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wow perfect collages gan love each pic n how you said too

agree it was best ep after this past days


n every words you said was true i felt sad for romi too


n most ishra talk n that hug woo the part where adi n ishu talk too was good

Hey overload of collages and such awesome ones!! Such an amazing episode we finally got much needed conversation in their relationship!! Both sorrys were heartfelt and touched our hearts due to the sincerity with which they were told!! Both made mistakes and i m glad they both accepted it!! Acceptance of ur wrong doings is a step towards change and we will surely c some change the way they will be parenting adi here on!! Adi ishita convo was also very heartfelt Nd genuine!!
And the good news about postponement of leap is allowing us to enjoy the episodes to the T!! It was such a feel good episode!! Loved it totally!!
About ishra's relationship going on to the next step i m sure cvs are gonna touch upon ishita's insecurities through it!! Her change of expression when raman mentioned about trying for their child was evident of that fact!! She had made peace with her medical condition that she cant concieve and has given her everything to his kids raising them as her own this sudden ray of hope which raman is continuously infusing in her going to shake her inside and yes she seems reluctant to proceed not because she doesnt want to but because she is afraid of being disappointed again being rejected of the happiness again in her life and more over disappointing raman who looks so keen on giving her her own child!! I hope cvs adress ishita's inner turmoil sensibly and i am actually looking forward to c how they show ishita reaching a point where she decides to bear raman's child not because raman wants it but because she wants to have one!! As this transition for her is not as easy as it may seem it will take hell lot of courage to build the hopes around something which is remotely likely to happen and building your world around it!! As if that comes crashing down again then u r left with nothing but mere dejection and depression!!

Originally posted by: mreshma

@green In that case, when he is so openly speaking with her about this matter, what is holding her back from spilling out her insecurities to him? I think he is giving much space to his wife because time and again he have asked her to speak her mind, haven't he? As you said, he at present is thinking about giving her that ultimate bliss of being a mother to her own child (that too after getting clarifications on her medical state) because even though he know that she really loves him, knowingly or unknowingly she have created the impression in his mind that she gives primary importance to her maternal feelings(instances are plenty). So, automatically his thought is, the best way to give the love of his life her ultimate happiness is having her own baby as a result of their love. Doesn't that show that his love for her is unique and different than a normal husband-wife love?

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Gan, overdose of collages today? Me complaining? Hell NO! #LoveGansCollagesAlways!

And Aru your gifs- soo in love with them...

In terms of what I wish to say Becky has said it all. I loved Ishra, IshAdi, Toshi-Romi, Bala-family, Mihika-ACP hug- all the scenes. Everything appeared so natural today - no big bang drama.

I dont know why Raman keeps harping about the baby to Ishita. I dont think Ishita has ever hesitated to take the relationship to the next level, they have always been interrupted by some issue or another! The chances of conceiving r so slim plus it may even be dangerous for her due to her medical history! And then in their fights too, he keeps talking about how she is not a mom, etc. It seems to me that Raman is even more obsessed with the baby than Subbu or his mom were. He may think he wants to give happiness to Ishita but constantly talking about it is only going to put more pressure on her to deliver so to speak, so as to not disappoint him and herself. Right now she is happy with the two kids. In fact that seems to be scaring her more than the physical intimacy aspect. He should just make her happy and do it for love. if it happens great, else he should not keep reminding her about it.

I love IshRa for what they are! It is just constant Ishita bashing and ShaRam wanting ppl that I cant understand...

Anyways why worry about the future? just enjoy each day as it comes...😆

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

First things first amazing edits as usual, your collages are one of the only reasons why I feel like watching this show. So after a span of 2 months, this might the first episode I watched and boy oh boy was I happy to watch this one!

OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG they talked! I cannot believe that the subtlety and maturity retuned to YHM once again! Someone pinch me...am I dreaming!

I loved how natural the conversation was, there weren't any gimmicks, no heavy dialogues, just two individuals talking about an eventful day while reminiscing about their beautiful past with their eyes sparkling with hope for the future.

Isn't it love of the most purest kind when you wanna create a life together, you deem someone worthy enough to be the mother/father of your child, and what better compliment to give than asking your love to be the mother of your children, call me a hopeless romantic but puttar wanting to create a new life together with the missus has my heart racing. Old school thinking: yes, I know children aren't the be all end all of a relationship but just the thought that your significant other considers you worthy enough to be a parent to their children is just oh so romantic! Apologies for my archaic thinking in this very instant. But puttat!!!!!!

I loved Romi and Mrs. Bhalla scene, there comes an age when you think about settling down, and start thinking about your own family and the fact that you lost it all after having it all is heart breaking. Aly and Mrs. Bhalla stole the show, they were brilliant!

And the Adi - Ishimaa scene was such a #feels scene, I loved the regret in Adi and the maturity in Ishita. Adi felt horrible that his Ishimaa had to apologize to him and Ishita felt imperative to apologize to her son, such a well written and enacted scene! I loved the vulnerability in this scene between a teenager and a parent, both trying to learn the ropes of this new tremulous relationship.

I can go on and on about the conversation between puttar and missus but I will stop here because nothing I say or write will do justice to the amazingly written dialogues, topnotch enactment by KP and DT, and just the overall subtlety, maturity and the realistic aspect of that conversation. I LOVED it! Both of them accepted their mistakes, acknowledged each other's and their own shortcoming but most importantly took corrective steps to fix the problem. Wish this maturity and subtlety is here to stay, as puttar says, aakhir umeed pe toh duniya kayam hai!

When I watched the vulnerability of a husband and a wife trying to plan their future while sorting through their messy past, I was reminded of this beautiful SD Burman song from the movie Abhimaan, called Tere Mere Milan ki yeh raina. Ending with the song, I think it fits perfectly for puttar-missus situation. There is so much tenderness, hope and melancholic pain in this song, very similar to puttar and missus relationship.

Here is the song for anyone who hasn't had the chance to listen to this wonderful gem.

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8IVa-7-2_w[/YOUTUBE]

Tere mere milan ki raina

O tere mere milan ki raina

Naya koi gul khilayegi

Naya koi gul khilayegi

Tabhi to chanchal hain tere naina

Dekho na dekho naa

Tere mere milan ki raina

nanha sa gul khilaiga angna

Sooni banyaan sajaigi sajna

Jaisay khailay chanda baadal mein

Khailaiga woh tere aanchal mein

Chandania gungunaayegi chandania gungunaayegi

Tabhi to chanchal hain tere naina

Dekho na dekho na

Tere mere milan ki ye raina

Thank you so much everyone for your write ups, Gifs ... I have said it before but will say it again that I truly feel lucky that you guys choose to post here as it enriches the thread and my own enjoyment of YHM .. And it's for people like you I still come to the forum as I can freely gush , criticize and rant about YHM knowing that you guys will know it's my love for the story and its character talking .. Not any personal agenda or vendetta against anyone. Thank you for giving me this corner .. Yes I open the thread but without your contributions .. It would mean nothing

Originally posted by: -Gan-

when we have the biggest fear of failing, what do we do? We avoid facing it... Ishita probably is scared( rightfully so as she knows her chances of conceiving are minimal) that she would not be able to conceive and in the process disappoint Raman. A person who since they diagnosed her infertility has dealt with rejection over and over again...for her it's not that easy to overcome that insecurity or share that ..because it's deep seated. As much as I get Raman's desire to make her happy, I also get Ishita's fear of disappointing Raman. They are both coming from the same place .. Their love for the other and care for others happiness. My only issue is probably Raman in not realizing with the mention of baby every now and then, he's inadvertently increasing the fear of failing in her. Like Anku mentioned in her post it might be just a way Indian Telly works where talking about 'lovemaking' is still a taboo and hence the mention of procreating... I was coming more from a realistic scenario :)

And you might be right about the 6 month thing.. He was probably trying to lighten the situation . Thanks :)

Gan...As always you managed to capture the perfect moments beautifully!! Lovely collages!!! 👍🏼👍🏼

You said it all...

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Sunita while I agree about the fact that Raman needs to curtail his ' let's make baby' talk, I disagree that he's like subbu or his mom... Raman's desire for Ishita's baby comes from his love to give her the ultimate happiness of child bearing, as she's been hurt so many times by people with the tag 'baanj' .. Remember he started the talk only after the medical report that there are chances of her conceiving .that is his love for Ishita talking..not just his desire for progeny which is subbu or his mom's wish. There is a big difference there .. Right?

Yes the below the belt blows about Ishima from Raman are crass but this time he apologized .. So I see it as a positive development...during fights we hurl mean things at our spouses.. So long as there is acknowledgement and apology in follow up.. It's easy to forgive... It is true in any couple's relationship real or reel. So this time Raman did the right thing. What do you say? 😊