they have.Neither of them appear mentally retarded to be called as dumb.
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago