Urmila's revenge and other related things DT NOTE PG 8

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Urmila is not hungry and she was happy that she caught Nimboli and this time for the right reasons.

Why Nimboli was looking at Urmila while being dragged away and she did not evoke any sympathy this time. She stole, she started lying. Today its food. Tomorrow?

When Nimboli showed the knife to Kundan, Urmila had a smile.

Surely vily Urmila is proving a match.

Nimboli will not keep quiet. She is upset with everyone.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And that remote and blank screen. Urmila is trying to be meethichuri.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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When I first saw Mangala give Nimboli the knife, I was concerned that somewhere along the line, the track might move towards Nimboli either injuring or taking Kundan's life, or perhaps threatening Akheraj's life. Ghoulish as the thought is, the possibility is very real. Down the road, Kundan might start to drink and then try to be violent with Nimboli. In rural India, violence against girls and women is rampant. Nimboli has seen nothing but abuse and violence in her young life, and it has made her determined to survive by whatever means necessary. Further, Nimboli has "stockholm syndrome," loving the abusers, despite their abuse, as can be seen in her interactions with Harki, Akheraj, and also Kundan. Stockholm syndrome is a state of denial where the victim is too afraid to confront the abuser. But, nonetheless, the resentment and anger continue to build up till one day the victims just snap. In case of young and confused souls such as Nimboli, escalating violence might just spur them to the unthinkable. Juvenile delinquency as a consequence of constant abuse is an important theme and fallout of bal vivah, and this would be a nice opportunity for the CVs to address this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Urmila is dumb and Nimboli is also dumb. Their spats are not interesting - it is kitchen politics between children - a great gift of balika vadhu😔. With all their attempts to show Nimboli as abused and deprived girl - she does not look or behave like the abused and deprived child. She looks greedy towards sweets and perhaps she used real reason for finishing those jalebi - chatori.
Urmila's age is not known - but she is older than Nimboli (who is between 12 and 13) and they still behave like 5 or 6 years olds - that thumb gesture is too childish..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Urmila and Nandini's spats look some what similar to Abhi and Shivam's
Except the spats between these two girls are happening in the setting of child marriage.
Both girls are unconsciously or consciously trying to assert themselves in the only way they know.
May be Urmi was pampered by her parents so she is a bit of spoilt brat and she knows that her parents will stand by her in her fight against Nandini who is there and a potential competition for her.

Nandini doesn't have anyone except her wits and daredevilry to use in her fight against this Urmi.

Both the girls are equally un exposed to the world outside.They only know family setting and they are using that to assert themselves.

While their behaviour may seem childish and dumb their concerns are quite valid. Nandini does perceive this girl as a threat although why she doesn't know she feels that way so she was using all kinds of tactics - starting with extending friendship when that didn't work she used her tricks and this jalebis - I guess she found them irresistable but also wanted to get even with Kundan and Urmi.They are having party without her so will spoil their party.

I think they have sound and very vaild reasons to feel this way and thye are expressing themselves in the only way they know.

They are not educated so they don't have eloquence to express their feelings in a civilised manner or intelligent manner.

Don't know why people think those two girls are dumb. They are trying to survive in the situation they are put in with the only means they have.Neither of them appear mentally retarded to be called as dumb.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is how it happens in undereducated families. Sometimes educated ones too do this like Sanchi.

Nimboli is really flummoxed as to why beendni is not doing any household work. And why everyone is extra nice to her.

Urmila understands everything and she wants to use the ignorance of Nimboli and enjoy the fun.

Kundan is into winning his new wife with jalebis and nice behaviour.

Mangala knows everything and tryng to make Nimboli not to rattle the boat.
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Urmila and Nandini's spats look some what similar to Abhi and Shivam's.

It also looks like Ganga and Sanchi tussle. Anandi playing Mangla.
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Urmila and Nandini's spats look some what similar to Abhi and Shivam's.

It also looks like Ganga and Sanchi tussle. Anandi playing Mangla.

Don't think Mangala is playing a similar role to that of Anandi's in Ganga Sanchi Jagya track.

Sanchi Jagya engagement happened without her approval she tried to open Sanchi's eyes and she failed there.
She tried to make Jagya think why he feels so attached to Ganga and what makes him go beyond the help he is giving her and what draws him to her. That was the essence of Anandi's shouting at Jagya on the terrace of KB mansion.

She was doing exactly the opposite of what Mangala is doing now. Mangala is trying to close Nandini's eyes to reality as well as trying to pacify Urmi so that she ignores reality😛
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

This is how it happens in undereducated families. Sometimes educated ones too do this like Sanchi.

Nimboli is really flummoxed as to why beendni is not doing any household work. And why everyone is extra nice to her.

Urmila understands everything and she wants to use the ignorance of Nimboli and enjoy the fun.

Kundan is into winning his new wife with jalebis and nice behaviour.

Mangala knows everything and tryng to make Nimboli not to rattle the boat.

Don't think it has got to do with educational qualifications. It is more to do with narrow periphery of vision.

Nandini does seem to have a broader periphery of vision but she is being forced to become tunnel visioned

That girl is capable looking far beyond the narrow confines of her own limited world and that's the reason why she helped Kamili elope with Gopal as opposed to Harki and Mangala who only wanted Kamili out of that hell and it didn't occur to them that it could be another hell with different faces.
While Nandini wanted to help Kamili build a new world for herself with Gopal.
The girl may be young but she has a broader vision but unfortunately no means to realise that vision.

There is more to life than struggle for survival and existence and that seems to be the driving force in Nandini now.

Nandini wants more and she is reaching stage where she doesn't care for the boat that Mangala has put her in.Soon she will not only rattle but even if it sinks also she will not care.I hope she reaches that stage fast.
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Don't think Mangala is playing a similar role to that of Anandi's in Ganga Sanchi Jagya track.

Sanchi Jagya engagement happened without her approval she tried to open Sanchi's eyes and she failed there.
She tried to make Jagya think why he feels so attached to Ganga and what makes him go beyond the help he is giving her and what draws him to her. That was the essence of Anandi's shouting at Jagya on the terrace of KB mansion.

She was doing exactly the opposite of what Mangala is doing now. Mangala is trying to close Nandini's eyes to reality as well as trying to pacify Urmi so that she ignores reality😛



I am talking about superficial similarities.

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