The question that has been raised here '' Had Jagya handled Mannu well after he comes to know about Pooja this situation would have not arisen'' The blame game that is happening on Jagya I am dead confused what people expected from him ?
Here we have the so called disturbed Mannu who knows my family always loved me , my step father always loved me , no difference has ever been done between me and my step brother abhi , the family themselves tell me the truth , my real grandmother does not want to take me with her but wants me to stay in my this family and take care , he says i have never talked rudely to dr Jagdish before but now what i can do i know he is my step father so ?? Means since he came to know Jagya is step father Mannu should abuse him ?He does not wish to know about truth , does not wish know about his father from Bimla In fact he does not even remember he has grandmother Bimla he says he has only family that is Pooja and He cook all false stories to show Jagya and Ganga bad , he talks rudely to his great grandmother What is expected from Jagya here ? What a parent should do here ? quietly take the abuse and let him keep abusing them ? Because first time when Mannu talked rude No one said anything to him despite his words pierced them at their hearts but they all were saying he is disturbed but Mannu keeps doing that pretending to be disturbed and the father should let him do that ?This is what people want to say here ?Mannu cheats his parents Instead of going to school he goes somewhere else when father asks him he rudely replies who are you i should give you any explanation ?
Then the father catches the son in his school time bunking school and hugging his girlfriend openly , confessing love to her and when he is questioned on that by his family He again is rude and even try to assassinate the character of his step father on basis of his own fake stories What was expected from Jagya here ? Sit and love Mannu Give explanations to and Mannu would have listened ? Really?Never
if Anandi is fine to give big lecture to her son when he was only making fun of a fictional character on TV Why Jagya was wrong in scolding his son when he first does wrong and then abuse his parents ?Any normal parent will do that but not all children behave like Mannu In our childhood in our teenage we too have got scolding from our parents for our mistakes but we did not run away from home and Mannu what is his problem ? if crazy in his crush he is doing wrong despite knowing it is wrong the blame is on parents not him ?He knows my step father loves me a lot He wont sit with peace will try to search me then why he is doing all this ? If the step father is so bad Mannu can go to hell for him why he will search for him His own son is with him What Mannu gives Jagya ? nothing Jagya does not survive on Mannu's blessings to him but Mannu needs Jagya Mannu does not give any thing to Jagya Jagya has accepted him as his owm son Even all the fun Mannu is having with his girlfriend now is not on his own money but Jagya's stolen money
Mannu is this shameless He knows Jagya loves him a lot Before running away from home He plays a trick on Jagya speaking nicely to him after days , showing a gesture of affection The wounded father gets happy on that and could not analyze the son actually was doing drama to deceive him and run away from home ?
For this boy people are busy blaming Jagya and his approaches ? I beg to differ Mannu has no justification for his behavior and only he is to be blamed
Edited by kikyo - 10 years ago