You know Raman overall is a good intentioned person...he has anger issues with a sharp tongue. It doesn't correct anything, but there are people like that who exist in the world, who are happily married.
I've seen such a couple in life, and they are successful in their relationship bc the spouse handles the anger once things cool off. They talk about what happened and the one with an anger issue works on holding their tongue.
The reason Raman seems like an extraordinarily hard person to live with is bc there is no debrief or follow up to the fights. Both Ishita & Raman appear to forget, which would never work in the real world.
For all his flaws - Raman is an family man who is passionate & will move heaven & hell for his loved ones. He has made his in-laws as his own family and works hard just for the happiness of others. He's by no means perfect, but he's not ill-intentioned.
But not everyone can live with such a person - it takes a special person to manage someone with a sharp tongue, and Ishita is coming into form as his "takrar ki Biwi" per the OLV.
So idk how if I could or could not live with such a person because I have never had that as an option. Just my two cents though!
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Edited by -K.13- - 10 years ago
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