Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Why Nimboli has not developed aversion for Kundan?
She has aversion to some of his acts not aversion to him per se.
When she went to temple with Akheraj to get Sindoor for Kamili Akheraj's chappal broke and he was unable to walk barefoot on a hot summer day. She had enough compassion to notice that and tell him to go back.
Nimboli experienced that Kundan wanted to touch her and do things. She does not like it.
She created ruckus when he tried to touch her inappropriately she even took out her chaku then she threatened to reveal all this to his parents.Once she even complained to his parents even though she didn't know why he was behaving with her this way.Parents got the point.
But she does not develop any aversion for him.
Don't think she would develop aversion towards fellow human beings.She may develop aversion to some of their acts. She is her mother's daughter in this aspect. 😛😆
She easily went very near him and allowed him to touch her during her brief education experience.
He was the first one to help her with her desire to learn how to read and write.He was showing her how to hold the pen and making her write.There she was more intrigued by the sudden care and concern. It is not the touch but whether it is appropriate or not. While teaching her he wasn't really touching in her appropriately.While walking to school she was scared so he offered his hand Very clever ploy boys use all the time 😆
She saw Kundan mercilessly kicking Gopal.Don't think she approved of that.
She saw him slapping his elder sister.She was the only one who questioned him on that while his mother just watched helplessly
Yet she has not developed aversion for him. No human being should be condemned instead their acts should be condemned.Which she does every time she finds him doing something which she thinks is not right,
She is very happy that he married Urmi.
This is plain ignorance because she doesn't know the meaning of wife marriage wife is like a maid in her dictionary.There is no one to enlighten her about it. Marriage means life long slavery in her husband's house.That's why she wanted Kamili to say no to marriage before she didn't know about Gopal.She thinks Urmi and she will be *house maiding*together.
Agree she is illiterate and uneducated.
But even uneducated do have common sense and some basic knowledge.
Her common sense and basic knowledge wisdome comes from what ever she has learnt and experienced in life.She puts what ever she has learnt in life to good use.Mangala never bothered to correct her assumptions or didn't bother to tell her not to hope for too much🤢
How come Nimbli is like this?
Given the circumstances and people she is surrounded with she turned out fine.It is not just Mangala there was Chagini too who took care of her and watched out for her.In fact that lady is more pro active than Mangala but unlike Mangala who is actually family Chagini is only a maid
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