Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Kundan waited for almost one week and when the time came, he just was in action mode. No niceties.Straight to the business.
This also reflects men and women's attitude towards sex. For women it is romance, for most men it is crude sex.
Urmila is being called filmy. If she wanted some nice talk before, should she be blamed for being filmy? Did she ask Kundan to sing for her?
Urmi was not called filmy rather her knowledge and expectations were termed filmy as opposed to having no idea about how it happens in real life . Her knowledge came only from fictional in this case films.
It is about how ill informed that girl is when it comes to see . Her mother told her all kinds of things but don't seem to have told her what to expect from her first experience with sex.
All this is to tell what happens when two teenagers having no idea about how to go approach physical aspect of a marriage and also about how total ignorance about sex leads to these painful and humiliating experiences.