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Posted: 10 years ago
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It hurts so much
Not to have you by my side
Not to be around you
Not to be with you
You're the pain that I won't give up...


Finally I watched the scene between Nachiket and Super Nani. A lot has already been said about it, but still I wanted to share my thoughts about it since some time ago I had made a post about their relationship https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/itna-karo-na-mujhe-pyaar/4358022/mera-nachiket

Among all the family members, Super Nani is one such woman who not only remembers NeiRa's relationship but truly understands the importance too. She suffers from Alzheimer but she has never ever forgotten that Ragini belongs to Nachiket and vice versa. That is the beauty of her character.

Personally, I loved the scene for the obvious reason named Ronit Roy (he absolutely nailed it) but let's dig deeper into this and see it from the character's POV.

Nachiket Khanna aka Dr. Neil Khanna is a successful cardiologist so professional this man has made it big but on a personal level his life is not all about roses. A divorcee for more than 15 years lives with his 3 kids and sister in the US. Destiny made him come back to India for his daughter's wedding only to encounter with his ex-wife after many long years of separation. Things seemed to go well for some time but even that didn't last for too long. Again, their ways parted and this time even more bitter than before. For the sake of his daughter, Nachiket came back to India apart from his daughter's marital issues he also had to deal with Ragini who has decided to move on...with someone else.

Like Nachiket told Super Nani that he has always shown the world he doesn't care what Ragini does or not but the truth is that it is exactly her which keeps his mind occupied ever since. No matter how much he tries but Ragini will always affect him; whether it is her smile which gives him an inner peace or her tears which make his heart cry out in pain.

I haven't watched the show in few weeks now, only some scenes so I can't say much about Nachiket's behavior and body language when he is around Ragini and Aman. However, his conversation which Super Nani was enough for me to understand that Nachiket is suffering ever since he saw that ring on her finger. And honestly, he has the right to feel sad about it because that is something nobody can take away from him. Yes, we all have our opinions about Nachiket and what kind of father/husband he has been. Even I don't fully support some of his actions and words he has said to Ragini but the tears in his eyes were genuine and straight from his torn apart heart.

Nachiket is not the type of man who cries easily; always trying to cover up his feelings with 'fake'' smiles, work or any other thing that diverts his mind from his pain. But even the walls of the strongest men do shatter; hence Nachiket got his first downfall. Each and every tear come from the indigestible fact of Ragini accepting someone else in her life and this time it has hit him hard...

Some of you might think that Super Nani wasn't the right one to break down in front of, because what can she possible change to the current situation. Perhaps not much (or maybe a lot if her character is used well) but even though if she isn't the one who can bring them together, I still do think that for now Super Nani was the right choice. Like she said, he is a son to her and she has a special place in her heart for him. Sometimes, all a person needs is someone's shoulder to cry on just to vent out the pain which the person has been holding on for a long time. That is exactly what happened yesterday...


'Mein abhi zinda hoon...''

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Super Nani is THE ONLY RIGHT person for him to share his inner feelings,he can't share with kids,friends are useless (all 3)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Friends are a big time failure, even the kids do ''understand'' him better at times...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Narges
Big tight hug ... Whoa, Oh yeah... So emotional

You are Right, Not only friends with a sister like PAM and a wife like Ragini... he's going through hell.

Btw... he is Our Nachiket... Don't call him Neil atleast not you
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@metoyou ..
Good to see you writing something other than Joyride, after a long long time .. Hope we get more from you .. I really loved your last such topic exploring Nachiket and Badi Nani's relationship ..

I too think .. Badi Nani is THE ONLY right person with whom he could share his feelings .. People share their feelings with them .. who understand them .. His friends are useless .. and he cannot share such things with his kids .. Ashaben is a non-living entity in the family .. So this leaves him with only Badi Nani .. who understands him too well ..


After this conversation .. I'm convinced .. for him .. Ragini is Priceless ..

Only weakness of his character is his .. constant jealousy .. on seeing Ragini and Aman together .. That is quite visible .. I wish he 'hides' everything within himself .. Stop finding faults wit Dr Aman all the time .. and accept and respect Ragini's decision to move on ..

He's left with his destiny to cry .. No one can help ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vidya_Bng

Narges

Big tight hug ... Whoa, Oh yeah... So emotional

You are Right, Not only friends with a sister like PAM and a wife like Ragini... he's going through hell.

Btw... he is Our Nachiket... Don't call him Neil atleast not you


Vidi! (Congrats on your new nickname) 😆 Hug to you!

It made me cry too and I have watched the scene more than once! 😭
Arre Neil was only for the 'aka' part...of course he is our Nachiket 😳

So was this enough to make it up to you? 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: metoyou


Vidi! (Congrats on your new nickname) 😆 Hug to you!

It made me cry too and I have watched the scene more than once! 😭
Arre Neil was only for the 'aka' part...of course he is our Nachiket 😳

So was this enough to make it up to you? 😉


You seriously mean to call her .. " Bidi " ? Haha .. 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: BlueMoon8

@metoyou ..

Good to see you writing something other than Joyride, after a long long time .. Hope we get more from you .. I really loved your last such topic exploring Nachiket and Badi Nani's relationship ..

I too think .. Badi Nani is THE ONLY right person with whom he could share his feelings .. People share their feelings with them .. who understand them .. His friends are useless .. and he cannot share such things with his kids .. Ashaben is a non-living entity in the family .. So this leaves him with only Badi Nani .. who understands him too well ..


After this conversation .. I'm convinced .. for him .. Ragini is Priceless ..

Only weakness of his character is his .. constant jealousy .. on seeing Ragini and Aman together .. That is quite visible .. I wish he 'hides' everything within himself .. Stop finding faults wit Dr Aman all the time .. and accept and respect Ragini's decision to move on ..

He's left with his destiny to cry .. No one can help ..


Thanks buddy, it was actually you who gave me that little push to write something about it (again). Not sure if it has added anything but just wanted to share my views with you all.

The scene was so emotional and painful. Seeing Nachiket in that halaat was just 😭 Thank God he vented out his pain and luckily she understands him very well.

Of course, if Nachiket wants Ragini back in his life then some serious efforts need to be made by him and a few changes in his characters... someone has to take the first step, so why not him... but then yes, she has to show a bit of trust too...

Complicated case I tell you!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: BlueMoon8


You seriously mean to call her .. " Bidi " ? Haha .. 🤣 🤣


Where did that come from, Bidi?! 😆😆😆 Dude wake up, I said VIDI 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautifully written.
He should not let her go! Fight for her if you love her so much. She is never going to be happy with Aman. Will Nachiket be happy seeing her unhappy, I don't think so.

If he lets her go, there is nothing more in the show.

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