Really upset with the video if it is coming up

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't know how many of u have seen the tb video of upcoming Manan scene where manek is shown supporting. Nandini when she was called a behenji and a fashion disaster ...I don't know whether it is an actual scene or just like that ...though I do think it is an upcoming scene ...and still not seen the entire sequence but frm things shown from scene I felt really bad ...I just hope when the entire scene is aired I am proved wrong ...but I dint like that Nandini was made fun of ...it is so cheap and derogatory ...and what I didn't like was that Nandini was shown weak and she was shown feeling ashamed and hurt while manek was shown speaking for her ...Nandini is a girl who has a very modern and broad thinking but on the other side she is very traditional also...she was the one to initiate it's not us it's you campaign for mukti then why is she feeling offended she should stand for herself boldly and should confidently convey that just coz I'm dressed in Kurtis doesn't mean I must me judged by it ...but here she is crying and accepting the accusations ...it shows as if somewhere she is accepting the insults and agreeing to it...I know it feels bad to be insulted like this and it also maybe the first reaction to feel hurt ...but I feel if it is a girls choice if she decides to wear shorts or skirts or dresses ...then she even has a right to dress in kurtis or and other style of clothes she feels comfortable in ...if a girl should not be judged wrongly if she wears short clothes then same should go even if she dresses traditionally ...being very frank there are a lot of viewers who are not satisfied with nandini's dressing (even I include myself in this category)...I think though Nandini was frm us she left us after Her Parents death which was 10 yrs back that means she was hardly 7 to 8 yrs old when she came to mangalore ...the environment of mangalore has a huge impact on her dressing (that's what I feel)she must have worn these type of clothes since she came to mangalore and was raised up by amms ...so she feels comfortable in these clothes ...just to please all she cannot change her comfort zone ...and besides wearing kurtis doesn't mean she is backward ...though I would love to see her in western clothes and she is shown wearing in some rpisodes she was shown wearing dresses jeans and long skirts so she should wear it more often ...and wearing dresses and short clothes doesn't mean wearing expensive clothes ...nowadays people from all financial background wear all variety of clothes...but in the middle of this I loved how manek stood for Nandini I have always noticed that manek from day one had never judged anyone by class ...though he troubled Nandini and navya in initial epi ...but he never gave derogatory comments on their dressing on their financial background ...though he considers Dhruv his best buddy but he never judged him by his dressing ...honestly though mukti and aliya are very good to Nandini but initially even they used to make fun of navyA n nandini's clothes and called them behenjis...while manek never did that ...manek never bothers about a persons material and outer content he sees through them inside whether it is his loved ones or the ones he hates

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I like everything you wrote if its true. But going by my experience with TB, they like to create negative hungama around everything just to get more views.

So the best approach is to ignore !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leel


I like everything you wrote if its true. But going by my experience with TB, they like to create negative hungama around everything just to get more views.

So the best approach is to ignore !


Thanx for ur reply and sharing ur view...I totally agree to u still need to see the whole scene to know what will actually happen
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey
i loved each and every word you have written..😊
very true nandini should stand for herself.. if she can stand for mukti and wear short dress then she should stand for herself too...
but i have a question...
when in mukti case people were bashing her for her short dressing sense and said she is inviting others because of her clothes..
and now what was shown in the video nandini is being accused as bhenji because of her dressing sense again..
dont you think guys that why cant people leave girls alone and give them freedom to what she want to wear and what not and should not comment...
this is actually my feeling which i have expressed here..
sorry if somebody felt bad...
hope nobody would take me wrong and bash..😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think that is upcoming scene! But thing is if they call nandini bhenji what will Dey call Navya?? Goddd CVs just want to show manan supporting each other rather if Dey wanted to discuss dis topic Dey should hv chosen Navya nd shown nandini nd all supporting her & shutting such shitty mouths.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree with you guys. You know during Mukti short dress track, I have seen that some girls were asking questions that if we will were Indian dresses, people will call us behenji and if modern short dress, then disgusting. What should we do? This should be our choice to wear what we want to wear. Nobody has right to judge us. I am also highly disappointed with the upcoming scene where people will make fun of Nandini. I just want to ask what is behenji type and what is disgusting. The thinking of people who keep eyes on clothing instead of capability and inside human are disgusting. I don't know which scene is coming up, hope it will create a positive impact and give a good message to society especially to those youngsters who go from inferiority complex due to dressing sense. I have seen many girls feel low due to dressing sense in so called high society. This is also a sensitive issue. Cvs should handle it carefully.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I donno if this is true or what but Nandu has defo not dressed up like a behenji thus far. She wore pretty kurtis n she was simple true. But that simplicity is Nandini's beauty. Wish CVs dont screw it. Can u plz give the link?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It's nice to see people think like me. Just now I made a post on my Blog ( http://kaisi-yeh-yaariaan-written-updates.blogspot.in/2015/07/manik-nandini-neeraj-gaba-aryamann-dressing-style-mtv-next-top-model-promotion.html) expressing my opinion on the issue. If this is a sneak peek of what is coming up on the Show then I didn't like it at all. I would appreciate your views by way of comments on my Blog as well. Thanks😊!
Edited by Anamika1570 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank you s much guys for ur support ...even I feel that navya would have been a better choice ...I would have liked if Nandini would have stood for navya ...and ya this is very sensitive issue generally many girls go through inferiority complex coz of their dressing which is totally wrong and their should be awareness for this
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even I am upset with this, they are lowering Nandini's self confidence in her character just to make money by sponsoring India's next top model. Like wth they have enough money by having tic tac in every one's fricking hands and mouths every 5 seconds.
😡Why they got to make Nandini''s character go from courageous to wimpy?

Edit: And btw wth is wrong with everyone? All of a sudden when a girl decides to wear something that is considered sIutty in Indian society, all the other girls stand up for her? But when a girl sticks to traditional clothes, all the girls and guys call her a bhenji? What the f*ck like bruh I dont expose my legs or stomach by wearing "those clothes" and no one calls me a bhenji since I wear clothes like t-shirts, leggings, skinny jeans, skirts and dresses (with leggings). I don't get it I find the Anarkalis beautiful!!!!! I love wearing them on special occasions. And if lets just say GIRL A who wears crop tops and shorts etc., calls GIRL B who is wearing a kurti, sari, anarkali or any traditional clothing a "bhenji" I will not remain silent I will call GIRL A a sIut. Like why the double standards? Its really disgusting to see the males/females only support females like GIRL A, like sweety you are making the girl who covered herself for her own self confidence and self respect feel uncomfortable under her own skin, under her own clothes.

Summary: If a guy/girl calls a girl who wears traditional clothes a bhenji no one bats an eye but if they call a girl who wears shorts and crop tops a sIut, everyone loses there minds. GROW UP.
Edited by ElegantRain - 10 years ago

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