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Posted: 10 years ago
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Paridhi wants to have her own child. And Kokila is against it?
What has Kokila got to do with Paridhi's personal decisions? Was she the one who insisted Paridhi should not have any kids of her own?

As for age Paridhi was doing "research" when she came to MB. She must have been twenty three not more than that.

Now after ten years she will be thrity three or thirty four. It is not too late to have a kid.

As for tolu and molu what has that got to do with them? They mus be eighteen same as Vidya. or little older.

C'mon Paridhi marriad Jigar after his wife died and she looked after Tolu/Molu.

She wants to have a child of her own what is wrong in that? In any case it is their own decision. Has nothing to do with Kokila. When will Kokila learnt to keep her mouth shut when her opinion is not required? Just now she asked for forgiveness for Rashi's murder attempts.

As for Jigar he has a lne up of kids from "various sources" and Paridhi is his own wife He need not consider Tolu/Molu's age for having kid of his own. Consider Paridhi's age.

Do not make decisions for others. Let them make their own decisions.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Their is no problem with Paridhi having a child the problem is is it for the right reasons.
Paridhi did not accept tolu molu at first she treated them with contempt as far as i can remember, I can understand why kolika is against it because Paridhi does not want Jigars kids but only her and her child and that will come out.

She does not want Rashi there because Jigar loves Rashi dearly and when Rashi is there and having fun with him you can see Paridhi jealous. She herself needs to grow up this is a child who is also part of her husband who now needs her father in her life to show her good
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: suk19

Their is no problem with Paridhi having a child the problem is is it for the right reasons.

Paridhi did not accept tolu molu at first she treated them with contempt as far as i can remember, I can understand why kolika is against it because Paridhi does not want Jigars kids but only her and her child and that will come out.

She does not want Rashi there because Jigar loves Rashi dearly and when Rashi is there and having fun with him you can see Paridhi jealous. She herself needs to grow up this is a child who is also part of her husband who now needs her father in her life to show her good


Right reason wrong reason whatever reason it is her wish and Paridhi has a right to wish . She is jealous of Rashi she was not 'loving" tolu/molu etc all that does not matter.

Fact remains that Paridhi looked after tolu/molu. Agreed Paridhi is seldish and silly stupid in acting towards Rashi .. But she spoke correctly to Rashi in her outbust. and she wants to have a child of her own for the "right reason" "wrong reason" who is anyone to decide? Who is Kokila to decide? It is personal matter between Jigar and Paridhi. and let them handle it on their own. Modis are in the habit of bringing up every orphan kid out there Paridhi is selfish in wanting her own kid but she has a right to wish for it. selfish or not.

Every step mother out there in the world is partial to her own kid. Paridhi at least is nice to tolu/molu.

When treated them with "contempt" I do not know but past ten years they have grown fond of her. like it not. She has been fair minded in bringing them up. She kicked Rashi out that is true.

Now she wishes for a child of her own for the "wrong reasons" so what . She has a right to wish.
Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If Paridhi is 33 or 34 then what must be Jigar's age? Women conceive even at the age of 50 & that too without medical science.

Even if Paridhi is about 40 she can still conceive. It is upto Jigar whether to have a child or not. Paridhi is well adjusted in the family. She has contributed a lot for the family and managed the house well in Gopi's absence though she hates that fatso.

Rashi might have realized her mistakes and apologized to Gopi & Co but I still doubt how much she will be able to keep up that apology.

Jigar got twins from Rashi (Sr.), one daughter from Radha & that too without love or wedlock. So Pari being Jigar's wife is justified to ask for her pyaar ki nishani from Jigar.

Also she loved & took care of Sahir & Samar as her own sons. She does have motherly feelings. She can have a child whenever she wants.

They don't need permission from Kokila to plan their family. Even Paridhi should discuss these matters with Jigar in the bedroom and not in front of the family.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree that They dont need to get kokila permission that is their decision, but what i cant understand why now paridhi wants a child why? why did she have one 10 years ago what was that reason. why didnt she have a child then she has had no interference from anyone... i just feel that something is wrong here.
Now if it is that lovey the actress is leaving the show, then this would be a good way where she lets out what she really is feeling about jigars kids. i feel she will tell them that she only married jigs for him only not for his kids hence kids tell her she should leave as they are still jigs kids and thats the end of the road for paridhis character
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just can't believe this show...LOL
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ANJ4

I just can't believe this show...LOL



Anju, don't expect logic from CV's. It makes everyone mad.😆

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