Trying times....strategic measures

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RTee

@RTee

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Posted: 10 years ago

Kamli is in pain. Her life is turned on its head. These are trying times for her. And her MIL has taken it upon her to pacify Kamli, to quieten the fires burning within. Her arguments are powerful. She may eventually succeed. Appealing to Kamli's inherent goodness is good strategy.

Mannu is hurting. His life too has turned upside down. He is looking for solace. Ganga and Dadisa are trying to pacify him. But not succeeding. DadiSa is again speaking ill of his Dad. Bad strategy.

Kundan is agitated. His alliance is broken. Nimboli is besting him at each step. His hormones are working overtime. He has changed strategies. Will he succeed. Or in trying to educate Nimboli, will he create a monster.

Nimboli/Nandini is unable to forget Gopal's death. She forgets for a while and something triggers old memories. Will Kundan succeed in earning her trust for his own purpose by using education as a ruse. She does not understand his motives enough to devise strategies.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Loved Kamli's MIL's dialogues today. They hit the right nerve with Kamli. MIL has set a very low threshold for Kamli-Pushkar relationship. She just wants Kamli to be a friend to him. This Should be doable for Kamli.

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RTee

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Posted: 10 years ago

Like Kamli, Mannu too has been hurt by his parents. But instead of seeing things from his point of view, they are insisting that he blindly accept their version of the facts and life should go on as usual. Is anyone trying to understand Mannu?

Telling him repeatedly that your father was very bad, he hurt your mom and tried to burn us down, he beat you mercilessly (need to see where this happened), is not going to do the trick. It will make Mannu all the more stubborn.

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Posted: 10 years ago

no comments on ds saying only half truth to mannu about ratan .my blood was boiling when she told ony half truth and did not say ratan saved mannu life

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Vidya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: RTee
Loved Kamli's MIL's dialogues today. They hit the right nerve with Kamli. MIL has set a very low threshold for Kamli-Pushkar relationship. She just wants Kamli to be a friend to him. This Should be doable for Kamli.

yes, pushkar's mom was great today. It was very touching when she said if I had a daughter I would never marry her to a boy like Pushkar. As a mother, it was so difficult for her to say it.

She ended the conversation well by saying if not a wife, at least be his friend. I think she noticed it that Kamli was getting irritated with her son's behavior.

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RTee

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Posted: 10 years ago

DadiSa also forgot to tell Mannu that he was burning the haveli because he wanted Mannu.

Time someone told Mannu the entire truth.

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Vidya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: RTee
Like Kamli, Mannu too has been hurt by his parents. But instead of seeing things from his point of view, they are insisting that he blindly accept their version of the facts and life should go on as usual. Is anyone trying to understand Mannu?

Telling him repeatedly that your father was very bad, he hurt your mom and tried to burn us down, he beat you mercilessly (need to see where this happened), is not going to do the trick. It will make Mannu all the more stubborn.

she told only bad things about ratan and when back answered, jagya raised his hand. How unfair was that.

They are actually making him rebellious by not understanding what he is going through. If he starts following a wrong path out of frustration, only this Singh family will be responsible.

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anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

Kamli'a mother in law's sensible strategy will make Kamli consider her request . Though the lady may not be much educated but but she knows how to forward her cause. She accepts that she has done injustice to Kamli when she proposed for her son's rishta for her and now relying only on Kamli's innate goodness to accept her relationship with Pushkar if not as a wife then at least as a friend. Never she taunted Kamli for the disgrace she subjected them eloping just before marriage with her son.

On the other hand DS and J are only making things difficult for themselves by bitching against mannu's father whom he holds in high esteem since he has not got time to access him for himself.

In today's world no 16 year old teenager will like to get slapped even in ordinary circumstances but J is raising hand to slap Mannu when he is going through the worst phase of his life till now. 😲

If left to himself Mannu may slowly comeback to the fold with time if handled sensibly but BH folk is busy nursing their own hurt due to Mannu's rude behaviour instead of understanding Mannu's hurt . THey are trying to justify their own stand instead of seeing things from Mannu's POV.

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Btw liked DS's dialogue to J that he too committed same mistake when was of Mannu's age. So true , he too was stubborn when he himself refused to see things from Bharon sumita's POV . ⭐️

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Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

Firstly, no one corrects Ganga about the mistake she did. Jagya and ds are totally siding with her and expecting mannu to adjust.

Secondly they tell and repeat that half truth bull crap. How about telling mannu their own stories too?

Shameless ds and jagya.

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anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: RTee
DadiSa also forgot to tell Mannu that he was burning the haveli because he wanted Mannu.

Time someone told Mannu the entire truth.

She could have told him that though his father was a bad person initially but he realized his mistakes and in the end himself wanted Mannu to be raised by Jagan after he saved Mannu's life..

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