What's Pyaar ?

😲 Ok, so many of us, including me, are not very supportive of Ananya claiming that she has "fallen in LOVE" with Kabir. Reason being, her complete unawareness of the "Insaan" Kabir Sharma. 😕 All she has seen and known is the "Reporter" Kabir Sharma! Although, the girl hasnt named her feelings yet, but she's on her way to it, for sure! But then, is it really too early? Is knowing a person inside out, outright necessary to fall in love? Dont know, I may sound quite foolish and impractical, but the phrase "falling in love", I thought, comes from the fact that it does not require one's voluntary effort. Do relationships begin only when you have known your partner inside out? Does the very first stimulus to your hypothalamus, actually depend upon what the past of your partner? Can LOVE ever be manipulated? Ananya has known the Insaan Ronnie since all the yrs of her job at KKN. Still she could never bring herself to LOVE Ronnie in the way he does.

awsome thought. loving someone does not require any effort. it happens by its own. and when love happens we eventually came to know about our love's life.

Lovely post and interesting thought process..

Originally posted by: Geetha_R

Lovely post and interesting thought process..

In reality, we can never never know any person inside out, even if we lived together for 100 years. But I do believe you can't fall in love with a person until you know the core of a person, you don't need to know all his likes, dislikes, what he did in the past, and such things. But you should know what sort of individual he / she is, and what makes them tick. Without this understanding, the attraction would never reach the all consuming love stage.

Interesting. If "pyaar" was mere attraction, then we can safely say they have fallen in love (even if Ananya has not hero worshipped Kabir for 8 years). From that angle, what most us call 'pyar' is a manipulation (whether the person is reliable etc) woven around this attraction. In real life, we hardly see any girl falling for a poor boy in street. Attraction with classmates is termed as crush, attraction towards a colleague will be termed as love (which many times would result in marriage as well). From our angle, we call it "understanding". Seen from another side, it could be mere calculation (working condition, monitory implication etc). "Pure love" seems to be a hypothetical content. The love that exists today is, attraction at the core and manipulation/understanding as the periphery.

I completely agree with you...

Originally posted by: Mehek25

Originally posted by BedouinMe...

Ok, so many of us, including me, are not very supportive of Ananya claiming that she has "fallen in LOVE" with Kabir. Reason being, her complete unawareness of the "Insaan" Kabir Sharma. 😕 All she has seen and known is the "Reporter" Kabir Sharma! Although, the girl hasnt named her feelings yet, but she's on her way to it, for sure! But then, is it really too early?Is knowing a person inside out, outright necessary to fall in love? Dont know, I may sound quite foolish and impractical, but the phrase "falling in love", I thought, comes from the fact that it does not require one's voluntary effort. Do relationships begin only when you have known your partner inside out? Does the very first stimulus to your hypothalamus, actually depend upon what the past of your partner? Can LOVE ever be manipulated? Ananya has known the Insaan Ronnie since all the yrs of her job at KKN. Still she could never bring herself to LOVE Ronnie in the way he does.

What I mean to say is, "Jab jaago tab savera".. There is no right or wrong time for confession.. There is no right or wrong person to love.. In its pristine form, its an emotion which can take over any person at anytime. Rather, it is the journey of mutual discovery which follows after speaking your hearts out, that makes or breaks a relationship. In due course of time, Ananya will natural be exposed to the real shades of Kabir Sharma and will get ample of time to decipher this enigma.

I am sorry if my blabbering didnt make any sense!

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Wonderful post dear...superb thoughts you have expressed

@ bold blue...You're bang on target about falling in love...I have always believed that falling in love and loving are different...falling in love on more a fanciful thing...but loving comes over time...you actually begin to love a person when you accept him or her as they are with not only their plusses but also their minus points...when nothing and nobody can create misunderstandings between the two...one can as easily fall out of love as they fall in love but one can never stop loving a person...

These are simply by points of view...