None can be blamed in Romi's case...

Ishra always think gud abt everyone n Romi, so they can't b blamed. Even Sarika can't b blamed fully as she didn't hear d 6 months credit part. Even Romi can't b blamed cz despite of Sarika telling him continuously, he kept his trust intact on his bhai bhabhi, but that MU triggered everything. Had it hapnd wid anybody of us, even v wud think d same way as Romi did! I hope all this clears out soon!

Sarika has no right to instigate romi against his own brother. Even if we consider her insecurities then also it doesn't give both of them any right to ridicule raman n ishita. They could have shared their fear with ishra. On top of that even Mr.bhalla supported sarika. All this does get too much to bear.

firstly sarika did nt do a good thing instigating romi against ishra and secondly romi believing her and saying those hurtful things is too much plus mr bhalla supporting them surpasses all limits

Yes it is an human MU

Sarika did not instigate romi against Raman or ishita.. she is not negative atleast untill now..

Originally posted by: sweety_10

Sarika did not instigate romi against Raman or ishita.. she is not negative atleast untill now..

she shared what she heard (ofcourse half the discussion)

as per romi, i will wait for tomorrow to see what made him to act like that.. whatever it is his behavior with raman and his words to ishita and mihir were horrible..

the only irritating character now is rinki..where she instigating family members against ishra deliberately..

I also don't feel sarika had any intentions of instigating romi against ishra. She was just sharing what she heard. If she had kept it in her heart her misunderstandings might have increased so I think it's better to share your concerns then to keep it in your heart and constantly stressing yourself by over thinking about the situations. And of course romi is the closest person to her now so it's assumed she will share her concerns with him first especially if it's going to affect her and her baby. But I do feel ishita is somewhat to be blame here. I think she should've at least discussed this computer thing with romi and let him decide for himself. She shouldn't have taken a decision about romi's work on her own. I would've at least discuss if I was her and leave it up to the person to decide for himself. Romi just started working abe wants to prove himself and the only way to do that is to continue taking responsibility and handling that. If you're not going to give him a chance then how will he learn. Obviously he will make some mistakes but who doesn't and that's how we learn right?? Ishita shouldn't have interfered in romi's professional matter. Also vandu and bala should've just directly ask romi why bring ishita in between anyways

When Ishita says something to Raman and advices him then its a discussion of husband and wife but when Sarika does the same with her husband then she becomes an instigator. I don't understand the forum rules at all.

Originally posted by: sana4ever

I also don't feel sarika had any intentions of instigating romi against ishra. She was just sharing what she heard. If she had kept it in her heart her misunderstandings might have increased so I think it's better to share your concerns then to keep it in your heart and constantly stressing yourself by over thinking about the situations. And of course romi is the closest person to her now so it's assumed she will share her concerns with him first especially if it's going to affect her and her baby. But I do feel ishita is somewhat to be blame here. I think she should've at least discussed this computer thing with romi and let him decide for himself. She shouldn't have taken a decision about romi's work on her own. I would've at least discuss if I was her and leave it up to the person to decide for himself. Romi just started working abe wants to prove himself and the only way to do that is to continue taking responsibility and handling that. If you're not going to give him a chance then how will he learn. Obviously he will make some mistakes but who doesn't and that's how we learn right?? Ishita shouldn't have interfered in romi's professional matter. Also vandu and bala should've just directly ask romi why bring ishita in between anyways

Every single thing Raman or Ishita has done, Sarika has doubted every single action. Ishita had warned her against getting involved with a good for nothing guy like Romi, finally Ishra got them together. So basically Sarika should just ask Romi to work harder and live with him within whatever means he can support. Plus she can put her salary to good use as well. Why expect anything from parents or bhai/bhabhi?